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You know those forensic crime shows where they have physical evidence transfer from a dog on the carpet at the must scene to the jacket to the trunk carpet to the remote wooded location blah blah blah. That just proves how easy shit transfers from one place to another. That hair could have been picked up anywhere, by anyone, and hitchhiked into the house.
Your reply to that should be to leave, get the car keys and go out for awhile. Get a manicure or something. Perhaps even go stay with a friend. Give him time to stew in his own negativity. Come back when you can act normal again.
I'm 30 too, and I had my first time one and a half years ago. She didn't mind me being a virgin at all, and any woman who does doesn't deserve your first time. People who make a value judgment about you based on whether you've had sex before or not are not great people, so if she's one of those then save it for someone better.
Is there any chance he could be on the spectrum? Part of it can be a preoccupation with word meaning. I think theres a chance of this being okay if it's because he's scared of never having been in a relationship
In the nicest way possible, you might need to rehome yourself. The dog was there well before you emerged on scene, and you still chose to pursue the relationship. That’s on you. If the dog was a dealbreaker, you should have made it a dealbreaker and left. (Again, I mean this in the nicest way possible. I’m sending good vibes and Claritin thoughts your way).
Then don't. It sounds like she already knows your concerns, so all you an do is stop avoiding the conversation and say no. She won't stop bringing it up until you tell her, but if having more children of her own is important to her (if they even are, would adoption be considered?) then maybe you should think about life apart. You both deserve to have the things you want.
Maybe it’s just friends with benefits to start, but that’s how a lot of relationships start now. Besides, benefits don’t just have to be sex, could be nights out, dinners etc. you’re getting in your own head. If you had a good time and want to repeat it, leave yourself open to that and make it clear you’re open and would enjoy a repeat of the other night.
I keep trying to tell myself that it’s not that bad. Like it definitely could be way worse but he told me he wasn’t actively trying to go through my phone and he just got a little curious and clicked on one name. I am only a little bit on edge with this answer because I don’t know how the one name he got curious about was a guy I had history with. It all just kind of puts me a little on edge I suppose, and I really like this man and want to continue a relationship however it is difficult for me to trust him going forward because of this breach in my privacy.
Weird. Its just a hair color and a pretty common one. and he shouldnt think about his ex when he is looking at you. Do what you want with your hair and he will just have to get over his ex
I'm sorry, and you saying don't immediately run to break up means you already know what needs to happen. He's addicted and has an addictive personality. He's not putting you or your family first and is incredibly unreliable. Is this how you want to raise your son? Children need to be able to rely on their parents and need stability.
You know those forensic crime shows where they have physical evidence transfer from a dog on the carpet at the must scene to the jacket to the trunk carpet to the remote wooded location blah blah blah. That just proves how easy shit transfers from one place to another. That hair could have been picked up anywhere, by anyone, and hitchhiked into the house.
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There’s your answer…don’t get married…
There is nothing wrong with not wanting to share the person you're with. Everyone should have a relationship that works for them.
Tell him to join the r/nofap bois. Supportive community that pushes people to re direct that energy to goal-setting and physical health
Your comment means nothing. Your experience is anecdotal. And “others” is heresay.
Your reply to that should be to leave, get the car keys and go out for awhile. Get a manicure or something. Perhaps even go stay with a friend. Give him time to stew in his own negativity. Come back when you can act normal again.
Why didn’t you get her something for xmas?
now imagine that, now you're walking on eggshells because you couldn't be an adult and ignore feelings for your co worker
this is the main reason I don’t want more kids I’m 40 our child would be still so little while we’re old I’d be 52 while our child is 12
Just an add on: OP and his partner basically sound as if they’re married without the legal title.
I'm 30 too, and I had my first time one and a half years ago. She didn't mind me being a virgin at all, and any woman who does doesn't deserve your first time. People who make a value judgment about you based on whether you've had sex before or not are not great people, so if she's one of those then save it for someone better.
You need to make sure she has someone who loves her close by. She'll need to be on suicide watch.
Lol this set off my BPD alarm and then I peeped your post history. Time to check yourself!
Is there any chance he could be on the spectrum? Part of it can be a preoccupation with word meaning. I think theres a chance of this being okay if it's because he's scared of never having been in a relationship
Guys, I just wanted to thank everyone who took the time to respond. God bless you all. And yes, I am on medication. I take lithium twice a day.
No one is. He's probably trading it for xbox plus money.
In the nicest way possible, you might need to rehome yourself. The dog was there well before you emerged on scene, and you still chose to pursue the relationship. That’s on you. If the dog was a dealbreaker, you should have made it a dealbreaker and left. (Again, I mean this in the nicest way possible. I’m sending good vibes and Claritin thoughts your way).
So what he did is normal to have fantasized about a girl he liked?
Then don't. It sounds like she already knows your concerns, so all you an do is stop avoiding the conversation and say no. She won't stop bringing it up until you tell her, but if having more children of her own is important to her (if they even are, would adoption be considered?) then maybe you should think about life apart. You both deserve to have the things you want.
God fuling dammint
Wtf did i just read?
First of all im sorry this happend to you.
But his behaviour has nothing to do with you “being too loose”!
He sounds controlling and insecure, i sugget HE sees a doctor.
He is the problem not you. *
He did anal without your consent, means he * raped * you!!!
If he complains the next time, tell him that you are thight enough, his dick is just too small!! *
You deserve so much better than that dbag. Dont have sex with him anymore!
It isnt on you to fix his behavior/him!
Maybe it’s just friends with benefits to start, but that’s how a lot of relationships start now. Besides, benefits don’t just have to be sex, could be nights out, dinners etc. you’re getting in your own head. If you had a good time and want to repeat it, leave yourself open to that and make it clear you’re open and would enjoy a repeat of the other night.
Fair point, I did read that a little wrong.
However, my core advice still stands. You do need to apologize to your mom.
I keep trying to tell myself that it’s not that bad. Like it definitely could be way worse but he told me he wasn’t actively trying to go through my phone and he just got a little curious and clicked on one name. I am only a little bit on edge with this answer because I don’t know how the one name he got curious about was a guy I had history with. It all just kind of puts me a little on edge I suppose, and I really like this man and want to continue a relationship however it is difficult for me to trust him going forward because of this breach in my privacy.
Weird. Its just a hair color and a pretty common one. and he shouldnt think about his ex when he is looking at you. Do what you want with your hair and he will just have to get over his ex
Does your gf work or is she in school? Ultimately she has to get herself out of there and have the power and leverage to do that.
I think so, but have reasons to believe that is slowing down day by day
I'm sorry, and you saying don't immediately run to break up means you already know what needs to happen. He's addicted and has an addictive personality. He's not putting you or your family first and is incredibly unreliable. Is this how you want to raise your son? Children need to be able to rely on their parents and need stability.