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I would suggest that you give her an ultimatum, that she get her act together or leave
I wouldnt have bothered saying anything but I guess you needed that for closure.
I am the one who believes all the survivors kind irrespective of their gender and sexuality. I won’t say the same about you though.
To be honest OP, I think she is saying more as a “wishful” thinking than as any sort of request. She is just plainly being open and honest with you but you may be premature leaping into the land of “oh my god she wants to sleep with a woman!”.
To give you an illustration. Back when I was much younger and all the way through to my early 30's I used to love smoking dope. It was a happy thing I did and for the times it was fine. I never abused it and my wife was ok with it. One day the kids were at an age where they started asking about “why does daddy go outside when we go to bed” so the decision was made (by me) to just not do it anymore. Did I miss it? I did but in all honesty I didn't miss it that much and over time it was just never again a part of my life.
Like your wife I do “miss” that occasional happy evening but it's a part of my life that is well and truly gone and that's it.
And I think that this is what she is telling you. It's that tinge of “it'd be nice” but knowing that it can never come back without causing more issues than it would be worth.
If you are of the mind to you can ask her further about it and explore as a couple what it may entail and what emotional and sexual boundaries could be bent or changed if she wanted to pursue that want, but in all likelihood she may just turn it down as that “it would be nice but the costs are not worth it.”
Being nice (agreeable) is only one aspect that can make someone likable. There also is competency, empathy, openness, integrity, compassion,… and then there’s things that can make you dislike a person, the reverse of the above, incompetent, invalidating, rigid, inconsistent, judgmental.
Maybe try to look for the likable characteristics and ignore or address the non likable things about her. But honestly, it’s okay to not like someone. Of course don’t be rude, but not everyone is going to be your cup of tea and that’s ok.
He spent 80 000 pound in coke and stole from you.
You dont even know how much he took.
Why would you stay in that relationship ? Kick him out and reclaim you share of your flat.
I’d leave if I were him.