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Like other commenters have said, she seems to have crossed, or is in the process of crossing, the line into emotional infidelity. Whether he seems to be reciprocating doesn't matter here, this is about your relationship only. Although, it's a bit sus that they were both awkward around you.
Don't wait to see if they buy Christmas presents for each other. Talk to her calmly and lovingly. Research the signs of emotional infidelity. Educate her on the signs and what she appears to be doing. Ask her about the signs you're not sure of (like unloading about her relationship with you). Let her know how much she means to you, how much it hurts when she flirts and is in contact with him outside of work, and that you don't want this turning into emotional infidelity.
Then let her know where your boundaries lie. For me, it would be to reel it in to a professional only relationship. She'll likely not want to hear that. She is getting good vibes from him and won't want that to end but. It's up to her to decide what's more important.
He doesn’t care about you, he cares about feeding his own painful thoughts and creating a reality that makes him right.
And you (just like me) are enabling him. You are not and cannot help him. He has no fucking job. If he loved you, he would be working towards your future.
I left mine after 3 years together. He was my first everything. The abuse started slowly and turned into him not having a job, him doing drugs, jealousy… I wasn’t a solution to his pain.
The best thing I did was set higher standards for myself. Decide what those are. For me, I wanted someone who went to post-secondary. I married a teacher. Kindest man, awesome dad, and I’m so attracted to him. We have a beautiful life.
Set your standards and when you meet someone that is kind to you, it’s going to rock your world.
Like other commenters have said, she seems to have crossed, or is in the process of crossing, the line into emotional infidelity. Whether he seems to be reciprocating doesn't matter here, this is about your relationship only. Although, it's a bit sus that they were both awkward around you.
Don't wait to see if they buy Christmas presents for each other. Talk to her calmly and lovingly. Research the signs of emotional infidelity. Educate her on the signs and what she appears to be doing. Ask her about the signs you're not sure of (like unloading about her relationship with you). Let her know how much she means to you, how much it hurts when she flirts and is in contact with him outside of work, and that you don't want this turning into emotional infidelity.
Then let her know where your boundaries lie. For me, it would be to reel it in to a professional only relationship. She'll likely not want to hear that. She is getting good vibes from him and won't want that to end but. It's up to her to decide what's more important.
I’ve been here, sadly. I deeply know this.
He doesn’t care about you, he cares about feeding his own painful thoughts and creating a reality that makes him right.
And you (just like me) are enabling him. You are not and cannot help him. He has no fucking job. If he loved you, he would be working towards your future.
I left mine after 3 years together. He was my first everything. The abuse started slowly and turned into him not having a job, him doing drugs, jealousy… I wasn’t a solution to his pain.
The best thing I did was set higher standards for myself. Decide what those are. For me, I wanted someone who went to post-secondary. I married a teacher. Kindest man, awesome dad, and I’m so attracted to him. We have a beautiful life.
Set your standards and when you meet someone that is kind to you, it’s going to rock your world.
Sending love and freedom to you!
It’s a shitty, stupid and very immature thing to do. Kind of funny though.