So sorry for you, OP. It will be a very hard decision to make, and a painful healing, but you won't be able to avoid the inevitable…
When you choose your life partner, both the emotional (chemistry, attraction) and the rationale (compatibility, behaviours) sides need to be aligned or adaptable. She doesn't love you, she doesn't respect you. You're under her influence, and she knows she can keep on sleeping with her coworker in peace as you'll never leave her.
You can't control your feelings, but you can control your thinking and make decisions that will give you a chance to be fulfilled in the future, maybe with someone who respects and (genuinely) loves you.
yeah. Why is he worried about the dude? That guy clearly doesn’t have an issue with you. He should be concerned with your feelings.
So sorry for you, OP. It will be a very hard decision to make, and a painful healing, but you won't be able to avoid the inevitable…
When you choose your life partner, both the emotional (chemistry, attraction) and the rationale (compatibility, behaviours) sides need to be aligned or adaptable. She doesn't love you, she doesn't respect you. You're under her influence, and she knows she can keep on sleeping with her coworker in peace as you'll never leave her.
You can't control your feelings, but you can control your thinking and make decisions that will give you a chance to be fulfilled in the future, maybe with someone who respects and (genuinely) loves you.