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Yes they are
Either get a divorce or stay in… She deserves your fidelity if you did not get a go on opening up the relationship
I guess I should jab added we are in the middle of a breakup because I caught him messaging other people on dating websites the other day. He insists there’s nothing. So thinking about that and this person it’s like what are the chances he’s not talking to them to?
Ight was just a joke I’ll delete it
DUDE HAHAHA. start putting it at that guys desk ?????
I would find someone local.
Yea I understand that. It just doesn't feel right to ne from what you've said so far.
When you went into the business what did they say? Did the person on the phone just say what they wanted and hang up?
If you’re too uncomfortable to say if it fits you or not, or if you think that’s unimportant to answer, that’s fine. I was offering help if you needed it, if you don’t, no worries and good luck to you both.
Yeah, I wouldn't
Change your locks then call a divorce lawyer and a family law lawyer. You will have to fight him in court to take away his custody rights.
She's gaslighting her husband. Genders reversed and this hottake wouldn't be here. She manipulates, and orders him around, then convinces him he's the issue. I agree poverty makes everything in life harder. Even just being a relatively healthy human being but it's not an excuse for this. I
Sorry you two are going through this OP. Can't imagine my reaction
Unless his main goal is sex and not a relationship, I can’t imagine he’d decide he wanted to try something and then go find someone to do it with him. I’m not going to leave someone I love because I got curious about handcuffs.
You're being petty and small. You don't know their situation and you are wrong to judge without full picture. This is a deal killer fir me. Let it go.
Keep us updated on how the party goes! And keep an eye out for party crashers
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Oh honey, he does know. He’s 47, he’s got plenty experience. There is no excuse to not know. It’s probably the reason why his ex didn’t want to have sex often. He knows, he just doesn’t seem to care.
Why bring the hair up at all if it wasn't suspicious to you .
yeah i will thanks
Talk to his wife and see if she is just as uncomfortable with the situation. Your wife is emotionally cheating with him and is becoming invested in his life. They acted weird around you which either says he emotionally cheating to or he is really uncomfortable with her behavior. You could also call him from her phone and see what he says, if he hangs up, or he sends her a text. Good luck
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This the best you've got?
So, apparently that's how friendship works, they just kind of… happen? Without any kind of confirmation? Like, you start talking to someone and they talk back and then at some point they just consider you a friend? I don't really understand these things. I am terrible at social interaction, and I pick up on almost zero social cues (I'm being tested for autism right now lol), but there have been several instances where I consider someone an “acquaintance” to find out later they consider me a “friend”. What helps me is to literally clarify it. The people who think it's weird are not people I want in my life anyway. I'll literally tell someone “Hey, I'm really bad at social stuff, but do you want to be friends?”. Mostly they laugh and say yes and now we both know that we're friends and to do the friend things
What is it about the tongue ring you hate so much? Like, does it make it more difficult to kiss? Does it cause discomfort w oral? Does she make annoying sounds, or does it effect her speech? You can’t even really see a tongue ring.
You don’t think they are capable of misbehaving on their own initiative?
What I’m saying is that we’ve gone out.
But, I’m seeing that’s he’s adding girls to his social who are way younger
He just moved
I work a night shift.. my husband watches my daughter when I work.
So she’s asleep most of the time?
Is my child supposed to be at home all day with me until she moves out?
Oh. So that’s why you are confused. You don’t understand that kids eventually become self sufficient and go to school but you don’t understand that a 4 year old child isn’t.
I was a stay at home mother for the first 3 1/2 years of my daughters life.. she’s 4.
Now that I’m working, I’m not doing my job as a mother?
You just said you sent her to daycare. So technically no. Someone else is doing it for 15 hours a week while your husband takes a lot of the other slack.
You are doing some.
Oh GOD!!! WHY DID I READ THIS? I feel sick! How is she even with him? I couldn’t stomach it! Couldn’t even stomach reading about it ffs
So he didn’t even try to talk about and just left, did he say anything about stopping?
Well… you broke his phone. This isn’t a serious question?
What made her spill the beans now?
I'd tactfully untactfully ask him if he's coming down with a medical issue. He never used to fart and now he is all the time. Maybe he needs a Dr or a diet change. Make it about his health but that you noticed he's farting a lot. You can't win with guys your either a jerk for saying farting is gross or your stuck with a human fumigator
After the update, this is definitely a romantic gesture that went wrong. He must be used to dating. Especially if he told his family about all about you. In a couple kind of way . Lol…how strange !
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Got to love when Reddit says go straight for the juggular and divorce is the thing that should be done before people have communication.
OP needs to get with her husband and go to financial peace university.
Finances don’t have to be the reason most married couples divorce.
He may be afraid of getting hurt or separates the initial crush emotions from love. Maybe you could ask him how he defines love?
That poor woman, I hope she got away ok.
Yes I take your point about back stories, I hadn’t really thought about that aspect of it tho I do remember a few being really nonchalant about the whole process. I was very young tho so my memory may be a tad skewed. Tbh the whole time I was there haunted me
Why would you turn a blind eye to someone doing drugs and sleeping with other people?
Is this really stable to bring a child into?
Why would you turn a blind eye to someone doing drugs and sleeping with other people?
Is this really stable to bring a child into?
Let me rephrase myself here: I signed up for the tomato’s thrown at my head, I get it. It is messy. You have every right to say these things to me.
I work in an industry where this behavior- and sloppier- is totally cool, no issues. I have been in it for years, thus have a hard time figuring out what the problem is aside from someone being controlling over others feelings, desires, and sexual agency. I admit I have desensitized myself to regular logic. The semantics I omitted were that my brother in law was fine engaging in some very sexual behaviors with all of us as a group until it came to the clothes being removed. I naively assumed that if he and I didn’t engage with eachother physically, everything would be fine, because my friends feelings and comfort and desires took precedence to possessiveness. I thought this was going to be an equally casual “good time” and I guess I’m blindsided that it isn’t.
I do still firmly believe that your thought that this was just to get my brother in laws attention is totally misogynistic. To believe that sexual agency is for attention is totally bent. Sorry.
If you want romantic, look at Deadpool 2, where Vanessa presents Wade with her IUD as a romantic gesture that she wants to have kids.
The advantage of this scenario is that you both agree to it, rather than making a dumb decision that affects the rest of your life based on an impulse.
I think after my 3 days when i go home I might try that. I asked him for space, well more told him I needed these 3 days. He's still texting me random things about his job and I get he wants to be sweet but I don't want to respond ?
Thank god my gf isn’t a dumb feminist twit ? will never have to deal with this girl power BS. I feel bad for you OP, you are with a dud.
Tango, can often have many meanings.
Are we talking about actual tango dancing here or sex?
Um you wouldn't want to know if a stranger is coming to your home? For all she knew OP was a robber or there were more people hiding somewhere
The universe is showing you your future with her.
I’m sorry, his world has shifted. It can’t go back.
No because it doesn't happen like that. Ever.
This sounds like an immature arsehole who wanted to show off and maybe go viral
Your husband is a grown ass 42 year old man. Everyone deals with stress and anger. That is NO excuse for this immature bull crap. He’s been pulling this shit for FIFTEEN YEARS and refuses to work on himself or work WITH YOU to resolve conflict. This is emotionally abusive and extremely toxic behavior, and it’s now directly impacting your son as well. I’d be out the damn door. Hell, I’d have been out that door years ago, long before bringing a child into the picture. It’s okay to have issues. It’s NOT okay to make zero effort to work on those issues, and constantly take them out on other people. Does he pull this shit with coworkers? Other family members? Friends? This is not a rational, mature, kind, or fair way for a grown adult — let alone a parent and a spouse — to behave. Time to draw a line in the sand and stick to it.
Maybe because I’m trying to figure this fucking life out . If you read my last relationship post you would see it’s complicated. I’m trying to figure it all out . I know I’m in denial but I don’t want this life , I want it to be better .
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Is there a way to make myself look kinda ripped for just a night? I want to try and do a strip tease for my wife but I also can't dance if my life depended on it.
I need advice.. like sauna and push ups? Would that work for a little bit?
I am 41 now, I had a bad fall as a kid and my whole life my entire body has been permanently stiff as a board. I started doing yoga and it's like I've been slowly breaking down ancient knots. (I assume that's not a medically accurate description) I can move my hips now in ways I never could before. It's given me a miraculous idea that I may be able to pull this off? I can feel my body and I have mobility now I've just never felt before.
I have “danced” probably 4 times in my life. I remember that first time at a bar many years ago I tried and I distinctly remember trying to dance but also constantly trying to reach out and stroke her face or like caress her chin? Hahahah it's the funniest things to think back on and picture in my head now. I have no idea what I was doing lol.
Should I like baby oil myself up? Lol
You're overthinking this. It's perfectly normal and within your rights as a partner to request specific ways to be pleased. Likewise it's perfectly normal and within his rights to meet your needs, even if he wouldn't have initiated those specific acts on his own.
You didn't force him to do anything and he said it was ok afterwards.
Good partners can become bad partners when they become an addict, and can become good partners again once they beat it.
As someone who suffered from something similar, I want to say it's VERY impressive that he was able to so thoroughly quit like that. I can't imagine that happening without there being regret and care involved.
Of course I don't know anything more about OPs life and their partner aside from a few Reddit posts. But from what OP has shared with us, it's enough for me to think that their partner is an okay dude when he's not suffering from addiction.
Well, when it comes to giving birth, your wife is the patient. She can invite or block whomever she wants. You can’t. That’s a convo you have to have with your wife and if she wants them there, that’s her choice ultimately.
Seems to me your wife is pretty enmeshed with her family and lacks the ability to set and maintain boundaries. Therapy could help her with that if she wants to change things. Else, couples counseling would probably help with your communication.
I totally feel for you as my ex in-laws were similar and lived nearby. We moved away at one point and when we were moving back, I told my (ex) husband that I’d live in X or Y city but not back in his home town—something at least an hour away so they couldn’t just stop by or expect us to show up for every little thing.
You should abort. That’s entirely your choice though.
You should tell wife from moral perspective, be prepared for backlash though. If you don’t, that’s ok. It is not your fuck up.
In the future. A single man don’t go to hotel rooms to fuck. There are free beds at home.
Then with that said, I believe we will simply have to hold to our seperate views on this topic. Granted I fully understand where you are coming from, I fail to see how people on the average who are straight would not have a difficult time obtaining and securing a traditional relationship with someone who has identified and is living as bi or even homosexual, this also includes those who who keep it hidden from their spouses, this difficulty goes both ways not just on one end.
Perhaps if I saw relevant data on the average of flourishing traditional marriages where one partner is straight and the other is bi/homosexual it would make more sense, but the trend you mentioned shows the opposite to the point of the bi/homosexual tending to prefer open relationships. So again drawing things to it's logical conclusion what do I do with that information? To me, the end result seems very clear.
This is something you need to calmly discuss with your wife. You need to come to a solution together. Something you are both happy with. Both people need to try to see the others perspective and act accordingly.. Be honest in a non blamey way and tell her how you have been feeling. Neither of you are wrong. You two have to problem solve it together.
Sometimes just discussion and awareness can ease things. Or perhaps you learn big changes need to be made. A compromise example, you see her family with her once a month and she does things with you other weekends. Perhaps limit one family trip per year and at least one trip just with the immediate family. Maybe one trip just you two.
Talk to her.
Stop being her friend. Love your best life. If you still want to be friends inform her that this behavior makes you not want to be friends. That you can do what you want and her behavior is unnecessary. She doesn't have to be your friend anymore if she doesn't like it. But if she still does then she needs to accept it.
But she's hurting you. Don't let anyone do that. Block her. Anytime you see the video in your head, replace it with one of you and your bf getting hard and steamy and looking so blissful.
Your insecurities are going to ruin your current marriage.
Get therapy. You just weren’t for him and people change. A person at 20 usually isn’t the same person at 30, and if they are, god help anyone in a relationship with them if their mentality is still stuck in their 20s.
He wanted an polygamy lifestyle and marriage was clearly wrong for him.
Do you want a polygamy marriage with all your insecurities and wondering if the other women are better than you? No, I doubt it.
You two are simply not compatible.
Please get therapy if you are this upset over an ex and this insecure. You are going to make your husband and children think they’re not good enough. Is that what you want?
sorry, i just didn't want to leave context out, but thanks for the tips
She needs to learn that adults have responsibilities. She has a responsibility to keep her space clean, including communal spaces. She has a responsibility to pay her bills, including rent! You need to tell her that and then clearly state the consequences.
If she doesn't keep an apartment clean, she'll get roaches and potentially evicted. If she doesn't pay rent, she gets evicted.
If she refuses to listen, you HAVE to stop enabling her. She will literally never learn if you don't stop. So what if she doesn't go to college right now? It's better for her to learn how life actually works.
Your wife didn't overreact. If a friend constantly turns down your offers to hang out, it makes sense to stop asking and have the friend with the obviously much busier schedule initiate.
It's your family, maybe you should manage your kids relationship with your parents.
Honestly, I think it is because because she asked her younger brother to walk her down the aisle and not my husband, her older brother. My HB feels like he is an afterthought to his family until they need something from him, then he is their best friend, this is something that the two of them have talked about before. He doesn't know that their younger brother is walking her down the aisle yet, and I think she is thinking that having me in the wedding will make this up to him.
Is your boyfriend quite insecure about your past/previous relationships in general? Jealous at all?
No keep your boundaries it show how you respect yourself and your morals! I totally agree with you never live with someone without being married