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Room for on-line sex video chat Abril_M
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Date: October 18, 2022
And just a question… what made you think you could care for a child with just 600$ saved? Children cost money, if you can’t pay for one you shouldn’t have one
Lack of sex and entitlement. I can elaborate more if you want.
That advice I agree with.
You mean like polygamy or open relationships? I am already interested in that and I can maybe mention it to my girlfriend.
My dude is trying to have his cake and eat it too.
Weird that this was not mentioned in your original post. Also, are you any better than her? Because you sound judgemental, controlling and immature.
He said that he convinced himself to have an erection and then he lost it after sometime.
This doesn’t sound true. It sounds like he’s full of shit and just saying that to make me think that he hasn’t enjoyed sex with other women.
I think you must report it but get evidence first, take screenshots of his chats and send it to your phone so that you have proof and so that he can't lie his way out of it/ make excuses.
Honey pleeeeeease please tell someone. My daughter is 14. This is heartbreaking and you should not be in this situation. If it were my bf/husband and I found out then he’d probably be dead before long. Your mom knowing this and being okay with it is NOT NORMAL and you need to get out. Do not be concerned about her feelings on the matter. This is so wrong. Please look after yourself and tell a teacher. Please!
I had to double check the ages here because he is talking like an especially naive 18 year old.
At 31 he is WAY too old to pull this childish nonsense, OP.
You're a human being and he's treating you like some kind of gimmick. He seems to have some pretty concerning underlying beliefs.
I just learned from Dan Savage yesterday that some people’s bodies can deal with bacterial infections themselves so then they wouldn’t test positive. Also, did she get tested before you got together? Was her last sexual partner more than two weeks before that? It can take a while for these things to show up on tests or as symptoms so she might not have thought to get tested after the actual infection
I don't think men who find women attractive immediately are shallow. I'd also be offended to find out my partner wasn't attracted to me at first.
But if he’s not from the US, it’s possible that it’s not that he isn’t a generous person like you, it’s just that he doesn’t have the same mindset. Just have a chat.
A guy like this deserves to be ghosted
People who have small dicks cannot help it, and some small dicks are attached to some great people! What can be helped? Hygiene. Comment on that instead of size 🙂
“listen here dirty /slimy /grimy /stinky dick” Or an adjective that insults their performance such as “pathetic” or such!
I’m trying to work on that. I hope i find a closure of mind somewhere, it just is really being a stress on me lately, which i need to address. Thank you so much for your time, stay blessed.
Not trying to bash you, but again, it’s your fault for going into this situation without previously confirming that you’re on the same page as this person. There was no prior conversation about birth control. You have no foundation to blame the other person when you went into it blind and also took no precautions for yourself. Stop arguing and take responsibility for the fact that you messed up, and instead use that energy to do better next time.
It sounds like you embarrassed her with your over-the-top ego and need to be edgy. It's really cringe. This entire post is so full of tact and not once did you mention her feelings or what's going through her mind, only asking if you should forgive her. She should be far more mature at 25.
She's actually the main reason he's being considered for termination since she started the fire with the original post.
But people like that will blame others for their own personal faults.
I appreciate you breaking this down. Honestly – I think it’s a bit of option 2 and 3. I like our life together and I just don’t want it to change is all. I also don’t want anyone bothering her, etc.
I think you've done what you can do. If he can't get past it, then he was never a good match for you.
Honestly, you can be saving to put a down payment in a house with this life changing career. If she wants out because of 50k, it’s to show you that she’d be just expenses in your life
Well thanks man I appreciate that. But I still gotta work I can't bring them with me lol someone gotta be home with the kids or something I could probably get my brothers gf to watch them at night. All this will become irrelevant when they start school tho when they get older they can watch themselves. I'm gonna get a security system for the house that way I'm always there. I learned how to cook when I was a kid bc my mom was always at work. We could use that time as some educational bonding time.
Gamer here. Totally know about waiting for a game to come out and the excitement.
And having friends or family Sabotage game time.
You can have plans order food and bam someone wants your time and thet refuse to change to another day Its just a game you do not need to be waisting time…ect ect ect
Relationship is even worse..you spend more time playing games then you do with me.
A friends wife lets him have 15 minutes a week.
He learned to zoom through as fast as he can in games ..
Lol it gets worse
Tell her Saturday you can do it but Friday is your chill day
You can also try to get her into gaming.
Saying is couples that game together stay together…
Good luck!!
Hold your hand up in the stop signal and continue talking. Just talk over the top of her. When you politely stop for rude interruptions they just keep on.
It’s strategy has worked for me.
What kind of twin who cares about their twin is that worried about their twin's cheating ex's feelings? I'm sorry but as a twin there is no way I'm hoping for a makeup in this situation, let alone just worrying she'll be sad.
If it's real, don't say anything still, but especially don't use any ex arguments. You could maybe talk to him about worried that he'll regret hooking up with Mil and also maybe like a life stages talk….but not what would your ex say/feel.
As another ADHDer who used to have a huge issue with interrupting, in case it helps or is worth a try… if I'm keeping part of my body physically busy, my impulse to interact feels much less intense, and becomes something I feel I actually have a little conscious control over.
E.g., I do things like knit or cross stitch when my SO or friends want a chat or call, or I have a few fiddle toys to grab for shorter chats. It annoys some people as they think my attention is halved, but keeping my hands busy actually allows me to give them much more of my attention, rather than my focus being on not interrupting!
Even in your short post, I notice a lot of things.
We’ve been happy.
No, you've been happy. He told you he hasn't been happy.
I also fill up our social calendars a lot.
Why do you fill up his calendar? Why do you make decisions for him? He's an adult, he can fill (or not fill) his own calendar.
But I was trying to help us make friends.
There it is again – “us”. Why do you think that you know what your husband wants and needs? Why do you seem to completely fail to recognize that he is his own person and what you want and feel might be the complete opposite to what he wants?
I tend to try to hang out together whenever I’m home and really don’t have hobbies.
Maybe I need to see why I feel the need to go out and do things so much?
I mean, if I wouldn't have any hobbies, I would also feel the need to go out and do things, mainly to find a hobby. So I don't think that's wrong. But why is your husband required to be a part of that? Why can't you just go out alone?
Honestly, it sounds like you don't see your husband for who he is – someone who is not you, who has different needs, different wants, different wishes and feels different about things. Who wants to spend his day not like you want to spend your days. Your husband is not an extension of you, like a second you in a different body. He is his himself, not you, so he doesn't enjoy you trying to make him “into” you, doing the same things.
The most basic thing that conveys respect to someone is letting them be themselves and make their own decisions and choices. It sounds like you did most of that for him. Step back and let him be himself.
That's awesome to hear! I think the therapy will help you to kinda sort through all these thoughts and emotions. One recommendation with therapy, go in with goals for yourself. And don't be afraid to look for a different therapist if the first one doesn't mesh right… It can take a bit of work sometimes to find a good one.
Honestly, he sounds like a good dude. Does he know exactly what you are dissatisfied with? Is there something you could have communicated or done sooner to have avoided feeling this way now?
I think the best route forward is to dig deep, examine your feelings, and communicate with him your appreciation for his support, talk up his good qualities for you, but that you are unsure this will work out and that therapy is going to help you process what you are going through and you can't guarantee that y'all will be together afterwards.
It's a difficult talk, but a respectful one. It lets him know where you are at, why you want to fight for the relationship, but allows him the opportunity to walk if this is not the parth he wants to take with you.
Your focus is going to have to be on yourself for awhile, and that can be very hot for a partner to go through.
Hopefully this has helped a little!
Kick this man out.
If you aren't ready for that, then at least set down some rules for yourself, starting with, there are no “wife things” that ANYONE is “required” to do.
If he wants a partner who will function like an old school wife, well then he should be an old school husband and financially support you. Oh he doesn't want to do that? Of course he doesn't, but then why would you cook and clean for him?
Please, set some boundaries:
ALL bills need to be split 50/50, if he won't pay them directly, then he needs to give you X at the beginning of each month for internet, electric, and groceries. He has to do 50% of the chores, end of story. If he won't do the dishes, then don't cook for him
You deserve better than he is treating you, not just on Valentine's Day, but every day. So start by being honest and calm with him that he needs to step up and be an equal partner, and no, you are not required to do “wife things” for any man, especially one that isn't pulling his “husband things.”
Did you plan anything for your anniversary? At any point did you tell her that you expected her home to celebrate with you rather than going out with another man.
Her behavior is wrong but you’re so passive and are not setting boundaries or saying what you want. She might have more respect for you if you advocate for what you want and set expectations.
Who suggests having your hair ripped out of your genitals as a date?
I was getting the same vibe, like all the concerns he brought forward were so quickly dismissed or defended or put in “air quotes” to seem really passive aggressive/dismissive
I’d terminate it. Not having a child with a 40 year old man that can’t commit.
Families will do that in ways nobody can see.
Yikes ok well you need to make a choice. Trust your gut. Don't listen to your head or your heart, only your gut. What does it say?
You fix it by leaving. He doesn't see you as a person, not fully. Not if he can disregard anatomy and tell you to make yourself tighter.
If this guy saw your partner cheating in you, what would you expect from him! Be honest.
Your sister wasn't faithful, it has consequences, she will learn from that. That's life. Now, you're covering a cheating.
I feel like I'm in a much more stable condition when I'm with her because she mostly knows how I feel
I say this in the kindest way possible, but is it possible that you’re using her for emotional support… as opposed to seeing her as a life partner?
You will not be able to change your mom. It is very difficult to change your core beliefs. What you can do is continue to challenge her and set clear boundaries about speech.
My MIL was very racist, similar to your mom, MIL grew up in a very racist and abusive home. One day while sitting at my kitchen table she made a disparaging comment about POC. I responded by telling her she could not talk like that in our house or in front of our children. My husband backed me. She didnt like it, but she respected the boundary. It didnt change her beliefs but it did tamp down a lot of the stupid commentary. We still supported her, welcomed her into our home and assisted with medical needs.
When someone tells you “I don’t know” they absolutely do know. They don’t want to tell you because it either makes them look bad or it will hurt you to tell you, or both.