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Date: October 29, 2022
We are intimate everyday, and I do not deny him anything
I’ve been snoring when I was convinced I was awake and not snoring.
Stop twisting my words and putting them in my mouth, would you please?
I did not say she “has to work it out with him.” I did not “judge her.” Suggesting they should attempt to work it out is good advice. I did not say his behavior is perfectly fine.
You’re basically saying running a red light at 3:00 in the morning with nobody in sight is the same as killing someone on a hit and run in broad daylight while driving drunk and on heroin. One is a capital offense and the other may have him go to driving school.
Both behaviors broke the law. OP has already indicated she has prior issues that have come into play. If they can’t work it out and the engagement is off, good for both of them.
Marriage is filled with serious conflicts and issues and if she is incapable of sitting down and doing the work to come to resolutions, he is fortunate to be free of her now.
There is obviously something in your past that has triggered you. Get help.
I didn’t want him to be my therapist, I just didnt want to be alone today after all that happened, I’m feeling so empty and if he was here to just spend some time and make me company I would feel better
I have a ten year gap in my relationship. I don’t think you provided enough information to say if things are fine or not though.
It worked really well for us, but I had a career and a lot of power in the relationship that I had to specifically go out of my way to balance.
If I have the house, the money, the resources, and they are still building their life, what’s to stop me from kicking them out randomly one day? What stops me from being a creep?
For me it meant giving them access to my money and my phone. Giving them space I would never violate. Going out my way to support everything they wanted in life whether it was school, work, or volunteering. I always put their needs before mine.
As we’ve been together over the years and they got more agency and ownership of things it’s not as needed as it once was. But I don’t think it would have made it these six years if I didn’t put so much effort into balancing the scales first.
I guess what I’m wondering is, what boundaries has she actually crossed? Because from what you’ve described, she hasn’t done anything outside the bounds of your relationship or to breach your trust. She’s only ever hooked up with women since you got together, and you say you’re fine with that. She was in the house when this guy was having sex with someone else, but she didn’t participate or even try to – she just went back to sleep. So what has she actually done that’s crossing a boundary for you?
Also I’m a bit confused (and this is not a criticism) because you say you just want mutual respect but…how are you not getting that? You say you trust her not to cheat, and she trusts you to do the same. So how are you not getting mutual respect? It seems like you haven’t actually tried to set any boundaries – you’ve told her you’re uncomfortable about certain things, and then expected her to change the parameters of her behaviour and social life to accommodate that without actually asking her to do so, and while insisting you don’t want to change or restrict her. Can you see how that could be confusing for her? You say you don’t want her to stop being friends with this person but if that’s the case, what DO you want? I suggest you try to figure that out and ask for that directly, rather than saying that you feel uncomfortable but also don’t want to force her to change, and then feeling distressed when she does not in fact change.
Well my previous relationship was awful, toxic on both sides and went on for way too long (almost 1 1/2years). It took 4 1/2 years for me to meet someone I could see myself with. Now I'm with my current boyfriend. Have been together for 8 months now and it's so incredibly healthy. I feel very lucky to have him by my side ?
WTF do you know his body count ?
You don’t need “proof”. The mind wants to gloss over bad things. Just because you don’t remember doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. You don)t need “proof” because YOU know it happened. Just don’t forget the feeling. Don’t forget that SOMETHING happened.
That’s true. I guess we have been long distant for the last month I forgot to mention that so that adds to it. He usually does swipe up but I guess this was an old pic so he meant like he’s already seen it? Idk
“Accidentally cheat”? You’re a joke. Break up so she can find someone better than you. She deserves better.
Excellent advice, and thanks again. Even though it’ll be rough, you’ve convinced me it’s definitely in her best interest too
Tell him
It’s not a humiliating experience IMO but she can feel it is
So you think I should text her and ask or wait till we’re back in person in a couple weeks
Bruh, dump this trashy bitch.
Sounds about right. Guy probably won't even get a slap on the wrist (figuratively speaking) because “nothing really happened”. (Mind you, I do not agree with that, but I believe that's the most likely outcome.)
Wtfayta? Nuwyas!
Your sister is an adult and had every right to make her own decisions.Your father chose to be controlling and petty and now suddenly wants to reconcile and you are all entertaining it.Just because he is getting older doesn't mean he gets a free pass after his crappy attitude towards your sister.
If she doesn't want contact,don't force her.Your father is simply facing the consequences of his own petty actions
Lol
You want to have your name on HIS HOUSE??
LOLL
Go pay rent somewhere else then – and ask that landlord to put your name on their home! Since you don't want to pay it to him!
If you are doing the best you can, then that’s all anyone can ask for.
If you are doing the best you can, then that’s all anyone can ask for.
If you are doing the best you can, then that’s all anyone can ask for.
Please sit her down and talk to her OP. It’s absolutely no use just having these thoughts and convictions running around in your brain. You need to tell her exactly what you are thinking and how you see your future going forward. She can then go about making informed decisions on her own future. Good luck.
He caused it. As far as I know we haven’t hooked up with other people. At least I haven’t.
FYI if you break up you’re not likely to get back together later. That’s not realistic.
Talk about it. Hockey season doesn’t last forever. But maybe she’s not looking to spend as much time together as you are.
She’s controlling, untrusting, and untrustworthy. How much energy do you want to put towards constant mistrust and snooping?
I have 4 kids, I'm well aware of this. I'm just saying it is possible to have sex in that time frame. I do think it's unlikely OP's husband is cheating during that half hour though. He'd have to be insane to do that with both his mother in law and his kids in the house. If he's cheating with this woman, he's most likely doing it outside of the house while his wife thinks he's at work or something.
Babe, the mistake made is yours. As someone who uses writing to myself to process my own experiences, this writing you found isn’t yours to have read.
How do you find a notepad and happen to read this? Intentionally doing so.
Your insecurities are driving you, and it’s going to drive you right out of a relationship. I can tell you from experience that I would leave my partner in a New York minute if they read my personal writings and felt some type of way about it.
How you feel is the natural consequence of invading his private ramblings.
I don't think you should bother confronting this woman. Her actions show that she is two-faced, manipulative and has ill-intentions towards you. Those kind of people will not admit to any wrongdoing, and will gaslight those who try to call them out for their behaviour.
Just ghost her.
Sounds like they picked them over you
I never had the opportunity, she just kept throwing accusations at me while I tried to tell her about the police report so she would see I wasn't full of shit
None of this is excusable… wtf?? He stabbed you???
You should talk to her kids. They would want to know if their mom doesn't have working plumbing in her house.
You’re right. I hate that I snooped too. One night I saw him texting and questioned him about it and got a lame answer so I guess that was a red flag that didn’t sit right with me. Unfortunately I guessed his password and part of me wishes I didn’t. I have to say I don’t know if it’s a dealbreaker for me. It probably should be but I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s a sex addict trying to break his ways and failing at times. I don’t know 100% he visited the escort I just saw he was inquiring about it. I’m trying to look at it objectively and not just let my bruised ego do all my thinking for me. Most people would say dump his ass but is that the only solution?
Of course therapy isn't working. You're not going regularly and aren't doing the work. If you really wanted to change, you would. You would attend therapy weekly or whatever they recommend and you'd do the work. Your poor husband has reached his breaking point. He's given you so many chances and now he's done.
Maybe try therapy but there's nothing else you can do besides continue to give it time. Don't go backwards.
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Oh honey you are way too good for this man. You’ve moved for him, financially supported him, listened to him, and he’s gaslighting you into thinking you’re not pulling your weight in the relationship. Someone who really cares for you will listen and work with you in the relationship. Please do what’s right for yourself. Being alone is so much better than being with someone who doesn’t respect or appreciate you.
WHAT. THE. FUCK???
So my ex and I broke up in January of this year. It would’ve been 8 years in June. She had told me in November of 2022 she wanted me to propose to her. So I was confused as to how she lost those kind of feelings so fast??
My guess: she told you in November, hoping for a christmas proposal. If you've been together for 8 years, she probably figured it wasn't going to happen so she gave up.
Why is she doing this outside of she’s checking up on me? I’m not even sure why she would check up on me anyways since she left???
Because she is immature/playing games
What am I to do with all of this?
Block her, dont look back. Move on with your life.
You have no idea what you’re talking about.
You're misreading this. This isn't some “trap”. Your gf was making a joke. Or at least trying to make one. Then she's pushing to get some sort of conversation or interesting remark out of you. I'm guessing your tone implied you had something to say. Instead she gets you taking her obvious joke seriously and call her rude over something meaningless.
You avoid this by saying “There's nothing to say”, and immediately changing the subject. Or even better, making a joke yourself: “You know I can't look at that popcorn ceiling without without wanting to scratch it all off” or “The ghost in your ceiling makes spooky faces at me when you're gone and I don't want to encourage it”. Or whatever. You definitely don't take her joke seriously as if she's some crazy gf and then call her rude bc she got up for a minute during your video call. Your girlfriend would not be upset if you had said either of the options I gave.
She might have created that conversation to see how you'd respond, but if she was looking for drama she would have escalated it you, not shut down. She thinks you're clueless and she feels like she doesn't know how to respond to what you said. When you called her rude for that, she feels you like you're controlling and are going to get insecure if you don't get every second of her attention. She shuts down because she feels like you won't get it, and she doesn't have the communication skills to address it.
I hope you and his ex best friend get jumped fuckin bitch, i would spit on you but i don't wanna waste my energy on a creep
Almost sounds like the Manic stage of Bipolar.
Dump his ass. 31 is too old to be explaining that to a man child.
Hon, your husband expected to get to fuck another woman with your permission while you did nothing. He did NOT expect you and the other husband to connect and enjoy each other. Now he’s jealous and mad. You did NOTHING wrong here, your husband got exactly what he asked for. So did his coworker, who lowly expected the same turnout – her to bang your husband while her husband got nothing, because your hubby told her how shy and not into it you were.
If you haven't dumped him yet, you SHOULD ASAP.
You won't see your side. You date people who share your values and respect your boundaries. She just wants to fuck around and is not happy with your boundaries that restrict her from doing all her friends.
You can't stop him without hurting his feelings and losing the friendship.
she didnt need to tell your step children and you did what you had to do to make money. just give her some time to process
For what it’s worth, I will share that acting a little bit gross dissolves unwanted attraction fast. Even something as small as saying, “Sorry, no I can’t hang out after work because the last time I went to that bar I got horrendous diarrhea.” will end his appeal of you.
When getting hit on at the bar, smiling politely while putting a finger up my nose, ended unwanted interactions way faster than just firmly saying “I’m not interested,” or “I have a boyfriend.”
I suppose I t’s a lighter version of pissing yourself during a rape attempt to deter the attacker.
Why don’t you think this is a hill to die on? How do you know he hasn’t already given things of yours away or simply thrown things of yours away? Stand up for yourself. I saw your post about using his cookware. He is very possessive and controlling. You’re not living like a romantic couple. You’re roommates who keep your things separated and probably share a bed.
I’ve been this way my whole life just straight forward and honest, I do believe it’s because people like us don’t cause any drama so we are “boring” to them and no fun, you’ll find your people just can’t say when
So, this is incorrect. Jaundice caused by hepatitis can include the skin or eyes, not always both, and other symptoms could take years to develop, so the absence of other symptoms doesn't immediately mean it can't be that. Hepatitis can lead to all sorts of liver damage, including failure. This is something he needs to get checked as soon as possible to make sure he isn't fucking up his liver with this new diet; even if it comes out that it's some sort of side effect, it's better to check now than have his liver fail later.
And…a parasite? That's not normal. He needs to go to the doctor like yesterday and get himself checked out before he seriously harms himself.
Thank you ❤️ I think I am just gonna tell him. The more I tell people, the more normal it feels. And I know! I meant after my stitches are out and there’s a scar. It’s pretty high up on my labia as well, not near the vagina, but I didn’t mean while the stitches are in.
I remember a quote that applies:
“You thought you were setting boundaries when you were just making requests.” Gottmann Institute
The key difference between a request and a real boundary is consequences.
Yes this is a violation of your relationship terms. Unless specifically established otherwise when one marries it is assumed you will not keep secret friends (who fit the category you are sexually attracted to) from each other. It’s stupid of him to assume this is ok and act like you are being unreasonable. You have to ask yourself- is it more likely that he is stupid or that he is gaslighting?
He’s had emotional affairs before. This is another one. Trust is lost. You get what you put up with. It’s painful- but it sounds like you can’t convince him to stop doing things that hurt you- so you need to protect yourself from him.
Just dont respond to them or if there is a way to turn dm off in the game turn them off
Leave, the gambling away 50k is more than enough reason. But now he's assaulting women on the street?? You say if you leave he might get worse, but honestly he'll get worse if you stay. Staying is (on some level, to him) condoning what he's done.
I now see there is an bdsm edit and this makes more sense, but stand that they just need to make their love language clear to their partner.
If you try to make it work you will leave this physical and mentally damaged. Where did you get the notion that someone trying to fist you without a long conversation before hand normal? It’s quite sick and fucked up. I’m not being dramatic at all when I tell you that this man is a predator and you are in absolute danger. What you’ve described here is horrific. If my son grew up to commit these acts he would be disowned. If you were my daughter I would collect you and run. This is serious!
“I am constantly married and is constantly sorting out housework with my wife.”
Was this written by AI?