Agree with this person. Your friendships will likely turnover several times to the point where you’ll likely not be close with any of these people anymore in a few years.
Social media = / = real life. People lie live! literally all the time to try to make their lives look better than they really are. This man is basically a stranger to you. He could have become an addict in the last 4 years, or hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt, he could have become a serial cheater, you would have no way of knowing.
You don’t want to marry either of these men specifically, you just want to be married. Please go to therapy, none of this is healthy and it’s astoundingly immature
The update to this proves we all need to slow our rolls when it comes to deciding the other person is evil and should be left immediately.
Open communication is almost always the answer
Agree with this person. Your friendships will likely turnover several times to the point where you’ll likely not be close with any of these people anymore in a few years.
Social media = / = real life. People lie live! literally all the time to try to make their lives look better than they really are. This man is basically a stranger to you. He could have become an addict in the last 4 years, or hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt, he could have become a serial cheater, you would have no way of knowing.
You don’t want to marry either of these men specifically, you just want to be married. Please go to therapy, none of this is healthy and it’s astoundingly immature
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So finish with her