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Squirt // FUCKMACHINE MOVES BY YOUR TIPS , ❤️ [990 tokens remaining]
Date: October 9, 2022
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It's not funny in any way. Like the fact that you even think there's a moment where you can find amusement in any of this is appalling. You should be extremely angry.
This man she cheated and she will again. She already justified her cheating by blaming you for a depressive episode that comes with the death of family. We know you have feelings and that’s why we are saying divorce. You clearly are not over it and that hollow feeling will slowly turn into resentment towards your wife. As for the dogs let her have them if you can’t take care of them. If you love the dogs and you know you can’t afford to care for them then it would be best for them and yourself to give them to someone that can. Divorce is very hot and it takes time but op you will feel better and you will find someone that will not cheat and appreciate you for you.
My ex-husband is a doctor, and we started dating in college. We got married after his first year of medical school and we're married for 12 years before he left me for a nurse.
If he is this way now, he isn't going to make it through med school and residency with you. Even with the restricted hours, which have been put into place since my ex went through it, it's still a crap ton of hours away from home. Away from him. Away from kids if you have them before you're done with residency.
This isn't the guy.
Showing true colours. Or rather colour. Crimson.
This man is dangerous. You recognize that that the relationship is unhealthy.
You don't trust him. He's physically assaulted you, and he gaslights you when you speak up. What is he gets 'angry enough' with the baby? Will he punch or choke it out of anger? Will it need to get that far?
You know this is bad. Very, very bad. These risks you are taking are not just for you. Staying with this man is risking your safety, that of your three kids, and the pregnancy, should you decide to keep it.
Crimson flag with 'run' written in bold letters.
Gotcha! Thanks!
I’d definitely get her something although it doesn’t have to be a grand gesture. Just let her know you’re thinking about her. Maybe a nice book for her trip if you know what she likes to read.
She ditched you and lied and said she was going to a girls night out and got some numbers from some guys. Ex girlfriend right there.
Yeh hes a creep
Please don't date any more children! You're 22 which is young by adult standards but then you're with an even younger subadult who's not going anywhere without hurting his mommy's feelings. Find someone who is ready to make decisions and road trips without his own mother riding shotgun everywhere you go, everytime! Please Get out while you can. It's unlikely that will get any better in time..
Ask her out again. Text her “Hey I would like to take you out on a date next week is there a day that works for you?
Do you think i should tell him if he repeats it again we are done? This is going to be our first very serious talk so i don't really know how it's the best way to do it. We are totally going to talk in person not on text. I also text him and tols him if we could meet up because it would be very important. He is going to see it when he wakes up because it's almost 4 am here.
I'm trying to get a remote job, that is the dream lol.
I run into this issue with my boyfriend (situationship?). He can afford to eat out all the time, I can't. That's not the issue. The issue is that, I don't want to feed my kids takeout every night; I want us to live! long, healthy lives and more often than not restaurants/fast casual/fast food has too much fat/salt/calories to be healthy every night.
Maybe you buy salads half the time in which case this point doesn't stand; but also, do you expect your kids to order takeout when they're older? If you don't cook, and they don't see both of you cook, they're going to assume only women cook/they don't need to learn; but, they may not have the income you do when they're on their own.
And also, I want my boyfriend to help me with the household tasks. I want him to do some acts of service for me, especially the ones I don't want to do all the time. I don't want to be the only one who knows how to cook in a relationship, the only one who knows how to clean or do laundry or yard work or simple fixes around the house. I value those skills in both myself and the people around me.
Obviously, I'm not your wife. So ask her why she wants you to learn to cook. You might learn something new about her, and I feel like as her husband you should want to learn more about her.
You’re both mentally I’ll and need to talk to a doctor.
Welcome to life my dude lol. You have to decide what is more important, other girls or an emotional connection. You aren’t wrong no matter what you choose just make sure not to hurt people in the process. Let women know yours feelings/intentions from the get and your good.
If you were planning on breaking it off anyways I don't see the problem with shooting your shot anyways. Don't get caught in the FWB With Feelings Vortex. That shit can waste so many dateable months and years.
Your girl is a hoe.
No. It's you. You decided to not honour your agreement. You failed to uphold your end of the argument. You are a bad friend. And you might want to consider going back to work if you're struggling. No-one wants to read your memoir.
They didn't
Imma need an update on this one
if he’s trying to be a therapist then he literally has to have a PhD
How did you know this was an American?
I have gone NC with my mother because of her yelling. It hit me one day, that I was an adult and I no longer had to put up with her yelling. My life has been very peaceful because of that realization.
I do not think you even spent enough time with him to know if he is right for you or not.
See if he will date you , A guy is usually not gonna use his whole weekend on a girl he does not care about.
She already feels like she is moving into YOUR place and it won’t be hers, this is probably compounding her anxiety over this. If there was any feasible way you could find a new place together I feel like that might help the situation but you should just focus on making her feel like she truly lives and shares in the space with you and the rest will probably fall into place, but she needs to feel like it’s her place too. You should def keep doing your thing but you do need to make an effort to make her feel welcome/invite her to have her input on the look/feel/structure/organization whatever of the apartment too.
I mean think about it, your parent becoming polyamorous while you're a kid is extremely confusing and throws off the family dynamic quite a bit. Not to mention the possibility of other kids/ families finding out, and what that means for this poor kid all throughout school.
When my parents got divorced while I was a kid, and started seeing other people, I couldn't help but feel uncomfortable/ weird just because of how it changed the dynamic and the fact that these strangers are coming into my house and disrupting everything, made me angry and sad. I could imagine OP probably felt the same way depending on how out in the open about it they were about it. But even then, the fact he knew the truth would be enough. Seems like his parents stuck to their guns about it too, so the odds of them having a healthy conversation about any of it or the possibility of them putting their sex lives on the back burner for their kid, seems pretty low. Makes me really sad just thinking about how much of an outsider OP probably felt as a kid.
We need some details here. Is he still with her? Are papers even filed? If there aren’t even papers filed that you can see live!, don’t do it. He’s calling you up while he has his wife at home. If he had a spine, he would have called you after he had at least filed for divorce and not like he was trying to turn you into some gross, sleazy side chick. You deserve so much more, OP. Think about how/why he texted you the way he did.
Be sure this is a guy that’s calling you up because he really has been carrying a torch for you all this time and not just because this is a strange time in his life and you’re a familiar place for him.
You don't think something like throwing his mother out should be discussed between the two of them? Kind of infanalising the wife to make that unilateral decision without her
Hi everyone. Please look at the edit and link at the top of the post. I'm just looking to be done with this account.
Without knowing anything concrete, my imagination running wild is that maybe he's got some minor leadership role in some cult or organization. Any chance he's part of some proud boys club or something like that?
To me it’s weird that he jumped to you cheating- that means he doesn’t trust you and never will. Almost this same thing happened to my partner like 9 years ago when we were first dating (he’s not a big drinker, got too drunk and passed out on the sidewalk, ambulance came). When he told me what happened, my first thought wasn’t oh he’s lying about everything he’s a cheater, I took what he said at face value because even though I had only known him for 6 months I trusted him, and I was concerned for him. Yeah it was stupid of him to get that drunk, but everyone makes mistakes and I don’t think you deserve to be crucified for it like the comments seem to be going. My husband doesn’t have a drinking problem, barely drinks still, but Reddit apparently would tell me that he’s a raging alcoholic who needs rehab because of one mistake. No one wakes up and plans to pass out on a side walk, I can understand being angry that you put yourself in that situation, but his relief that you’re alright and nothing worse happened to you should trump that.
Also there’s a lot of victim blaming in these comments, some of y’all should be ashamed of y’all selves. No one deserves to be assaulted or get what they get because of the situation they put themselves in. How about we blame the person DOING the assaulting smh.
I totally understand how you feel and know how very hot it is to leave but if you do it will be the best thing for you. You do not deserve to be hit or have your glasses broken or anything like that. Her being drunk or being a woman does not make it not abuse.
I know when you’re in, you’re really in but if you leave I promise you’ll feel happier.
My ex was also an alcoholic, so if it applies to you I’d look into r/alanon as well. I wish I had taken the first step and attended a meeting sooner. It will help you learn how to put yourself first and make sure you take care of your needs too.
She wants to avoid awkwardness and that’s why she’s gonna stay with him. She truly believes he won’t try anything again. He didn’t make any physical moves on her, just verbal so she thinks it’s okay. I just can’t change her mind and I don’t even know if I should insist that very hot
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You’re not a good person and should not be breeding further. You’re a terrible father to your 15 year old. You don’t get to pretend he doesn’t exist because now you’re remarried. You’re going to fuck up your other kid too if you don’t take a very hot look at yourself and realize you’re the wrong one here. Your 15 year old is behaving this way because you are not tending to his needs. Your other child will turn out just as resentful of you if you continue to behave this way.
Geez, this guy is obsessed with the fantasy of her, not the reality of who she is.
Hence why he’s still obsessively clinging to her in his mind.
He needs therapy and you deserve a guy who isn’t hung up on his ex.
Op, YOU DESERVE BETTER!
How many times will you post this before it clicks for you?
Absent of other similar issues you're being really petty and shortsighted to make this into a thing.
Consequences meaning however your family reacts.
What do I(20F) do if my boyfriend(M21) wants me to decide if he should move 900 km?
You tell him lovingly, but firmly, that he is an adult, and that this is his adult decision to make. It is not your responsibility, and it would be unfair of him to put his decision on you instead of himself, because that just lays the groundwork for potential future blame or resentment if he isn't perfectly content with the outcome.
You say, “Babe, you know I love you and love to have you close to me, but I cannot make this decision for you, and it would not be right of me to try. It is your decision, and we can figure out what it mens for us after you've decided.”
Weirdo city.
that his memory and cognition is slipping
Oh, thats a little harsh, isnt it? lol
I think he's just, as you eloquently put it, a shite selfish lover, set in his ways.
I dont know how you want to give your spouse a pass disgusting Call mono and she’s a predator if this were a man I’m sure you would 100% be livid