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You are doing both of you a disservice. Not only are you retraumatizing yourself all over again, you're putting yourself in a position to now associate him with your trauma when he's done everything he's supposed to do to ensure it's comfortable and not a source of trauma for you. It's not fair to either of you. You need to talk to him and say “Hey, this is something I've been struggling with, can we take a break from sex for a bit?” Or smth to that effect. I would also highly suggest therapy because unless you work on this you're never going to be able to have a healthy sexual relationship with him. If it's too much, tell him it's too much and that you need a break. It's not fair to either of you to use your partner as a means of self harm.
You are doing both of you a disservice. Not only are you retraumatizing yourself all over again, you're putting yourself in a position to now associate him with your trauma when he's done everything he's supposed to do to ensure it's comfortable and not a source of trauma for you. It's not fair to either of you. You need to talk to him and say “Hey, this is something I've been struggling with, can we take a break from sex for a bit?” Or smth to that effect. I would also highly suggest therapy because unless you work on this you're never going to be able to have a healthy sexual relationship with him. If it's too much, tell him it's too much and that you need a break. It's not fair to either of you to use your partner as a means of self harm.
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