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Oh, this one's easy. Find a new boyfriend or just be single for a while. Your choice.
If the baby was adopted or conceived with donated sperm would you still think the same?
Maybe it's because your relationship is the best it's ever been? You could talk to someone about this and get some outside perspective. Have you had these kind of obsessions ever about other girls or any other subjects?
He's 5 mins down the road from their house. There is no reason to sleep there
She said it wasn’t accidental.
It only showed me a small portion I can't say that you never said anything wrong . However his actions and words are classic manipulation techniques. Google “gaslighting in relationships” and “manipulation in relationships and signs”. A little research hun and you will see what I do.
Move on nothing left to the marriage
You don’t know what toxic and stonewalling mean. It’s been two freaking days and she has communicated with you. You just don’t like the message so you’re making it her fault
Every single competent attorney offers a free initial consultation.
This myth needs to die a horrible death.
There are plenty of competent lawyers that charge consultation fees. She needs to do basic research to find which ones are free. As a prospective doctor, she is capable of this research.
They actually have an ethical obligation to do this related to their law license
Another lie that needs to die.
Lawyers aren't slaves and get to choose who they work with and which cases to take.
If I am wrong, I am sure you will post a link to the New York State Bar ethics opinions that support your position.
What are the other reasons they don’t like him
You're quite miserable sounding tbh. Why does everyone hate on SoundCloud rappers but no one talks about the plague that is e-girls. How are you going to put everyone in the same box just because the one person you know was a piece of shit?
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I thought it was the difference between a remote control toy car and one of those electric ridable car toys? Or am I mistaken.
Well yeah.
Just trying to establish that it’s not controlling to want your partner to let you know logistical plans.
I had a bf ditch me Christmas Eve to go get high with a friend. I gave him a pass. One that lasted 20 years. It was all a fucking waste. Don't give him a pass. Confront it, deal with it, dump him, whatever.
What!!!! Your parents are friends with your boyfriends ex’s parents. What has that got to do with your boyfriend. How does this affect your relationship in any way whatsoever. What am I missing?
with the way she was acting before this i cant trust her and even if she wasnt acting shady I wouldn't be able to trust her anyway for suggesting it. Those are some of the reasons I decided to break up with her im that moment even though it might seem harsh. Imo if someone wants a relationship like that the relationship should start like that for it to be healthy, not just dumped on your partner after years of monogamy.
I think your instincts and reasoning are entirely correct here. From what I've seen when someone is into polyamory they bring it up early and often and the relationship is built around it. If a relationship starts off monogamous and then one partner out of the blue says “hey I've been thinking and we should open this up” 99% of the time that means they have already picked out the person they want to sleep with and have either already started cheating and want retroactive permission or they want to start cheating soon and have it be guilt free. Never trust an out of nowhere proposal to have an open relationship if that's never been a topic of interest before.
Is this something i acted to quick with or not?
No, I think you acted exactly as quickly as you should have. The way she proposed this was a major red flag, the way she was acting prior to proposing it suggests your interpretation (and mine) of her intentions was accurate, and you did the only thing you could do. Breaking up was better for both of you, it freed her up to pursue the guy she was already interested in and freed you up to find someone monogamous. Apparently her side piece didn't work out and now she wants to put the genie back in the bottle, but that's not how this kind of thing works. The trust is gone now, if you got back together you'd constantly be wondering what she's getting up to and it would be miserable for both of you.
Tell her, and whoever else is butting in to this situation to argue that you should give her another chance, that you clearly have incompatible beliefs about relationships and it's best if you go your separate ways to find people that are better fits for each of you. No need to be mean or anything, just be firm.
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If she didn’t want the pregnancy, that’s completely her choice. She’s the only 1 who gets to decide that.
If you want kids, and she doesn’t. You definitely should just separate. Don’t pressure her or try to change her mind.
You can certainly bring it up and discuss it, but again, what logical reason would he have to disclose that to you? He didn’t need to. If he was being shitty, he logically wouldn’t have brought it up. There’s absolutely no benefit to him for doing so.
This really seems like a situation where something odd happened and he wanted to tell his partner about the odd occurrence. I’m trying as nude as I can to find some sort of reverse psychology situation here but it’s just not a thing.
I fully understand your hesitation given his past. To be honest, if you came here then, I’d have fully advised you to run. But you stayed. When you decide to stay, you stay having to allow yourself to trust your partner again (if they show they deserve it). I feel like in this situation you’re projecting the past onto it and assuming the worst. He had nothing to gain by telling you what he told you. To me, that’s the statement of someone who’s just trying to be transparent.
you live in mormonville and are still this wrong lmaooooo. take off the rose tinted glasses my guy, or move away. you're not thinking clearly
Have a frank conversation with your wife. Let her know this is not negotiable for you, and that you don't want to have another child. She either needs to find a way to come to terms with that, or divorce you. Do not agree to have a child that you do not want. It's not fair to the child to bring them into a home where one parent doesn't want them. I've seen what happens when one parent didn't want a(nother) child but caved to their partner's demands, and it's usually not pretty.
If you are certain you don't want any more kids, with your wife or anyone else, get a vasectomy now. I repeat, get a vasectomy now. Call and book the soonest appointment you can get. Make sure you use condoms every time until your doctor approves otherwise, and that you have follow up testing done at all recommended intervals to make sure it was, and remains, successful.
Do not rely solely on condoms for birth control, which have a relatively high failure rate when used alone, and are easily sabotaged in ways that may not be obvious. Also do not rely upon your wife, who wants a child, to take the morning after pill or to agree to an abortion if she should get pregnant.
Your gonna snitch on her to the apartment and to the cops?
Why don’t you mind your own business and not project your moral high ground onto someone just trying to survive. Why tf do you care? You’re going to ruin her life getting the police involved.
You’re an AH
15 years later, the kids in front of you:
“Dad and Daddy, how did you two meet and get married?”
“Well first of all Buddy, I'm not gay. But it was a beautiful winter evening, the stars were shining extra bright on the sky that balmy night…”
Relationships are give & take.
There's no exact level on how much give and how much take. But each person should feel comfortable with whatever the level is.
She feels comfortable. You don't.
“Acts of service” is also a love language. Some people are better at doing it to show they love. Some people show they love in other ways. Maybe she is better at words of affirmation, or physical touch, and acts of service aren't how she expresses her love; doesn't automatically mean the love isn't there. Look through information on love languages and see if in your memory you can find her doing other things to show love.
After doing your research on love languages, you can have a convo with her to say that receiving acts of service is how you feel loved.
These acts of service don't even have to be “whatever I ask” or big large commitments. They can be a sum of a lot of small things, perhaps even unasked for things. Refilling your glass before you asked, even, since she happens to be up and getting her own refill at the time. The small stuff.
There are millions of ways relationships can work and it all just revolves around the both of you being okay with what you're getting. You're not, anymore, and you need to put that into words and explain where the wound is and what she can do to heal it.
Nothing in your story proves she's gaslighting or manipulating you. Taking you for granted, maybe, but that's the harshest interpretation. More than likely she just doesn't 'see' the 'acts of service' as a love language thing.
Is he really ? He played no part in the decision to get any of these animals , why would he be considered responsible for them in any way ?
He's too old to be unwilling to do the emotional work of figuring out what he wants and clearly and honestly communicating that to you. Don't be with someone who makes you guess and assume, because you're likely to apply rose colored glasses and come to the conclusion you want, when they refuse to communicate their intentions. That game is for high school and barely-twenties. Not grown ass men.
I'm not making any judgement calls on OP's wife. I agree i wouldn't do a trip with an Instagramer but I obviously have a very low opinion of Instagrammers to begin with. We only have OP's slant on his wife, for all we know this guy's got a reputable company, appropriate licenses, etc.
That’s not how that works. It’s not even remotely uncommon for rape victims not to label their rape as such right away. It takes time to process something so horrible and violating. Plus it’s very common for rape victims to struggle with feelings of guilt and shame, so when someone (like you) comes along and acts like they’re somehow responsible (they aren’t), it’s tragically quite common for them to go along with it.
Having sex with someone who said no repeatedly is rape, whether or not you want to call it that. And yikes it’s concerning that you don’t.
Yeah, next time go for atheist and or agnostic people. People with religion are like this, unless you can really really make them to leave their religion, if not it will be the same always, like this guy.
Anyways, please ignore about him being guilty for being with you and what not due to hia religion, he is just saying shit just to break up with you.
In his next relationship, he is going to do the same things he did with you as a couple with his new gf.
We’ve been together for 1 year already, we have a nice relationship, sadly your wishes are not happening, little human. Btw, I reported your comment for breaking the sub rule:
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Come on sis, you can’t be this daft? Personally I think You should just save your energy and go no contact. But if you want to know do a reverse good image search on his picture. But really just cut him off ✂️✂️✂️
As someone close with people at McKinsey, this cannot possibly be overstated enough.
You can feel however you want to feel. However, you weren’t in a relationship and only dating so the both of you could have been sleeping around until it was made clear you’re in a relationship.
That’s.. why I’m here. To move towards that because I know I’m in the wrong.
Holy shit @#7 ?
Best life advice, get an abortion. Good luck.
Please leave her. My boyfriend loves cars, wrestling and computers. I like none of these. I still listen and ask questions when he is excited about something because I like when he is happy. It cost me nothing to allow him to share his passion with me. I don't attend events, he has friends for that but I encourage him to go. I have even bought tickets for him. Don't let someone steal your joy.
I remember being one of the many to ask for more info and Jesus. If I were you, I'd just end the relationship. It's clear he doesn't understand that work priorities you have and that you cannot control. He doesn't sound like a very supportive partner in general if he knew all of this happening that night. I couldn't imagine having a partner in your field and not checking with them often ” Hey how are you holding up? ” because dealing with trauma patients is EXHAUSTING on all damn levels.
I'm sorry to hear about the little boy, please know you tried your best. I appreciate the work you do, it's not for the faint of heart. Make sure youre taking care of yourself, mentally, physically and emotionally ?
I dont share dating woman as a priority, I had A LOT of opportunities that i rejected because I dont like the idea of only sex, I wanted to do it only with someone special like her after I met her better.
OP,
Who is right here and who is wrong here. Your both right and both wrong.
You have a set of values and beliefs and so does she. They don't match up to each others. This will always cause tension in your relationship now and moving forward. So you have to ask yourself this question, can I live like this the rest of my life. By you coming here shows that you cannot and it is absolutely fine. Move on and let her have her happiness with her ex, while you move on and find happiness with someone who's values are more aligned with yours.
We used to make a lot of time for each other but idk it almost seems he’s gotten distance a lot of shit has been happening lately we don’t have the money for much anymore and I think it’s putting a wedge between us I feel awful I just miss feeling like he wanted to spend time with me he’s so tired all the time we don’t get to do almost anything
Miscarriages are very difficult and nude on both parents. Get therapy if possible to help strengthen your form of communication
He does not what this baby. You can counter every one of his reasonings but it doesn't change the fact he does not want to be a father and he doesn't want this baby. If you decide to keep going with the pregnancy you need to do so with the knowledge you will be a single mum.
I’m just chiming in as a woman here, women’s bodies can absolutely work that way. There are times when I am not in the mood to have sex with someone, I just want to have a moment of orgasm & move on with my day. I don’t even view sex and masturbation in the same wheelhouse, they’re different activities with different levels of emotional & physical engagement. Whether or not I feel like masturbating occasionally has nothing to do with my partner’s ability to satisfy me.
Why would you want to be on the mortgage? Be a tenant, pay rent to him and he can put that money toward the mortgage or whatever he likes. That way, if things go south, you don't have to worry about mortgage or getting your equity back.
If you do get married, that's when you talk about putting your name on the deed or buying your own property to rent out.
That sucks, OP. Hope you're mostly doing alright.
He sounds a bit immature, to be honest. It sounds like he didn't really want the relationship to work. Which really means he just wasn't that into you.
I think you should try to avoid “chasing the why” on this one. You can't argue with other people's tastes. Either they like your particular flavor of salty pickles or they don't. like it.
For example, if he really wanted the relationship to work, he could have proposed watching a different movie that he did find more to his liking, the point being to spend time with you regardless of the movie. Rather than acting like a low key victim, damned if he did, damned if he didn't.
So I think you dodged a bullet.