I was in a similar situation several years ago and chose to keep quiet. Things escalated a lot, to the point where I was afraid to be home alone, because my silence was taken as interest, I believe. The whole thing was a shit show when I eventually decided I had to tell my husband— if I had told him to start with our relationship wouldn’t have suffered and they could have started working things out from a much easier place.
I've only stayed friends with exes I didn't have feelings for. If i was wanting to give the relationship an honest chance, I would because that person's insecurities would be something we work out together. If i didn't care one way or the other, no. It depends who matters more. I wouldn't have personal one on one contact with the ex but they'd have to give some serious valid arguments to give up all my friends. I would only do it if they were willing to do the same for my insecurities. That's just me and ik relationships aren't easy and requires same effort from both.
Why weren’t you invited?
Sir there’s 250 comments so the answer is NO I did not read thru them ?
I was in a similar situation several years ago and chose to keep quiet. Things escalated a lot, to the point where I was afraid to be home alone, because my silence was taken as interest, I believe. The whole thing was a shit show when I eventually decided I had to tell my husband— if I had told him to start with our relationship wouldn’t have suffered and they could have started working things out from a much easier place.
I've only stayed friends with exes I didn't have feelings for. If i was wanting to give the relationship an honest chance, I would because that person's insecurities would be something we work out together. If i didn't care one way or the other, no. It depends who matters more. I wouldn't have personal one on one contact with the ex but they'd have to give some serious valid arguments to give up all my friends. I would only do it if they were willing to do the same for my insecurities. That's just me and ik relationships aren't easy and requires same effort from both.
I'm going to give him an ultimatum. Either he goes to counseling or we are through.