Way before we got married she expressed her wish to have a threesome with me and a random man who would be open to the idea. I was hesitant at the beginning but I learned to like it little by little. We went back and forth a few times in some threesome apps, we talked to a few guys with whom she seemed to connect and send nudes to but never felt ready to do it so we put it in pause for a moment. Now she's changed her mind completely and feels disgusted by the fact that I want to share her with someone else. She's the one who brought up the idea. How do I deal with this?
The fact that she changed her mind does bother me a little bit but I will always respect her decisions and started working on myself to forget about it and i don't mention it to her anymore. It's true that It is taking me longer than her to close this chapter. I just don't like the idea that she does not respect me anymore because of this.
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