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Date: October 6, 2022
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This! 100% this!
Your mom certainly can if she wants to. I don’t understand her getting upset (I mean I do if she’s codependent) but it’s her choice and I guess it explains why your brother is the way he is. He learned that behavior somewhere.
I mean if they are a SW then no it’s not cheating if that is your job. If you aren’t and it’s just for fun, yeah that’s a form of cheating. It would be as if that person went into the room of the person they sent it to, stripped off all of their clothes and stood there. It would be beyond weird but there is a sexual connotation to it regardless. Now, if you have to send things to your doctor like if you are maybe having breast surgery and you need to show them the progress or if any problems are occurring, I wouldn’t see this as a problem. Again it’s all about context and other than for medical or SW reasons, there isn’t a reason to send nudes to someone while you are in a relationship if they exist outside of those perimeters.
This is all good info right here. When my woman left me I had a joint savings account with her and she took every last penny. Document all of that conversation. Like this guy says, pull yourself together and go into survival mode. My exchanging on me with three different men I didn't learn the first or second time, and then she left me for the third guy. Don't be me!
That's unfortunate with Sarah and John, but you need to focus on your relationship for now. First your BF lied about the whole ordeal of John cheating. Next he was sneaking out behind your back to hang out with John and this woman. Add in the fact his best friend that he is hanging out with has less than desirable morals, this might be rubbing off on him. It would seem so as he has betrayed you twice.
You need to confront your BF first before you try to worry about the other couple. You have red flags in your own home that you are ignoring while focusing on someone else's issues.
I often find that people who decide how you feel about them for you to be quite insufferable.
You know how you feel and now she’s making you doubt yourself. Sounds like mind games she’s playing
Show that you have a functioning moral compass. Be her friend and nothing more. Anything else or selfish and shows a tremendous lack of character.
that’s because you’re an asshole.
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I get your point of view in this comment. And yes you make sense about the restrictions. Although there weren’t necessarily restrictions that he gave me in this relationship as i’ve kept to myself and made my own decision to not game with my guy friends as much, I’ve uphold the promises that I made to him such as “eating breakfast every morning” (as I’m battling eating disorders) and also I’ve made changes in myself by talking it out and not going quiet/ avoiding him during an argument.
I guess the entire ordeal I might be affected because I thought he would uphold his promises to me as well or at the very least talk about it with me if it gets too overwhelming. Again, instead of saying I’m blaming him for being unable to change, I’m more upset that he lied to me about it.
But on the other hand, yes, age could’ve played a part in this as well. & whether it’s fair or not, I think it’s about whether your partner would be comfortable or not. Because ultimately even though nobody is perfect, I think its important to respect one another’s feeling.
Most of the time, the “medical” reasons for it, are phimosis. Phimosis can easily be avoided, if people would stop forcefully retracting young boys, because that damages the penis and causes conditions like phimosis and reoccurring infections. People like to freak out and assume the foreskin is “dirty” if you don’t roll it back to clean, but it’s fused to the head of the penis for several years and doesn’t let anything inside, and only allows for pee to come out. After a few years, it retracts from the head and allows a boy to roll it back to clean. The fear of phimosis is not a good reason to circumcise infant boys, especially when women and girls are capable of having phimosis of the clitoral hood too, but we don’t circumcise girls foreskin, just in case she has issues with it later on.
Loool your a bitch
You don't see it, but your husband is right. Your kid isn't safe there.
No. Its fine.
I imagine you know how he will react. I personally think anything you have going on in your head you should be able to communicate to your partner.
I see people here all the time say “if my partner even mentions an open relationship I’m out that very second”. I don’t feel like that’s a real human reaction, but FYI, that’s what you are going to hear from this sub.
You can tip around it, watch movies with FF relationships or swingers and ask what he thinks about it or however you broach the subject, but at some point you are going to have to directly tell him what you’ve been thinking.
You may also want to think about how far you want to take it before you approach him. If you just want to kiss a girl at the local bar, you may get a different reaction from him than if you want to have a separate sexual relationship or romantic one.
If you are down with it, you can offer to include him in the exploration, for some people that gives a sense of reassurance because you aren’t leaving them to be with someone else. You also may want to think about, if you have the desire to sleep with other people and explore, are you ok if he does the same
Your wife is an immature twit. My advice is that you tell her your severance and unemployment money will not go to household expenses if she expects you to be her personal maid. ?
Yeah, but they aren't old! I'm 66 and still working. Old is 80's. They aren't even close. I hope your SO doesn't get too frustrated and start noping out of your relationship!
What happens in the bar stays in the bar
Why are you asking for advice?
and he wears tight underwear too. He has probably had a boner in front of her and not even known it, and she can see the outline of his junk. Freaking gross. No 14 year old wants to see their mom's boyfriend in his underwear.
He is probably just a player and on dating apps for hookups. It blows my mind that he agreed to a date after a hookup just to be a dick.
Don’t feel bad about it. You did nothing wrong. You should interest in someone who was up until then showing you the same amount of interest. He played with your feelings.
It’s okay, move on. You will find someone a million times better.
I’ve seen your other post and…….don’t be with this bitch boy anymore he’s controlling, dramatic, obviously really fucking stupid, and a cheapskate which will not be good to deal with if y’all move in together and act as one.
Get her to take a prenatal paternity test. If you aren’t the father than you need to decide if you are staying and helping to raise this kid or leaving.
It’s really a you problem. Can you try to spend some time with his friends? Not every time they meet but more often, so you can befriend them and be more comfortable with them. Please be careful jealousy can destroy a healthy relationship
He recording that shit for court
im not asking for the criticism, im asking for advice on trust building
Maybe it’s time to go then. If he’s not interested in working anything out then you should do what’s best for you
Probably immediately. If you’re online dating, put it in your profile. If you meet someone in person, it would be one of the first things to say in the “tell me about yourself” phase
Thank you for laying it out like this. It's hot to see clearly about things when you're in the thick of it, but you've made some very clear and actually helpful points, and I appreciate that a lot. I guess I needed someone (or two) to tell me it's okay to be upfront with him about this, as hot as it might be.
No way to tell…might as well talk to her, though.
Uh, it doesn't sound like your sister was coherent or sober at all if you had to put her to the couch. This sounds like your sister was sexually assaulted by your husband.
Either way I'd divorce your husband and consider seriously limiting contact with your sister unless she seeks help for her alcoholism. Drinking until you're blackout drunk isn't healthy or normal and I don't think you're in a place where you can support her through that.
You really don't know shit and letting your baby leave to an undisclosed location is gambling with her life.
So your own insecurity is making you think she will stray even though she has done nothing like that. Please work through your issues so you can be a healthy boyfriend
Three months and you guys have already had that many fights? This is all yikes. Sounds to me like you need to take some time to be alone and figure things out. How can you be that reactionary that early on? And I mean, he doesn’t feel anything for you. He said so himself. Move on sis.
I do love her and she loves me. She is perfect to me and we both have made mistakes, I keep trying so hot because I want this to work I dont want to lose her because she is a great person but im going Energy and m getting tired of the fighting. I hate that we fight more than anything else and it hurts. we were so good at one point but now it's just fighting and it really sucks. If I didn't love her I wouldn't try so hot. I know that love isn't the only thing to hold a relationship together.
I’m so sorry. She’s not worth your time.
Where do these people come from? Do they not have any social awareness? Did he have a head injury? What an absolute ass.
Personally, the damage is done and there would be no amount of coming back from this. But he is younger and presumably a doofus, so if he is otherwise okay, let him play the apology out and see how meaningful it is.
If you suspect this is purposeful negging, then you have a completely different problem.
This was the last time he texted her
Yikes. Every once in a while you’ll see someone like this, who for some reason has a terrible habit of catching feelings for their friend’s significant others. I don’t know what has to happen to cause that phenomenon, but it’s definitely a thing some insecure people do.
From the sounds of it, she’s abandoned her friendship with you in order to pursue your boyfriend. Which is super shitty of her. But she clearly wants him for herself. I think you ought to have a frank discussion with your bf about this, because him getting close to her is only going to encourage her to keep trying. It’s not a healthy situation for anyone.
Why are you here?
Time heals.
I tried to reply to your comment, but accidentally just added to the post comments..
Thanks, OP did find it helpful 🙂
And saying he can do what he wants because he’s the husband? Poor OP.
I am British but lived in the US for a long time, I ended up pronouncing words like they wanted, because it made life so much easier. Even simple words caused them ask me what I meant, things like water, herbs, basil, aluminium, schedule, route, caused them such confusion is was just awful to behold. I think it is because many of them have never travelled but also they are arrogant and believe the American way is the ‘right’ way. It is a losing battle after the 10th time you ask for water and they eventually say something like ‘oh waaater‘ and give you a pitying glance. Also, beware of the people who constantly remark on your accent, it gets really annoying, it‘s actually racist (nationalist) and got to be unbearable, when I tried to make the point that was almost as bad as making fun of people with Spanish accents, they would laugh and say they meant it as a complement – Jesus!
He sounds miserably childish, I’m sorry. I would lay the truth on him, honestly. Either he sees the hypocrisy and lays off, or learns to get you off. “I would imagine you watch porn in the times when you have sexual urges but don’t feel like engaging in the act of sex OR when you just didn’t reach the point you wanted to when we have sex. I do the same thing with my audios…and also my version of porn hasn’t proven to be consistently detrimental to those who watch and/or perform.” Also, what does he mean “not like those women?” It seems slightly dismissive of the fact that you have wanted to try certain similar things with him and definitely misogynistic.
She got hot in front of your friend and documented the event. That would not only end the relationship for me but would probably also leave me with lasting trust issues.
Fuuuuuuccckkk him. Let him hate himself. He is a fucking liar and piece of shit.
My ex cheated, fortunately didn't give me cancer, and did all the stuff that appeared he'd changed too. He didn't. He just hid it better.
This guy cheated, lied about cheating, lied about protection, lie of omission about her HPV status. Did he really change? Or have his lies changed?
I think that very few cheaters ever change. Real, lasting change is hot, and they like the easy road.
He's in a wheel chair he can't force me to have sex.
Either this is faker than kardashians ass or hes gaslighting you into dating him hoping youll just go with it and not be like “dude what the actual fuck get the fuck away from me you psychopath” (which is how you shod react)
He’s just going to hide it better
Basically yeah!
Then tell them that you're going to break up with him so he will need their support and then block every single one of them.
Well he didn't do anything for Valentine's day as he started the day off saying it's not a big deal to him. And I found out that he downloaded a dating app behind my back earlier this year (which he deleted two hours later) for research purposes as he's creating an app. We discussed in the beginning of the relationship that he would tell me if he ever did download it for research purposes. So yaaaa
STOP REACHING OUT TO HER AND STOP APOLOGIZING!
One apology (even though I don’t believe it was necessary) is more than enough. Stop trying to repair something that is obviously broken and stop bending to her. She’s only ignoring you because you’re reaching out. Once you stop, she’ll start reaching out again acting like she wants a friendship again. You’d do best just to cut it off. Don’t tell her why or give some long explanation. Just stop reaching out and move on with your life.
Here is the thing. You don't enter a fwb hoping it will lead to more. Sure, if both parties end up there it sometimes works out. But if you want a serious relationship, you date someone normally and then more towards a relationship. Fwbs rarely turn into serious relationships.
Also, stop having unprotected sex, duh.
Oh absolutely it’s not a side effect. I was literally only saying that some women can have terrible reactions to some and it can happen if all the factors line up. Not that it’s guaranteed like some seem to believe I was saying.
And the slight possibility that he may have changed? Should that be overlooked and not forgotten/forgiven?
It's a power move. She wants power and control, so she put you on the defensive. Now, you are the one who wants to apologize and get her back. She has complete control of the situation. She will make contact, you will be grateful, she wins, problem solved. It's a huge red flag, and I would block and run. At best, she's immature. At worst, she's a manipulator and narcissistic.
This sounds about normal for a first relationship. Don't worry – be happy.
When I say “how I went about it” I mean going behind his back. I don’t regret or apologise for rescuing a dog whatsoever
You could try joining the Klatchian Foreign Legion?
Yeah everyone is a self reliant adult but no self reliant adult can read minds. I get it. I’d be at least looking to provide basic details to everyone, too. BUT I know dealing with the type of non planner your guy is usually just results in being mommy – and generally that’s stressed AF mommy – and you’ll be miserable worse than just not planning for everyone. So you pack everything you want and need, you bring plenty of wood or coal and methods to do grilling and cooking like pots, pans, tools, food, clothing changes, if you want the cake then sure, your tent and essentials, etc. Bring a couple comfort nice things for your boyfriend like any gifts and anything special you can share or whatever like his favorite snacks. And then you’re done or you’ll drive yourself crazy. If everyone’s cell service is gone and they can’t get in touch, oh well. If nobody brought tents and they sleep in cars or mud, oh well. If everyone is hungry… you got it. Somebody can also always make a run in their car into a town for whatever else. Most places (I online in my motorhome and travel) can get instacart delivery even if they are sort of remote and again, somebody can always drive off to get anything needed. If the party is a sad disaster, it’s not your fault or problem. Try not to dwell and just enjoy. Bring some personal entertainment like a book and some gadgets you can recharge in your car.
They’ve done at her way 100% of the time for two years. Heaven forbid he want to do it his way once.
I dealt with someone who was always hitting on my gf at work. Sorta different, but my advice is still sound imo. I simply needed to explain to the person that liked my gf that my partner does not appreciate the flirting. She doesn't appreciate, and at the same time, doesn't know how to explain this to you in a way that you will listen, because she is friendly and nice. It's not about being defensive and feeling as if you need to battle for your partners affection, but it's gotta be annoying to be the person always being hit on. I mean c'mon, give it a rest sometimes ya know? “Take a hint” is sometimes clear enough to remove motivation to flirt with someone.