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i think you said it perfectly right there. you understand that it’s about her insecurities, and you don’t want to hurt her or upset her, but it’s sad that she doesn’t support you. i think it might help to just compliment her and tell her she’s beautiful and you love her the same as you did before you made those changes. it seems like she thinks you’re gonna move on
I mean, you're adults there isn't anything wrong with signing a year lease. The fact she made it a point to state that has me concerned that it's just an excuse to cover her ass if she does try and have sex one night. I can already picture it, a night where both of you are home, she's had some to drink, she flirts, starts playful touching and next thing you know her pants are off and asking for you to have sex. Then it'll be the excuse the next day that she warned toy ahead of time.
But you are fully capable of deciding if your dick comes out. If you like the place, then respond to her and tell her that you have no problem keeping it professional, so it's more on her if she is able to keep things civil and professional for however long your lease is. You don't mix your living situation with pleasure so she needs to be completely honest with you of she can do the same. If so, then she had a new roommate. If she feels she can't, then it wad nice to meet her
Why did you have kids with her?
I think most men feel unsure of whether they're really pleasing their female partner bc acheiving pleasure is usually a lot more complex for women, on top of the fact that women have been conditioned to fake things or not ask for what they want. So my bf loves when I tell him what I want during sex, or when he's doing something I really like. I never felt comfortable being bossy during sex (“to the left a little….a little more…..now a little faster” etc.) but it gets him off knowing that he's doing exactly what makes me feel good—which is what any good partner wants!
This has to be a troll post
the problem is not her or your age.
the problem is you. your life goes in a direction that she already not follow. tell her your futur, profit of the present, see where it leads.
The king shit of doing absolutely not a damn thing in any scenario! ???
Its not your place to butt into something like this. You explicitly say how his parents are and he’s said he wasn’t ready to tell them yet and you went behind his back and then messed up the only form of socialization he has, you don’t see how that’s disrespectful?
I just checked my iPhone message settings. There is an option that will auto delete messages after 30 days but no other options for auto deleting a specific contacts messages individually. It’s all or nothing or he is manually removing things.
Everything you said resonates with my gut instincts, but whenever my gut is about to win over my heart, he’ll turn around and do or say something that completely goes against what my gut was telling me. The biggest thing is how unintentional it seems, like he’s navigating this as best as he can even if it’s unintentionally at my expense, and I almost feel like I’d be giving up on him as a person if I’m not more patient and then I’m back at square one. Any advice on how to prioritize oneself in situations like this? I feel selfish thinking I’d be better off without him because I do think he cares for me, but the anxiety it brings is debilitating at times
I don't think so. It's more a matter of how important this relationship is to you. Since you don't communicate there could be all sorts of missunderstandings that are getting between you.
The daughter was on foster care because it had also come up in the other family that she wasn't theirs, except the authorities had gotten involved and the other parents were considered to be kidnappers.
The world is a big place…. Unreal stuff happens every day.
Did I seriously f up by having her over?
No, your f up was when you decided to make plans without including him in the decision at all. I wonder whether the problem is not about her specifically, but about you and how you're not working together as a team.
Infections aren't going to show up immediately so OP probably wants to get tested at the 3 week and 3 month marks just to be safe.
But yeah I'm also really sorry your ex is such a dumbfuck OP 🙁
Sounds like wife has put up with enough BS , and can't take it anymore! There's got to be more to this story.
Sounds like wife has put up with enough BS , and can't take it anymore! There's got to be more to this story.
Your boyfriend is living with whom at the moment?..with his wife.. not ex wife. You should not date somebody else’s husband no matter the circumstance?♀️
Add the note 100%
But, please, proper spelling and grammar
“Mark seems pretty nice, too bad you lost him as well”
It doesn't sound like he forgot. He did wish you a happy birthday? It's unrealistic to expect him to read your mind and know that you 'required' him to be the first person to wish you a happy birthday. That's a pretty unfair requirement unless you specifically told him that in order to keep you happy, he needs to be the first…
Happy birthday. Do something special for yourself if nothing is planned. Celebrate your life, accomplishments, and the other stuff? Let it go.
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honestly if it was me I’d make it a condition that the son whip only be brought into the picture once our children have been born. It’s been so long, it can wait slightly longer for your own family to be stable, for you to experience becoming parents with your new husband together first before an additional child enters that dynamic. It’s a whole lot to deal with anyways but I wouldn’t wanna take away from your experience for now, and allow you this time to settle in your new role and and then deal with it.
So you prostituted yourself for money. Had sex with a man 4 times who also was fucking your mom. Who dated your mom. And now you’re disgusted with yourself and want to tell your mom. Lol Wow. Just wow.
What?
This is completely unreasonable of him. “Another few months” is a moving goalpost. And getting an IUD inserted and removed is painful — you shouldn’t be expected to get a new one and just pop it out when he’s ready. I don’t think this guy wants kids.
DO NOT go back to him. I see no over reaction here—more like UNDER reaction. This man is a dog and I don't see how you stayed so long.
not enough information in your post to really address your question
It will only get worse once she screws you out of as much as she can, and you have to go through a lawyer to get anything.
Shes told you she will do this, literally. Please just speak to a lawyer and make no more attempts to reason with her, she is acting out of spite and nothing else. You will regret not getting a lawyer.
He is acting like a spoiled child, in his defense he is one. Find a more mature boy.
Wouldn’t hyphenation solve that for both parents?
Ya I pretty much said “I'm not physically attracted to you anymore, it has to do with all the care and stress of home” paraphrase because it was last week.
Make him an ex asap. When my ex was cheating on me he gave the same line of “well you didn’t ask” he also doubled down with the ridiculous “I didn’t lie, I just omitted information that you didn’t need to know” You deserve better, and someone who will respect you and not treat you like you are an idiot that can’t figure shit out.
Bro. RUN. She’s not ready for this and based on your replies neither are you.
Those are YOUR properties which predate the relationship. DO NOT PUT HER NAME ON THEM.
I'm not being defensive or implying that she's wrong, like I said if I was unsure about the number of children before, I am more sure now that I see what it is like to take care of 1 kid. After having the 1 kid, we talked and I was definitely less sure about having the second one and in the next months the decision became more sure.
She does hate it when I change my mind though, where I see that as my right to change my mind when new information comes in that makes me question my earlier decisions.
She really isn't good at all. This is not her finest moment. She destroyed OP's relationship with his BF. That's kinda evil. And, she resents the best friend for her pushing herself on him? WTH. She was on the beach with OP. Then, she left OP to have those 15 secs of bump. Then she came back immediately to OP. It IS eeewy.
So, you want a fuckbuddy but are scared to tell the truth just so you can use her?
That’s good! Now try something new. Tell your wife your doing doing mental gymnastics. All so you can keep your bestie.
BTW, your so called bestie is a grown ass woman not a girl. She should be putting the brakes on this as well.
Your friend has problems, I would completely cut off someone who thought that horrible video was funny. He also knew it would effect you since you love cats, why did he want to do that to you? Your friend is sick.
If you're not already working with a medical professional that would be the first move. No non trained individual is going to be able to talk you down off the ledge constantly. The average non psychologist cannot offer you “a little more support”. Don't make this her problem unless you've actively taking measures to stabilize your mental illness.
I am not practicing any kind of sex with her until i am 100% sure I'm clean. I'm taking profilaxis to lower HIV risk and I'm on the lookout for any other symptoms of any other diseases. I have a pretty healthy lifestyle, I take lots of vitamin supplements and amino acids, and my immune system is strong, so i'm optimistic. Plus de doctor told me he was 100% sure I'd be alright, and I know they don't make promises lightly, so I think my prospects are good.
So far i only have a sore throat but that's a very common thing for me.
Anyways, I told her. She was super understanding, told me I had nothing to worry about and that she'd be by my said every step of the way.
Honestly I don't know what I've done to deserve a girl so wonderful as her but I'm making sure I repay her kindness for the rest of my life. Damn I love her so much.
Right? If anyone was a candidate to adopt a rescue parrot it's this guy!
He’s a r/JustNoSO, and he’s not the one for OP.
He sounds very immature. Don’t be with someone that stresses you out. If you feel less happy having the relationship than not, you know the answer.
It’s much harder to try to change the person than changing who you’re in a relationship with. I don’t know anyone who has successfully changed anyone else. Change has to come from himself.
In your scenario specifically, will opening up the relationship ruin it? Yes.
For an open relationship to work, both of you need to be in a healthy, secure place (no insecurities). Both of you need to be fully on board (enthusiastic agreement/consent). You both need to fully trust each other. Even then, it can be challenging to navigate.
And in your situation? You were hesitant saying yes. The situation is already making you anxious. You *both* have trust issues. You admit you are insecure & have abandonment issues.
If you want your relationship to survive, the answer is not to open it up, that will only ruin it.
You two need to sit down & have a deep heart to heart. For both of you, you need to honestly assess where you are both at & what your priorities are. Work out how much time & energy you have to invest in those priorities. You say you have a lot of responsibility, is there anything you can let go of to make more time for your relationship? If not… then maybe the relationship is what you need to let go of.
It has been a year, and you barely met any of his friends, his family members like parents, siblings, and you never even been to his house. He deliberately tries to avoid running into ppl he knows when he's with you. What do you think?
How you never notice these red flags are beyond me.