Not sure why you’re posting in an advice sub. Seems you’ve been looking for reasons to break up with her ever since you found out her body count, so just do it already.
So you would rather hurt your fucking fiancée than this “friend” who had no problems cutting you off? What does your fiancee say about this? Why would she be ok with you maintaining this friendship if you only kept her around bc you liked her? Why was she ok with the flirting?
Do not be ashamed. When you are both at a calm place, have a conversation about what the two of you do when one of you looks a way the other doesn't care for in public.
Do you both agree that people should get to decide what they wear outside the house ? What exceptions to that might their be? How do you approach things like weight gain, rashes, bruises, scars, a bad haircut or anything else that might draw negative attention? Do you both think other people's opinions should matter? How much?
In my own experience, being OK with your partner choosing different outfits than you would is pretty helpful, especially when the weather is very hot and they want to be comfortable.
Even if I was being moody, cranky, snarky, snappy
In front of the kids?
Not sure why you’re posting in an advice sub. Seems you’ve been looking for reasons to break up with her ever since you found out her body count, so just do it already.
So you would rather hurt your fucking fiancée than this “friend” who had no problems cutting you off? What does your fiancee say about this? Why would she be ok with you maintaining this friendship if you only kept her around bc you liked her? Why was she ok with the flirting?
That's exactly what's happening.
Thank you! It's only another 5 days off now, but your point stands! I'll die in his basement if I keep waiting for him ?
they clearly thought he knew. Yeah I guess they should constantly remind their buddy they all smashed his girlfriend
Do not be ashamed. When you are both at a calm place, have a conversation about what the two of you do when one of you looks a way the other doesn't care for in public.
Do you both agree that people should get to decide what they wear outside the house ? What exceptions to that might their be? How do you approach things like weight gain, rashes, bruises, scars, a bad haircut or anything else that might draw negative attention? Do you both think other people's opinions should matter? How much?
In my own experience, being OK with your partner choosing different outfits than you would is pretty helpful, especially when the weather is very hot and they want to be comfortable.