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Date: October 11, 2022
Yeh she has alcohol addiction so she kinda understand me. And yeh she is on this sub too and she is texting ppl on the sub. I do that too to support ppl like us. Sometimes a simple “how is life going” can change the day of an addict.
They have high sex drives in common, which is enough to build s relationship on… (though why does he know that she has a high sex drive?)
She may be mature at 19, but he sure is immature at 27.
Good job losing 3 years of your youth on someone whos not compatible sexually.
How many more years are you going to waste? It's up to you.
1: I would consider this cheating and it's very disrespectful. I would not be comfortable with my bf hanging out with them after i found out
2: set boundaries with the friends, make him block them on instagram and delete all the pictures he has of them
3: they did not ask to be masterbated to, I would consider telling them as it's not okay to do that. Especially if he sees them every so often. I would not like to know that my friends are screenshoting my photos to jerk off later on.
4: he may have a porn addiction ( not an excuse )
5: maybe consider a new boyfriend
It’s fair to ask for a certain amount back every month or whatever she is earning a percentage back. The person transitioning has nothing to do with you but their own choice it should of been a responsible one the least to say before even thinking of asking support from you with regards to payment.
Did you know the plan was to stay at an airbnb when you were invited and accepted the invitation?
Yes.
Firstly, babysitters for 2 nights , and a maid so you don’t spend your time just cleaning up,
Then spend sometime actually relaxing, swimming, yoga or spa. Making sure she gets time to properly dress up and go to hairdressers or get make up done professionally.
Then whatever you decide to, you make a point of telling her how beautiful she is and how much you appreciate all the work she does for your family,
If you want ti be treated like doormat then stay with her. Anyone with an ounce of self-respect would have left her long time ago.
Go for a shower everyday and keep the love of your life
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It doesn't sound like what occurred with Brandon was harassment or assault. He willingly was naked in the shared dorms and it is assumed there wasn't anything sexual about it. Sometimes roommates just hang around naked.
However it does sound like you sexually assaulted your high school friend. You pretending to stick things up his butt was viewed sexually by you and you knowingly did it despite him not wanting such. Being autistic is not an excuse so stop pretending like it is. You were aware that you were doing something that he didn't like and it sounds like the only thing restricting you is that you didn't want to be gay. Your focus is on the legal trouble that may occur to you not on feeling bad for hurting someone in that way.
No, when he’s having sex w/ his wife he’s thinking about the porn girl
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You cannot make someone see reason when they are determined to be unreasonable. You made an effort to include your girlfriend and it wasn’t good enough for her. It sounds like you spent a lot of time trying to placate her when she was the one acting out, which you should not do as it sets a dangerous precedent.
The “damned if I do, damned if I don’t” mindset is a dangerous one that will lead to a lot of arguments and resentment.
If meeting your friends was really a priority to her, she would have rescheduled her plans considering her friend was going to be around longer than yours. Sounds like she wanted to do her thing and just have you sit at home since she couldn’t/wouldn’t join? How is that fair on you and your friends? It also didn’t seem to become a bigger issue until she found out the other girlfriend was around. Is she always so insecure?
The only thing you can do is communicate. If she refuses to own up to her part of the conversation or any miscommunication, there is nothing you can do. You can’t MAKE her see reason, but you CAN respect yourself and remove yourself from the equation.
Relationships cannot work without proper communication and it sounds like it’s a “she’s always right” sort of scenario, which is not healthy for a partnership.
Does the family know about any of it? or is this going to be a nuclear bomb?
go and pray you don't have a panic attack – doesn't seem realistic or fair to you.
don't go and don't say why. Destination wedding? Just say you can't go.
don't go and say why, privately to B. This gives B the option to disinvite K privately but… that'll probably lead to public questions about what's going on. “I love you but I can't go because I can't be near X. Something happened a long time ago and I'd rather not speak about it” or going into more detail. Lets B know you aren't saying no because of her.
don't go and say why, publicly. Him being drunk doesn't mean he didn't do it and maybe it's time to go public. The main problem with this is it's B's wedding day… this has a chance of overshadowing her big day and creating drama.
I'd probably start with a private conversation with B. It's her big day and she deserves to not have her day overshadowed by drama – not that you are guilty or should hide what happened. But she should also know it's not her you're avoiding even if you don't go into detail.
It’s not normal, it’s incest, and gross. You wouldn’t be normal if you didn’t bring it up and stayed complicit. His mom needs to finds other male attention other than her son. If he gets angry at you and defends his mom then he can go ahead fuck around with his mom but you’re getting the fuck out. He’ll enjoy having you explain it to your divorce lawyer.
Silly boy
Just read your update, well done brother.
Sorry you are going through this, I feel for you GF too but this is an unforgivable mistake.
Read that as flesh potato cremation and was really confused.
There is a very good chance she is re-interpreting the experience to fit her own “I'm not guilty” narrative. Ask her if she wants to press charges and you'll probably sense really quickly how much she truly believes she was pressured.
He’s already framing it that if I tell her I’m just the crazy druggie who’s mad his girlfriend left him. Nobody is going to believe me over him
Your feelings are valid. You should be allowed to express your emotions/inner turmoil in a healthy way. Her shutting you down is not fair by any means. Her continuing to dress risqué is also disregarding your feelings completely, because she knows how you feel and still decides to do her own thing.
Relationships are a give and take, and the ability to compromise. Let her go if she thinks showing nipples is more important than actually hearing you out. Past trauma doesn’t give you a free ticket in the future to be a bad partner. Which she is being by 1. Disregarding completely how you feel 2. She completely shuts down healthy communication.
You still need to tell her the truth. If she doesn't belive you ask her to ask your ex girlfriend who is paying for her apartment
Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it.
He actually talked about narcissism, love bombing and control in relationships. He is very honest and told me that he is a narcissist and showed his psychological tests. We step outside ourselves to try to figure out how we can use these things as tools for pleasure and happiness. This is something I want him to do.
What specifically was Eli convicted of?
And how much did the engagement ring cost?
The rest of the story. We were swingers until 5 years ago — together. He thinks that I should be compassionate that he can no longer be active. And I should understand that eventually that would come to an end. I think I should find a BF. We have friends who would oblige. I’m trying to learn to be a sneaky liar. It’s not my nature although it’s his
Who wants to move in? What are your long term plans?
It may be so that she is not sure it all is serious enough to dump what she has now.
I was abused for 17 years. I had my bones broken, joints snapped back, all sorts. I would go weeks without medical attention and only when it got to the point where I could no longer move and the excuse of “fell down the stairs” or other stuff like that was given. I was made to lie about when the injuries occurred. I now have a lot of permanent damage to my body because a lot of parts healed wrong without the proper help and support of medical care
That's what I'm trying to say, thanks. But he thinks it means more than that and I can't convince him otherwise yet.
Yea, she assumes you’re her ATM. Fuck that shit bro, bounce.
Seriously? You can’t make your own lunch for work or bring your plate to the kitchen after dinner? This is just so pathetic. I hope she dumps you.
Run! I'm sure the Ex doesn't know a damn thing about the open relationship. You are probably a branch she is testing to see if she can swing over on to in case the Ex situation goes south. Abusive EX attachments that defy logic, ruin relationships and marriages all the time. Just don't involve yourself with her. Tell her to look you up once she figures her shit out. Otherwise this will ruin your life. Just walk away now!
It's not big deal. Like I had lunch with coworkers on occasion at the mall. Agreed it's more normal to go out with other girls. I guess it's weird to you because it's dinner. Guess it's because it's a little more formal.
Lol, I guess I missed the word “dating” whoops. I was just honestly confused cause what he actually described sounded like a couple friends hanging out and venting. But yeah, if you thought of it as dating, you were going there in your head.
Explain to her mother exactly like you have explained this to us, she will understand what is going on in your wife’s head.
If your wife wants out she can speak the truth to all involved.
I don’t blame her for the debt. This country is stupid. I do blame her for not accepting the dunk cost on whatever her career is and not just finding a new job. But even then…she’s still got people in her ear selling her a bill of goods for a masters. Between the laws and the higher Ed institutions in this country, i can’t say it’s all her fault. Not that there’s anything wrong with OPs choice.
bro chill that’s not even the point i was making lmao
You two don’t even know each other yet.
If millions of Americans can find a way to understand all the rules, so can they
Every time he looked you in the eyes for the last three months, he lied to you. He lied to you every day for the last three months because he was continuously betraying you, keeping a devastating secret, and by hooking up with your friend, also actively tearing you and your friend apart.
That is not a good guy, that is a good liar. He is dangerously good if you want so badly to ignore the fact he has lied to you every day for three months.
I think the reason people are saying he probably was cheating on you this whole time is because he has no problem sleeping with your FRIEND, while living a false life right in front of you, why would he not sleep with other people earlier on in the relationship while he doesn't even have to look at you and lie to your face to do it.
His moral values and respect for you are completely nonexistent, as proof by his actions, not his words. that is why people are saying he would have already cheated on you before this. Someone who is willing to commit such a harmful act against you so easily, and look at you and tell you they love you, cannot be believed or trusted for anything.
People who are willing to cheat in the manner he has are also willing to lie and manipulate you. that is what he has done.
Agreed. If there hasn’t been any ill feelings between the fmil and op, it would be good to have her fiancé clarify. Everyone is jumping to evil mil, and that just seems odd if the fmil hasn’t been vindictive or petty before.
Maybe because whatever she had with her ex wasn't working out and she knew you were getting suspicious
Love, Trust and honesty are the foundation of a relationship
I’m also on the shot. I use it mainly for controlling my endometriosis but also for birth control purposes. The shot can be harsh. I haven’t been able to get wet in over a year. No matter how turned on I get, dry as fuck. I also don’t get discharge anymore lmao. It also caused my acne on my face and back/shoulders to get worse. But I stay on it because I’ve had 1 periods since I started. I get it done every 12 weeks and at the worst, I get slight spotting with very light cramps. It’s so light a light tampon is too much, but too much for nothing. But that is great and makes me stay on it. I tried so many pill options and none of them worked long term for my endometriosis. But so far the shot has worked. But there are very annoying side effects.
“Up until now he hasn’t told me.. out of fear that I would leave him” – Girl. That right there is enough info for you to GTFO. He has been lying, consistently and successfully, presumably the entire time you’ve been together. If I’m reading this right, you’ve been with this guy like 4 months?? Cut your losses and get out.
“It isn’t fair for me to be upset..” – Um, of course it is. He’s been lying to you for your entire relationship.
“I know them having a baby doesn’t necessarily involve me..” I actually laughed out loud. Do you understand that this is a whole person they’ve brought into the world, who will be their responsibility for the rest of their lives?? Where do you see this going? You’re either going to be the step-mom, or you’re going to break up with this guy. There’s no magic third option where somehow you stay in this guy’s life and the kid.. what? Doesn’t exist around you?
Well done! While you’re getting past the aftershocks, and to help in case you get any impulses to unblock or get back in touch, consider looking up a book called “Why Does He Do That?” By Lundy Bancroft. It does a really good job of breaking down and explaining the sort of dynamic and pattern of behaviour you’ve described. You’ve achieved getting out of the abuse; having a concrete reminder of the patterns to reread can help with the next step, staying out, and the healing after.
Tell her that you have no interest in violating her privacy. I’m sure it upsets her and that you don’t treat her the same way she does you, because it would be much easier for her to justify her actions if you were doing the same thing. Unfortunately, for her, you’re taking the highroad, and that is difficult for her to deal with.
She has many illogical, fears and insecurities. By allowing her to look through your phone whenever you want, you are enabling her, and I need a roundabout way, not respecting yourself.
It’s naked to put toothpaste back into the tube, but if your relationship has any shot at a future, you need to “unwind” some of the policies that have been allowed to exist. For example, the hypocrisy needs to end. What hypocrisy, you ask?
“ I’m your boyfriend. Do you trust me?”
Yes
“ then why do you need to look through my phone?”
To make sure you’re telling me the truth
“ I think we need to revisit the meaning of the word TRUST”.
Maintaining some individuality and privacy is healthy. The fact that she can’t handle it is her problem. You’re allowing it to become your problem. And if you’re afraid of her reaction, so you keep your mouth shut, and just keep the peace… You’re not being honest with her or yourself.
Making a mistake about it, she’s got some real issues. But she’s being very upfront about them. I’m wondering if you are thinking and feeling one way, but letting her hear what she wants to hear because you know how to react otherwise. People will treat you, however you allow them to treat you. If you don’t stand for it, they won’t do it. But if you let her walk all over you, she will walk all over you for as long as you allow it…
I'd just straight tell her I turned it off on purpose because I didn't want her to know where I was with a cheeky smile.
That would probably be enough for her to catch on I'm preparing something and I'd let her mind wonder.
Of course if she sounded concerned after that I'd reassure her it's something good.