Let’s be real… your relationship ended the minute you slept with someone else. You’re keeping it a secret and once he finds out, he will be devastated.
He agreed to an open relationship because of pressure from you- he was not an enthusiastic participant in the open relationship which is why it’s never going to work.
And you don’t really want an open relationship, you just want to pretend to be single during your year abroad. That’s your choice – but break up with him first because you’re going to hurt him with your actions.
He left you because he thought he was going to have playtime with a 20 year old girl. Not surprisingly, that didn't work out. Now that you bettered yourself and helped you child recover, he comes strolling back in like nothing happened. He already broke your heart and crushed your child, why go through that again. Your child will be scarred permanently if it happens again.
Tell him he easily moved on, it was much tougher for you and the child. Through time and tons of effort, you pulled it off and he isn't going to ruin that. The ship has sailed, thanks for the memories.
Let’s be real… your relationship ended the minute you slept with someone else. You’re keeping it a secret and once he finds out, he will be devastated.
He agreed to an open relationship because of pressure from you- he was not an enthusiastic participant in the open relationship which is why it’s never going to work.
And you don’t really want an open relationship, you just want to pretend to be single during your year abroad. That’s your choice – but break up with him first because you’re going to hurt him with your actions.
No, You are his second choice.
He left you because he thought he was going to have playtime with a 20 year old girl. Not surprisingly, that didn't work out. Now that you bettered yourself and helped you child recover, he comes strolling back in like nothing happened. He already broke your heart and crushed your child, why go through that again. Your child will be scarred permanently if it happens again.
Tell him he easily moved on, it was much tougher for you and the child. Through time and tons of effort, you pulled it off and he isn't going to ruin that. The ship has sailed, thanks for the memories.
You break up with him, block him, go no contact forever. If need be, call the police.
Don't say anything to anyone, talk to a lawyer first