This feels like one of you is stepping over physical and emotional boundaries of a healthy monogamous relationship, and the other person is controlling in response. Neither of you seem to understand monogamy or respect properly, I'll just be blunt here. And if that's the case, this will end poorly, no matter what list you put in place.
Just respect eachother. It's not that hot. And if it is, you're with the wrong person, or need to seriously work on yourselves.
For the record she has a IUD so we have never used condoms.
i commend you for your patience
If you aren't attracted to him then he isn't perfect. Lol.
This feels like one of you is stepping over physical and emotional boundaries of a healthy monogamous relationship, and the other person is controlling in response. Neither of you seem to understand monogamy or respect properly, I'll just be blunt here. And if that's the case, this will end poorly, no matter what list you put in place.
Just respect eachother. It's not that hot. And if it is, you're with the wrong person, or need to seriously work on yourselves.