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He says I should be home taking care of him and my son.
Yech. He's a grown-ass man. Can he not take care of himself for a few days?? This just reeks of 'your place is in the home' and that he's only 'allowed' you to have a job thus far because it didn't interfere with being his caretaker.
Your son is almost grown, you don't need to 'take care of him' anymore. So clearly your husband means you need to be taking care of him. So his opinion of that isn't going to change when your son moves out on his own.
You've spent years in a field that left you drained and you have now managed to parlay that into something you enjoy that brings you passion and energy. He should be happy for you, not pissed that you won't be around to fetch his slippers and fawn over him.
Sounds like you are seeing your marriage in a light that you hadn't noticed before and once you see it, you can't unsee it. I'm betting the cracks will get wider and wider the more open your eyes become and there will come a time in your not-so-distant future that you will absolutely regret giving up this opportunity.
i read it and i agree with so0ty — i think even you know what you have to do
Umm don’t wanna be annoying but yesterday we didn’t text all day so I though I should send him how his day is going and now I’m left on delivered ?
I'd like to think I am meeting her love language because part of it is gifts and I sometimes go out of my way to achieve that. After 4 years together, I can see it in her face if she doesn't like the act of service/ gift I got her. So I think it's a good barometer. But your question does worry me a bit that I may be taking that barometer for granted.
12 yo, apparently.
But, as crime has no gender, stupidity has no age.
Let's hope it's a learning moment for him/her/theirs
Yeah, my point was the word “all,” which makes a gigantic difference.
By dump her, do you mean file for divorce? It’s terribly sad that she’s going through such a difficult time with the impending death of a family member, alcoholism, depression & more. She hasn’t cheated on OP yet, let alone even communicated with the other guy. I think this is one of those “for better or for worse” stretches. If their relationship really is wonderful & they got married for the right reasons, then this will be just a blip in the road.
If you really think it could be a mistake or miscommunication because you never covered this topic with your GF, then that’s where you start –
I had a weird situation with my now-husband back when we were dating where he kissed a female friend of his on the lips. Not a passionate kiss, but a quick peck. Turns out they have been doing that for a long while and he owned up that he wasn’t even thinking about it in that context when it happened. It was just what they always did – granted it happened right in front of me and appeared to be a very natural thing for them, but I was like “oh hell no!” in my head as I saw it all play out.
But we never talked about these boundaries or what was appropriate, so I really couldn’t blame him.
So we had the talk – we outlined every perceivable situation we could get ourselves into with a member of the opposite sex and we set ground rules. We also talked about his female best friend specifically and set expectations for that friendship moving forward, including no more kissing on the lips.
It was a productive dialogue that got us both on the same page. Haven’t had an issue since because we both know where we stand on any conceivable scenario that could be considered “cheating” including the topic of porn.
So if you think she’s telling the truth and not just gaslighting you about this, then tell her that last night is what it is. Can’t be mad if she truly didn’t know it was cheating.
Then you set boundaries for the future. If she does this again after knowing your position on it, then break up.
I totally think most of his requests are reasonable!! Which is why i want to work on things and not just give up. It’s just how it’s handled essentially. But lol i had plenty of veggies. He was criticizing that i didn’t have enough food in the house but what i later figured out was the root issue is that everything i had, had to be cooked or prepared and he wanted me to cook it for him or buy easy frozen meals he could microwave.
Not really fair to shame me multiple times for not cooking for him when i also took the energy (and money) to grocery shop for us.
Now granted, he cooks for me when I’m at his place. However, we are at my place 5x more often and plus he has roommates and i don’t. So it’s different dynamics like whenever i try to help grab a bowl he says no not that one, it’s my roommates etc.
You need to start interacting with other women so this 27F won't occupy your mind so much, also stop hitting her up so much especially at the start of the day and right before you sleep, you only do that for the ONE YOU ARE EXCLUSIVELY DATING OR MARRIED TO lol, when you do that you're pedestalizing her. You want to treat and put her on the same level as all your other friends and coworkers who you have zero romanctic/sexual interest in. Yea it sucks, I've been there before but you gotta stop letting her live! rent free in you mind if you want to get over her.
So why are you with her? She doesn’t have your back , she constantly lies , you don’t feel loved. What else do you need to see before you take off the rosé tinted glasses
I try to keep any issues I have to myself or when I do reach out to people I always argue his side as well as my own so I’m not being biased when asking for advice. I think by doing this though I downplay my own feelings a lot, so some of how I feel like a secondary person in this relationship is genuinely on me.
Girl, please for the love of god. Value yourself first and foremost. You do not have to be treated this way and you do not have to accept this kind of treatment. You are better than this, you are worth more than this. None of his behavior is okay or normal. It's toxic, hateful and wrong. There are good men out there that treat women with love, respect and compassion. This isn't one of them, this isn't one of them on their worst days. This isn't someone you continue a relationship with and surely isn't someone you will want to marry. Please look after yourself and move on for your own mental health.
A marital home is the house a married couple shares. It’s generally described separately from other owned property as it’s expected/assumed that both parties have a shared/equal interest in the property. If you are not in the US then that may not apply.
The loan from your parents is a gift to you, from money that will eventually be given to you. It’s not unreasonable for your fiancée to not want to repay that portion as it’s not money that will ever be hers.
So your parents are giving you a gift to put towards the purchase of a home that you and your future wife will share. If they are only giving the money to you then it’s reasonable that it is only your responsibility to replace. If your fiancée will be paying half the mortgage and half of the other expenses then that seems like an equitable division of costs.
If your concern is that in a divorce you might be out of the down payment when it comes to potentially selling the home then that is something to include in the prenup, in fact this is exactly what they are for. You would include in the prenup that your wife would get half of the equity in the house less the down payment.
It is unreasonable for you to claim all the equity of the home when you are each splitting the mortgage and will both ostensibly be listed on the mortgage, as that means that she is also responsible for the total cost of the mortgage should something happen to you.
Have you discussed with her that you only intend to live! in this house for a year or two then move again? If that’s the case then you should discuss about what you’d like to do about eventually settling down. it’s reasonable for her to Want half the equity in a home that she’s paying the half the Mortgage on. So if you want her to contribute half of the down payment as well then you should wait on purchasing a home, as she will need time to build up her half of the down payment.
How much is the downpayment as a percentage of the total cost of the house? If it’s only 10-15% then it seems like you are being unreasonable in this case. If it’s more like 50% of the cost of the home then she shouldn’t have half the equity.