There's a phrase here – “shit or get off the pot”.
Have a discussion about what a reasonable timeline for you to propose to her would be. She's pressuring you because you have not communicated your expectations or wants on a relationship.
I live! in the US. Our “justice” system doesn’t focus on reform. It’s been 11 years. I’d want to go alone, then take my family, later- just to be sure I’m comfortable. The person released isn’t always the person who comes out. This guy’s wife comes from a LEO family. She was bound to be unreasonable.
Doesn’t matter. He does not love you. And you’re better off saying good bye. The first year together should be the easiest. Instead you are here upset that he couldn’t set aside his feelings for one day. He does not love you.
There's a phrase here – “shit or get off the pot”.
Have a discussion about what a reasonable timeline for you to propose to her would be. She's pressuring you because you have not communicated your expectations or wants on a relationship.
I live! in the US. Our “justice” system doesn’t focus on reform. It’s been 11 years. I’d want to go alone, then take my family, later- just to be sure I’m comfortable. The person released isn’t always the person who comes out. This guy’s wife comes from a LEO family. She was bound to be unreasonable.
Doesn’t matter. He does not love you. And you’re better off saying good bye. The first year together should be the easiest. Instead you are here upset that he couldn’t set aside his feelings for one day. He does not love you.
Can I ask if this is the reason you wanted to do the parties on the same weekend?