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While I understand the need to feel secure. This is what woke society has done. It has you so much in your head you are killing the passion in your relationship.
I’d personally wouldn’t want anything to do with a person who felt this is necessary.
Soooo….you want to stick your wee little willy into basically anything and everything you can. When you take your “dates” to coffee shops and what not near campus, you expect the anything and everything you mooooost likely are going to run into, to what? Turn tail and leave? Child, the world doesn’t revolve around your wee little willy and you. Get over your fragile willy-I mean ego. Actually, please remember to wrap up wee little willy…the rate you are going, you are a walking STD factory by summer.
The fact that he was so quick to return the gift and regift him something else as soon as you brought him him wooing him is kinds eye opening. If you can honestly believe your husband as he was lying to you about everything else, then that's on you.
That’s pretty good advice honestly. I didn’t feel like it needed to go as far as him beating anyone up of course, but I feel like if someone did that to someone I love I’d be really angry and tell them to F off. I was the one that had to retort back, I was the one that told the bartender. All my boyfriend did was sit there. I just wanted SOME action to know that I’m worth fighting for or at the very least important to him. But I see what you’re saying
He absolutely has a crush on her. Which is harmless enough unless she is reciprocating and feels the same way. Then, it's at least an emotional affair.
This is very bizarre behavior. He must be very mentally ill to say the least. For the record, I have suffered from depression most of my life, and it never even occurred to me to pee anywhere other than the toilet. I don't get it at all.
Is your wife over-sensitive about this particular situation because you have had a very hot time setting boundaries in the past because of your avoidance of confrontation?
Getting into any financial agreement with family is always always tricky. Only invest what you plan on never seeing again.
From the outside looking in, how the hell is this any of your problem? Your dad wants a free lunch for his other offspring. Unless you want to provide said free lunch, then don't do it.
The cherry on top is that starting anything with veiled threats is a red flag and should be a warning of things to come.
If it’s an IUD similar to Mirena it actually can be removed at any time if she chooses and it’s possible to start trying to get pregnant right after. Although there’s still a strong chance she may not want to get pregnant ever, I think this is an important bit of info.
There's also the fact that we are only 5 months out from the wedding. Everything is booked and paid for, and the invites have been sent out. Not to mention we've already booked flights for our honeymoon.
There is so much that would be lost if I choose to delay the wedding. I know this shouldn't be a priority but I grew up in a household struggling with money, and for all this to go to waste doesn't sit well with me.
If I could get him to go counselling now, we might have enough time to salvage this and not cancel anything. I guess i'm really asking how to approach him about getting therapy in a way that he'll potentially agree to.
Writing it out makes it seem way worse than I expected. It seems naked to believe he doesn't know he is doing this again. What was your last talk on this like?
We Latinos don't need your fucking “well off country” savior complex “help” so you can feel better about yourself. Maybe if you were going over there for a whole month and actually helped I'd be on your side, but one day?? What are you gonna do in one day that truly makes an impact?? If your “individuality” was feeding your savior complex and ego then your fiance is right and if I were him I'd run from you.
Guys like this enjoy the ego boost from getting attention from a younger woman. The age difference gives him the advantage as well, because his brain is done growing, while you still have up to a few years of brain growth left. It makes you more vulnerable. Both my husband and I tend to walk around without our wedding rings on, but that is a sensory issue for us (we are autistic). It sounds more like this guy is trying to hide his marriage status at work because most women will ignore a married guy. This guy does not want to be ignored.
Whether or not this guy is a narcissist, I can’t tell because I don’t have enough information, but it’s often narcissistic type people who cheat because they need the attention. Dr. Ramani on YouTube is an expert on narcissism, I suggest looking her up.
As far as getting over this guy, you need to start grey rocking him. Ignore him when you can and be boring and robotic when you can’t. Narcissists can’t stand being grey rocked and will often do something to try to shock a reaction out of you. So be prepared for that. But honestly, if he does something to shock you, you have more evidence of narcissism.
Ummmm ok fair enough but literally taking shots from a bottle he pulled out of his bag? Hella weird ngl. I’m not saying don’t trust anyone ever but if some dude comes up to me and asks me to have a drink with him after knowing him for 30 min (especially not even a drink in a bar) I’d be like no thanks. Then exchanging numbers? Just kind of weird imo. I am def with OP that he’s not TA. He’s concerned for his girlfriends well-being.
While I understand the need to feel secure. This is what woke society has done. It has you so much in your head you are killing the passion in your relationship.
I’d personally wouldn’t want anything to do with a person who felt this is necessary.
hell no
you want to go through a very painful and expensive procedure just to maybe get more girls?
bruh are you dumb
also do you think that you will magically get girls when you become 5'11? the answer is no
my 5'6″ friend never had any issues with height and can easily get with girls because he is charming and confident af
does being taller help? yes, but its not everything
honestly if you dont get girls now at 5'7″ which isnt even THAT bad, being taller probably wont help you
you will just end up with destroyed legs and wasted money
So how are you surviving? Do you have something coming in?
Soooo….you want to stick your wee little willy into basically anything and everything you can. When you take your “dates” to coffee shops and what not near campus, you expect the anything and everything you mooooost likely are going to run into, to what? Turn tail and leave? Child, the world doesn’t revolve around your wee little willy and you. Get over your fragile willy-I mean ego. Actually, please remember to wrap up wee little willy…the rate you are going, you are a walking STD factory by summer.
showing up to someone's house who is ignoring you is never the answer
Your husband is a moron. Leave him immediately.
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okay, is there anything else i can do to maybe enforce it?
They're probably a troll
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The fact that he was so quick to return the gift and regift him something else as soon as you brought him him wooing him is kinds eye opening. If you can honestly believe your husband as he was lying to you about everything else, then that's on you.
Nope.
You realise you’re acting like a fucking idiot, right?
He got a DNA test done in 3 days or did he only tell you after the DNA test?
That’s pretty good advice honestly. I didn’t feel like it needed to go as far as him beating anyone up of course, but I feel like if someone did that to someone I love I’d be really angry and tell them to F off. I was the one that had to retort back, I was the one that told the bartender. All my boyfriend did was sit there. I just wanted SOME action to know that I’m worth fighting for or at the very least important to him. But I see what you’re saying
He absolutely has a crush on her. Which is harmless enough unless she is reciprocating and feels the same way. Then, it's at least an emotional affair.
This is very bizarre behavior. He must be very mentally ill to say the least. For the record, I have suffered from depression most of my life, and it never even occurred to me to pee anywhere other than the toilet. I don't get it at all.
When window shopping goes wrong. Talking and occasional visits is not a relationship, sounds more like a child custody agreement.
Is your wife over-sensitive about this particular situation because you have had a very hot time setting boundaries in the past because of your avoidance of confrontation?
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Getting into any financial agreement with family is always always tricky. Only invest what you plan on never seeing again.
From the outside looking in, how the hell is this any of your problem? Your dad wants a free lunch for his other offspring. Unless you want to provide said free lunch, then don't do it.
The cherry on top is that starting anything with veiled threats is a red flag and should be a warning of things to come.
If it’s an IUD similar to Mirena it actually can be removed at any time if she chooses and it’s possible to start trying to get pregnant right after. Although there’s still a strong chance she may not want to get pregnant ever, I think this is an important bit of info.
There's also the fact that we are only 5 months out from the wedding. Everything is booked and paid for, and the invites have been sent out. Not to mention we've already booked flights for our honeymoon.
There is so much that would be lost if I choose to delay the wedding. I know this shouldn't be a priority but I grew up in a household struggling with money, and for all this to go to waste doesn't sit well with me.
If I could get him to go counselling now, we might have enough time to salvage this and not cancel anything. I guess i'm really asking how to approach him about getting therapy in a way that he'll potentially agree to.
Writing it out makes it seem way worse than I expected. It seems naked to believe he doesn't know he is doing this again. What was your last talk on this like?
We Latinos don't need your fucking “well off country” savior complex “help” so you can feel better about yourself. Maybe if you were going over there for a whole month and actually helped I'd be on your side, but one day?? What are you gonna do in one day that truly makes an impact?? If your “individuality” was feeding your savior complex and ego then your fiance is right and if I were him I'd run from you.
Never ever share this again, with anyone, please.
Guys like this enjoy the ego boost from getting attention from a younger woman. The age difference gives him the advantage as well, because his brain is done growing, while you still have up to a few years of brain growth left. It makes you more vulnerable. Both my husband and I tend to walk around without our wedding rings on, but that is a sensory issue for us (we are autistic). It sounds more like this guy is trying to hide his marriage status at work because most women will ignore a married guy. This guy does not want to be ignored.
Whether or not this guy is a narcissist, I can’t tell because I don’t have enough information, but it’s often narcissistic type people who cheat because they need the attention. Dr. Ramani on YouTube is an expert on narcissism, I suggest looking her up.
As far as getting over this guy, you need to start grey rocking him. Ignore him when you can and be boring and robotic when you can’t. Narcissists can’t stand being grey rocked and will often do something to try to shock a reaction out of you. So be prepared for that. But honestly, if he does something to shock you, you have more evidence of narcissism.
Ummmm ok fair enough but literally taking shots from a bottle he pulled out of his bag? Hella weird ngl. I’m not saying don’t trust anyone ever but if some dude comes up to me and asks me to have a drink with him after knowing him for 30 min (especially not even a drink in a bar) I’d be like no thanks. Then exchanging numbers? Just kind of weird imo. I am def with OP that he’s not TA. He’s concerned for his girlfriends well-being.
I will bear this is mind, thank you for that insight
* I already have my mind made up I’m going to rush and have signed up for recruitment*
Yay! I hope you have a grand time (but be safe!).
Btw? You are not chattel. He does not get to say what you can or cannot do.