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I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. No te lo mereces. Unfortunately, this sounds like a control thing. And OP, if this is a pattern, nothing you say will change her mind or the way she operates. The most you’ll be able to do is share you’re hurt, but she’ll likely make an excuse that you need to get over it or it’s on you. I really encourage you to seek therapy as soon as you’re able to because these dynamics leave scars. Abrazos.
If your wife is worried about paperwork, she needs to know that this name change will follow your daughter around (assuming you live in the US). Any time you do anything “official” like buy a house or get a passport, you have to to list other names you have gone by. In many states parents are require to list their birth name on the new baby’s birth certificate. It will get even more cumbersome if your daughter changes her name again due to marriage or something else.
I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. No te lo mereces. Unfortunately, this sounds like a control thing. And OP, if this is a pattern, nothing you say will change her mind or the way she operates. The most you’ll be able to do is share you’re hurt, but she’ll likely make an excuse that you need to get over it or it’s on you. I really encourage you to seek therapy as soon as you’re able to because these dynamics leave scars. Abrazos.
If your wife is worried about paperwork, she needs to know that this name change will follow your daughter around (assuming you live in the US). Any time you do anything “official” like buy a house or get a passport, you have to to list other names you have gone by. In many states parents are require to list their birth name on the new baby’s birth certificate. It will get even more cumbersome if your daughter changes her name again due to marriage or something else.