0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for live sex video chat BBW-Dilan24
Model from: de
Languages: de
Birth Date: 1991-01-04
Body Type: bodyTypeLarge
Ethnicity: ethnicityMixed
Hair color: hairColorOther
Eyes color: eyeColorHazel
Subculture:
Date: October 9, 2022
sorry about that…
Trust me when I tell you that your girlfriend can do a lot better.
Delete their comment.
Hi OP. I'm going to be real with you here.
Her relationship is not open, so her partner has not consented to anything happening between the two of you. That's the only thing you should be thinking about. As you put some distance between you and process these feelings yourself.
This person is not your friend, she's someone you're interested in romantically and, irrespective of the vibes you and your bf are sensing, she is very much taken.
You have to respect her marriage and step away because violating the informed consent and bodily autonomy of her partner is serious, and not something you want to be party to.
Also, open/poly relationships hinge upon transparency and the enthusiastic consent of everyone involved. If you were to pursue this, knowing her husband is unaware and would not consent, it violates those principles as well.
I think you should discuss this with your bf. Something doesn’t add up. Considering how long you’ve been together, hopefully he will be more open and trust you with everything. But I would point out their reactions and what his grandmother said and ask him to explain.
Could you Americans please stop sexulaizing nudity and your own family/kids?
I guess I’m not really sure what exactly it is that your wife needed to talk to you about? Unless you and your MIL have issues or shes a suspicious person, it seems like your wife was capable of making that decision. I understand that as a parent you want to be involved in decisions. But this seems like such a non issue that she probably didn’t even consider it as something she needed to run by you. this is your wife’s mother. Like if there’s one person I would trust with my kids, even more so than myself, it would be my mom. so your wife probably couldn’t think of how this would even be a concern for you. it probably offended her that you were even concerned about it. There’s also a different relationship with a woman’s body and their child vs a father’s body. The child comes from our body, we feed them with our body, etc. so it probably doesn’t feel weird or foreign for grandma or your wife to be hot with the children. especially for grandma because their generation had a different way of raising children.
Well just keep the lines of communication open
Long relationships are built on the backs of uncomfortable conversations
This was an initial idea that was eventually scrapped. A’s parents just simply want us to push the wedding
If a man wanted to be involved with his child, he would be involved regardless of who’s in his life. I’ve seen a lot of single mums really struggle to accept this, but it’s the truth.
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.
My husband and I have been married for 9 years. 3 years ago, right before the pandemic, I had an affair with one of my coworkers. At the time, my husband was working in consulting and was constantly traveling. I was only seeing him about a few days every month, and would go multiple months without seeing him sometimes. Couple that with the fact that I was pregnant at the time, I was already in a terrible state. My coworker convinced me that my husband was cheating on me. She told me that there was no way a man was able to spend that much time away from his wife without looking for the company of other women. I know how pathetic it is that I let her manipulate me like that, but at the end of the day, the fault lies with me. It was my job to protect my marriage, and I was the one who failed.
Our daughter was born in early 2020, so I took maternity leave, which means I wasn't seeing my coworker very often anymore. We would still text, but we were drifting apart. Then the lockdowns hit, and suddenly, my husband wasn't traveling very much anymore. Seeing him around the house, caring for our newborn, and just being the wonderful husband he's always been made me feel incredibly regret. I broke down and admitted everything to him. I still remember the way his face just melted. He was smiling at the beginning of the conversation, but by the end, he was just expressionless. He wasn't angry, he didn't cry, he just sat there. He asked me if our daughter was his, and I promised him that it was, since I'd never been with any man besides him. He told me that he wanted a paternity test anyway just to be sure, and I agreed. He then just stood and up and went to sleep with our daughter.
I knew I had to give him some space, but the whole thing was eating at me. I came to him and told him that I had blocked my affair partner on everything and told her that we could no longer speak. I also told him how I had quit my job. That last part was something we had discussed before the pandemic anyway, so I could take care of our daughter, but with both of us working from home, we didn't think it was necessary. He told me I didn't need to do that, but I told him that I couldn't be around her anymore. I asked him what I had to do to make our marriage work, and he said that the marriage was working just fine. He wasn't planning on divorcing me, he wasn't planning on leaving me, and that we were fine. He said that he liked having me around, that I was the only person he'd ever been in love with, that we worked well together, and that he couldn't really raise our daughter on his own anyway.
I have to say, I felt pretty over the moon about that, but I also knew that I couldn't let him think I was taking advantage of his forgiveness. I threw myself into being the best wife and mother I could be. I really think I started doting on him, and honestly, I realized that I wasn't treating him nearly as well as he deserved to have been treated. I cooked for him, I tried to look good for him, and I tried to be more affectionate. But that's when I noticed how different he was. He would only sleep with our daughter, never with me. He used to say he couldn't fall asleep without me, to the point where when he was away on his business trips, he would call me at night so I could talk to him as he fell asleep. He used to always kiss and hug me, but he stopped touching me completely. Whenever he was home, he would try to take me out on dates, but he completely stopped doing that too. He barely even spoke to me.
I gave him time to deal with everything, but I couldn't take it anymore. I confronted him about a year ago, and he agreed to change his behavior. He started sleeping in bed with me again. He wouldn't hug or kiss me, but he wouldn't pull away when I tried to either. He took me out on a date for our anniversary, and he's already made plans for Valentine's Day this year. We even started having sex again.
But somehow, it's so much worse now. When we have sex, he just lays there and doesn't move or kiss or touch me like he used to. It's like he's forcing himself to be there. There's been more than one occasion where he doesn't finish. He has never initiated. I feel like I'm forcing him to have sex with me and it makes me feel disgusting.
And then Saturday night happened. I had gotten sort of dressed up for a night out with my friends. I hadn't gone out with my girlfriends in a long time, so I was pretty excited. I had also purposely done my hair the way he likes and wore his favorite dress to see if I couldn't make something happen with him later that night. My husband sees me about to head out, dressed up the way he likes, and he really said “You have a date tonight or something?”
Like seriously? After everything, he really thinks I'd go behind his back like that? I sort of blew up at him because I was so frustrated, and he just said “Well, it didn't stop you before, so I don't know why it would stop you now when you know you can get away with it.”
That really broke me. I didn't end up going out that night because I just couldn't feel up to it anymore. I don't know how much longer I can take this. How do I fix this? I just want my husband back.
TL;DR: Had and affair ago 3 years ago, managed to keep my marriage, but my husband is completely different.
Edit: Just figured I'd put this here since I failed to mention it in the post, but we did try marriage counseling. He didn't want to do it from the start, and we quit only after a few sessions because of that, and because he would barely speak during the sessions anyway. I have been in therapy myself for quite some time now. I'm going to suggest therapy to him. I'm also going to try to have an honest discussion about all of this with him. The last time we did was what got him to start sleeping with me again, but ever since then, he's always refused to speak to me about it. I'm going to sit him down and make sure we get this settled.
I know I wasn't a good wife, but I do love my husband. He's my first and only love. He's a wonderful father to our daughter, and before this, he was a near perfect partner. We've been together for over 15. I don't want a divorce, and I will do anything in my power to repair this and him. I know it might be wasted effort and things might never get better, but I won't give up.
I feel like this is an age old debate: do you love your spouse more or your children more? I am team children. My partner used to say he was team spouse but since having one I think he too would say kids first, adults later.
As long as you get emotional support from him as you need it, and you’re both able to find time to invest in your relationship solo – and it sounds like you have a solution there! – I think two people who are child first can make it work.
I only use the app for an hour or less per week, so I can very easily change the entirety of my discover page.
I'm testing it now. If I click on one anime post and refresh, at least half becomes anime related posts. If I click on a video from a metal concert and refresh, it becomes a mix of concerts, posts of musicians, alt girls, and nature shots.
I am seeing now the more I click on things, the less the page changes and the more it blends together common things I clicked. Though clicking on a girl still always gaurantees the next refresh will be at least 50% girls. Anime posts also seem to have pretty heavy swings. Memes and video games seem to fade away easier.
You need proof before you do anything. Then divorce and send proof to everyone.
Okay. I'll see what I can do
Firstly, thank you for your response and honesty!
Second, I have definitely considered that this could blow up in my face since this is completely uncharted territory. I just wanted to ask for outside perspectives since most of my friends are his friends too.
Ex needs to give up parental rights first. Doesn’t look like she’s interested in that
I had posted to your original comment and I’m happy to hear you’re nasty mature about it. I understand the fear of coming out, especially as trans in Italy, but if a person is going to enter into a relationship with someone they care about, you come out to them. As an outsider, and in my own personal opinion, you’re giving him way too much of a pass when at the very heart of it everything was based off a lie. That’s not cool at all and it also speaks to his character and selfishness to a degree. How can you trust this person when they knowingly lied and essentially manipulated your emotions for their benefit? It sounds like the discussion of bottom surgery was only brought to the table to make you feel better when deep down, they had no intention of getting it — more of a bait and switch.
Because you didn’t break up with her the first time she did it.
It's probably happening too fast and is freaking him out.
What you do is, you tell her it is fine if she looks at your phone, as long as you are also looking at her phone at the same time. Find out the common “problem” aps now before you agree.