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Date: October 10, 2022
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Is cheating?
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That can be sus in your opinion and you should date whatever age you’re comfortable with but your statement doesn’t have anything to do with my post and the advice I’m asking for.
This is who she is, I'm afraid. Nothing wrong with that, but it sounds like an incompatibility. Either reframe it in your mind that you have a hard sexy girlfriend to show off, or leave the relationship. I'd personally choose leaving. Revealing clothes are fun, but if she has to wear pasties with the clothes, I wouldn't like how that reflects on me.
Tell your husband that you wish his dick was bigger.
My BIL is also highly educated. Three majors, a master degree and two years from getting his PhD. He has never worked in his life. NEVER. Never calls, never shows up for family gathering, but whenever he needs money, my husband is his option. Never pays it back too. My husband and I are soon to move into a bigger place and I have already made clear his brother is not welcome to visit or much less crash some some time (BIL's wife has enough and kicked him out of her home).
How old were you both when you got together?
Yea a lot of them are terrible.
Lol I don’t even know how to look at what subs people are in
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I read what you said and talked with her about it. She insists that she does not feel pressured to admit she was lying (which was a relief). She says that she wants to focus on improving herself and the first step is admitting what shes done which is why she told me a few hours after the argument. She also said that her issue was not being told that she was angry it was that she felt alone in her anger and that she felt she needed to deal with it herself instead of with me. She asked me to tell her when she is angry and offer to help figure out why with her.
Were going to continue talking and see if the relationship can continue. Thank you for trying to help though, some stuff you said did help.
So let me get this straight – you start to date him, and then begin to “badmouth” him to people. He still agrees to be in the relationship. But just recently, he was jerking off and fell asleep mid convo. And now you question his faithfulness? I genuinely do not mean to be rude but if anything, shouldn’t he be scared of trusting you given you said shitty things to others about him? Either way, I think you have a self esteem issue which is completely common and normal… but while working through it, it’s important to avoid a relationship.
He’s lying! Your husband is a cheating scoundrel!
He's both.
I'm sure a lot of people will disagree with me here, but here we go.
Women: You cannot trust men. Sorry not sorry.
I'm not saying to go through life hating men, but we, as women, live in a very sketchy world. Always keep your guard up. Always. (Also, in no way is this your fault. Your friends are pigs who need to be castrated.) We shouldn't have to go through life looking over our shoulder all the time, but that's the world we on-line in right now.
I'd file a police report, and get a restraining order against them both.
I already planned on it. I'm just hurt by someone I have to beg and pled to get them to understand how serious this is. We are drowning, he has the life boat but decides NOT to use it until I talk him to it or explain things. Its fucked up! I wont second guess anything when it comes to him. So unappreciated!!
Ok I don't believe in hanging out, or being friends with people you could date while in a monogamous committed relationship. Why? You are looking at. I swear if this were a man and she was doing this, you would call her naive and saying he was taking advantage. IT is complicated. There is a way to live a drama filled life, and this is not it. All I know is the post, what you have done before, not sure. If you dont' like your girlfriends values, then you may not be in the right relationship. Good luck.
I advised Jill long ago to drop OW as a friend bc OW was going after Jill’s love interests! So whatever she made her choice but I don’t want to be involved with OW’s messy life
As I said. She is happy with the acts of service. I said that and asked about the physical touch. If she is happy. Then maybe you can believe me in that?
IMHO, he's just shown you that *he* isn't husband material at all.
Just be you. Be happy, be confident, live your best life. Be able to take care of yourself. Know and be adept at life skills, including financial literacy. Have something (or two or three) that makes you happy, that you look forward to doing. Have a good group of friends who truly love you and who will have your back in good and especially during difficult times.
I've never been wife material, either, until I met the husband. We fit. We're not conventional, but we make our relationship work through the ups and downs.
What you have to really think about is not how to become wife material, but what kind of life and what kind of relationship you want to have, and what kind of people you and your eventual SO would have to be to make this happen. Also keep in mind the qualities that you'd like your SO to have.
I bet he’s just freaking out and scared. Like all of the sudden it became real and maybe he didn’t think of actually being a parent? Idk.
You're not being oversensitive or exhausting. Your gf is insecure, clingy, exhausting, and emotionally manipulative. I think it's time for you to move on, you're not compatible.
I guess because when things are good and he’s reciprocating effort the relationship is really nice. The reciprocation is just inconsistent and I worry that’s because he’ll only put in the effort when he gets something from it. But then part of me worries I’m being unreasonable and maybe all relationships are like this. We’ve been together almost 2 years and he’s only my second partner.
Legally, it's absolutely an option for the father.
I remember a woman who had a similarly horrific birth, going through hell as she tried to establish breastfeeding. She saw a breastfeeding counsellor and remarked offhandedly that she wished she could be a tigress or something, because animals have no problem with breastfeeding. The counsellor told her “no no, a tigress going through all that would have EATEN her baby”.
If your husband doesn't want to help out with cooking and cleaning, I reckon he should get that second job.
If you go back to a job you hated, there's a good chance you'll sink even further into depression. Especially given how badly teachers are treated/paid in the US.
How about, “do any of these women believe they have a chance with you, or believe they are developing a relationship with you?” And “when are you going to let them know you are in a relationship with me?”
Tell him what you want and don't want. Make it clear that it will be compliance or the door. Be prepared for it to be the door.
While there's not really any point in saying things like “This should've been handled differently” bc you can't change the past, I def wouldn't have told him those details. If he asked why you guys broke up, I would've left it extremely vague and along the lines of “When someone acts like an asshole, you cut it off”. You didn't live with your brother so it's not like he would've been pestering you about why you guys broke up constantly.
So the ex was like acting like an irrationally jealous asshole around your brother's bf which lead to questioning and then the discovery that he was attracted to your brother? Ugh that's really gross and I am sorry you had to deal with that bullshit at all. That's like Grade A creep behavior. Like it's one thing to have those thoughts, (wich would still have been creepy and gross) but for the ex to have the lack of awarenesss and insight to actually act upon them or even admit to that is another fucking level of insanity. Was he openly bisexual to you prior to all of this? Were there other red flags in the relationship prior to all this?
I only read your first paragraph, I’m not going to lie. But what stands out IMMEDIATELY is that he violated you sexually and YOU are asking what you can do differently??? Ma’am, you can chose to take care of yourself and leave this man and find someone who respects you. Him sexually assaulting you is a Jim problem. Throw the whole man away. Just start over with someone who listens and cares for you.
Honestly? I'm going to say something controversial now I'd recommend letting her feel what it is like, rubbing a fact up his face sounds unhealthy but can be part of a healthy relationship if things are being communicated and solved eventually. Humans are competitive in nature, we like to win and like to feel approved, loved, respected. Imo he should “attack” her back, especially if she's not good at dropping things. She needs to feel what she is doing to him or else she probably will dismiss him. Relationships don't have to be toxic just because there's an issue, things can be caused by stress, environment, food, hormones etc. The biggest factor I know is to talk to each other in a respectful and honest manner.
Especially over the years you will experience communication barriers you both have to work on, both have to make sure they are conscious about how they treat each other. Mental health is very important. Always. Relationships need to be worked on. Always.
It's the little things, small cues you can use to help each other notice what'd up, like a word you both use to untrigger or calm down. She needs to see him as equal and he needs to stand up for himself.
I like how people are suggesting him to celebrate this victory in knowledge but you are right, it's more than just that, they need to figure some things out. I'm sure there's a way. It's not always easy and fun but little competition does not hurt and it's a great opportunity to practice winning together. Competitive thinking only gets us so far though, there has to be teamwork too. And if you are falling you'd want the other to help you get up instead of laugh and dance over their victory.
It's not easy to balance but possible.
Yep, that cop and all the other gang members will make her life hell.
FTP
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He said in his OP that he doesn’t want kids. The best way to guarantee there won’t be an accident is to get snipped.
You are making this too hard man.
“Hey, I wanted to let you know that I won't be able to remain as your friend. This is too emotionally damaging for me to continue”.
You don't need to say more than that and you don't need to block her.
She's wrong on a few things. It's not a false comparison. She is sleeping in a bed with someone that she could potentially have sex with. The same as if you were bi and were sleeping in a bed with a guy or girl. Secondly, she has minimised how uncomfortable you are about this situation. That is wrong, as is trying to justify it.
As to what you can do. You have already told her that you are uncomfortable. You can either consider it a boundary broken and break up. Or you can trust her. I would ask if there has ever been any kind of sexual or intimate history between them. Given that they are lifelong friends; if the answer is no, then trust her completely. If yes, then be more concerned. People with a sexual history are more likely to get involved again. But if they have been lifelong friends, knowing that they are both bi, I doubt anything would happen if it hasn't happened already.
Good luck
Where did OP mention moving in together?
Yeah, there’s a reason she’s so hellbent. You only know the “version” your boyfriend is telling you. Im not excusing her sending you a video of them having sex, there’s no excuse for that.
But have you ever talked to her? Your boyfriend could be playing you both against each other, it’s really common. Hell, she could be making a post right now on Reddit saying “my boyfriend and I broke up and he got with this younger woman. He says he wants to be back with me but she won’t leave him alone. I even sent her a video proving we were having sex. Yadda yadda yadda”
Point is, there’s two sides to every story. The only version it seems you have is his. I doubt this guy is that special that you should be wrecking your mental health also.
Reflect on why you think so lowly of him and fix yourself.
It's a one month old relationship vs a career. He probably doesn't want to do long distance when you barely know each other and that's okay that's his decision. But please don't throw away a promotion for some random dude
you need to learn how to regulate your emotional response somewhat so as to not overwhelm other people
I guess I do too
She may be the highlight of your day
I think she is haha
she will likely eventually pull away.
That's what I'm afraid of. I think I get this urge partly because I'm scared that she might leave me if she doesn't feel appreciated enough.
there are plenty of other ways
Could you suggest something?
What IS creepy is that she’s already turned you down, citing the age gap that she isn’t into and you’re doubling down on how to convince her to get with you.
I don't know if I missed a comment OP made, but the way I read the post is that OP has a friend who is also a woman, and it was the friend cited the age gap and made the comments, not the person OP is interested in.
Doesn’t mean $10k isn’t bad tho ? i couldn’t date/plan to marry someone in that position