Ah, I can see it getting awkward if you both keep doing the subtle hints at liking each other. It can be difficult to have the courage, but I would clearly state that you find her attractive and see if she’s interested in going out on a date with you. And say if “not that’s okay” but you just want to know if she’s interested.
Otherwise you’ll twist her arm and eventually go out to dinner with her, and she’ll still think you two are just friends who joke around in a flirty way.
If he wants a vasectomy that means he doesn't want kids.
It sounds like you do want kids therefore you're not compatible
Sounds like he’s doing all the work for you. Let him continue to act like a jerk; it’s already obvious to everyone in the room.
Forget about the dads… just don’t marry so young.
Ah, I can see it getting awkward if you both keep doing the subtle hints at liking each other. It can be difficult to have the courage, but I would clearly state that you find her attractive and see if she’s interested in going out on a date with you. And say if “not that’s okay” but you just want to know if she’s interested.
Otherwise you’ll twist her arm and eventually go out to dinner with her, and she’ll still think you two are just friends who joke around in a flirty way.
they give more of a fuck about their fun times and convenience than they do about the lives of others
And OP has rightfully she decided she would rather not have a such a selfish asshole as her boyfriend.
She made the right, and an admirable, call.