I’m so, so sorry. Yes, it sucks, and yes, it hurts, but at least you found out now before you married her.
The problem is going to be her, when she wants to try and come back to you—how are you going to react?
I would start writing down all these feelings and everything that has happened. Like a journal. That way, if she ever tries to come back, I want you to reread everything you wrote. Remind yourself of the hurt she gave.
What to do about the girl? Tell your BF that she's trying to hurt you, and she needs to be cut out of your lives. If he agrees and goes to condition red, then good. He's on your side. If he hesitates and pulls “but she's my friend”/”you're controlling”, then dump him.
I never said he did it, said he wanted to.
You don't comprehend well.
It's okay though.
I’m so, so sorry. Yes, it sucks, and yes, it hurts, but at least you found out now before you married her.
The problem is going to be her, when she wants to try and come back to you—how are you going to react?
I would start writing down all these feelings and everything that has happened. Like a journal. That way, if she ever tries to come back, I want you to reread everything you wrote. Remind yourself of the hurt she gave.
Many blessings upon you…?
What do I do? I don’t know.
What to do about the girl? Tell your BF that she's trying to hurt you, and she needs to be cut out of your lives. If he agrees and goes to condition red, then good. He's on your side. If he hesitates and pulls “but she's my friend”/”you're controlling”, then dump him.