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Date: February 17, 2023
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You've tried marriage counseling in the past; and it hasn't stuck.
“She is willing to go to marriage counseling as we have done in the past.”
Honestly, I think you need to get some INDIVIDUAL counseling FIRST and let your counselor help you decide whether continuing in this marriage is in your best interest or not.
If it is, your counselor will help you identify strategies, set boundaries, set realistic expectations and goals. Your counselor may also recommend a good couples counselor. If it is not, then your counselor will help you decide how to set up strategies for healthy divorce and healthy co-parenting.
I also wondered the same and also whether the dog is fixed. Many people complaining about their dogs on reddit, turns out they were never fixed. It would also make sense with the timeline since OP got it as a puppy and it was clear it was “vicious” right about the time they are adolescent.
I can’t imagine having to keep bear spray IN MY OWN HOME in case my dog decides to eat me. I just… wtf? Dog woulda been gone after it attacked the other dog. And I LOVE dogs but fuck that. And if husband objected, then he’s gone as well. This is scary.
Could you give me a few ideas of somewhere neutral? Like just go to a cafe?
Also while I do understand that it would be ideal to meet somewhere neutral, I would feel more comfortable in his town or the next town over since I know the area incredibly well. Plus the towns closer to me, are more rural so theres not much to do and I dont know them that well.
I didnt think of social media researching, good thinking. This advice has been helpful
Pays off at the time, it can be a fun intimate thing to do together even if nothing comes of it.
You’re 35. This is YOUR choice. Until you are actually pregnant it’s impossible to make a promise that won’t change your mind about terminating a pregnancy. It’s not real until it is.
Just know you will be doing this on your own. Are you capable of that?
So there is zero future in this relationship. He has no intention of being in a long term committed relationship with you. He turned off the security cameras when you visited, why? Because he doesnt want his mom and baba to see that he is dating. Reasons could be he already has a spouse arranged, he is already married but waiting on his spouse to move to your country, he is married and his spouse is already leaving with him and his parents. Even if he is single his parents probably will not “allow” him to marry outside of the culture. You arent getting anything out if this “relationship” other than seeing him once a week.
My bf sometimes will shave a slit in his eyebrow, he thinks it looks cool, I think it doesn’t. Especially because he doesn’t even do it right haha but it’s his body & he can do what he wants with it. I would never break up with him over it or tell him he looks like an idiot. That’s immature as fuck. This is his own issue to deal with. Don’t take it out, get rid of him.
You are right either of us know the details of ops rent or salary of cost of living in their area, etc. But the parents are under no obligation to do ANYTHING AT ALL for op. They raised OP to adulthood. They would be jerks to kick op out on their 18th birthday, but a year plus later I am sure they are ready to stop tiptoeing around in their own house. They are clearly at least offering below market rent, since OP says they have no other option. Yet op feels entitled to complain about the people helping make ends meet when no one else is offering to let their adult self stay with them under as good of terms.
Well this doesn't make sense to me. They want to be more than friends with benefits, but they are “not there yet”. If they are “not there yet”, everyone is free to do whatever they like. This actually might be the reason why they are “not there yet”, she wants to keep her doors open. OP needs to decide if that works for him or not.
I think the easiest explanation might be the case, your husband has an office girlfriend and doesn't want her to find out he's married and cut him off. Who was the co-worker he made dinner plans with, a guy or a woman?
I wouldn't sit here and suggest that your therapist is wrong, but I think it's pretty clear what you want, and also what he wants.
Now, his response might be out of self preservation given everything else, but therein lies the problem; the two of you have just struggled to make it work. He also refuses to give you a legitimate answer regarding what he wants.
So can you just lay it all out? Sure. You have nothing to lose. But if you're here worried about healing processes, then what's the point of telling him how you feel? That doesn't make sense.
She was pretty enough for you to date and f* so I’m sure they could possibly feel the same. SMH you’re so immature
This .
A 22 year old started dating a 16 year old.
My love, this “disinterest” might be because you’re no longer his preferred age.
Regardless if he wants to talk about it or not if you both don’t talk about it this will be a never ending cycle, and it will get toxic. Ask yourself what did the sex do for you? For your relationship. I understand that the feelings are still there since the break up is fresh, but if he’s working on himself why are you having sex? It sounds like he wants the cake, but not the party. Don’t let him trick you into being the fallback girl. If he’s gonna be single I say treat him as single.
every couple days is very often
These are green flags, my dude. She was avoiding confrontation in order to keep herself safe, plus she told you about it. All good!
This has only become a recent issue. She’s usually always open to doing things and rarely ever says no, but this weekend really threw me off and I’m now starting to question if she’s even attracted to me at all anymore
I wanted to add… I have been there. It was at my small local gym (we were all close- worked out together daily) and we were already sleeping together. It isn’t easy to walk away. I had a couple slip ups… but in the end… I am so so glad I did. I honestly see him for who he is now and so glad he is out of my life. You can get there but you have to really have your goal ?? do you can get passed those feelings. You got this.
That was my take precisely!
This sounds harsh, but just because someone is suicidal, doesn't mean they're not an AH. I hope he wakes up fine and recovers well. But you need to do exactly what you said, cut contact and move on. You don't have to be mean, but you don't have to console him. He's dragging you trig the mud to his family and friends, expressing how much he dislikes you and what he thinks of you, then begging you to be there for him when he can't face his own life any more, telling you specifically that this was basically a message to you. You were angry with him and he wanted you to feel guilty, and he got what he wanted. Take your child, and walk away. Far, far away. With full custody. He may very well be a danger to himself or others. You take care of you and your child. You can pray for him, just don't call him.
You are right, he cried because he got caught, how many times hasn't he been caught? How many victims are there? This will not be his first offense. I'm so so sorry your husband sucks. Not only does he gamble and expect you to dig him out of it, he has an affair and now he's sexually assulting women – what exactly does he bring to the table here? He takes a share in cleaning the house he he lives in and that's about it. If you stay you are telling him that this behaviour is acceptable, that you will roll over and take any amount of shit he brings to your door, there is no reason for him to change, there are few consequences of his actions. Counselling won't help him, because he's only doing it to tick a box to keep you it will only work if he WANTS to change and by the fact he's shown you nothing but disrespect I doubt he really wants to change. I'm sorry, you deserve better
I wonder if it's a modern thing that people get “disgusted” by the natural curiosity of others. Such a strong word.