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Trust your instincts and prepare to leave without showing him. Start packing a suitcase for your child and for yourself. Gather important papers and all bank information. Open a new account at a different bank branch for yourself only. Find an attorney and do what they say. Arrange a place to live. If you need a shelter that’s a good place to go. They can give help and keep you safe for a time. If you have family you trust then great. Do it ASAP.
That would be my first advice too but he literally would never do that. He's very much a “I'm not physically sick or dying so I'm not going to a doctor” type of person.
OP, you are a catch and your friends are rightly calling out that you are not compatible at a deep values level.
If you are not comfortable raising children in a religious home and I would guess that’s a deal breaker for him, you will not stay together.
Also you don’t seem compatible at an ambition or intellectual stimulation level. I believe finances are the number one reason couples fight and break up so money management should not be a taboo topic.
I suppose you can enjoy the ride in the meantime if you really want to. But why stay with someone when you already see the end date? Tbh you could be out dating, meeting all types of interesting, dynamic and ambitious partners who can actually afford to take you out (please tell me you’re not paying for everything so he can pay off debt) and are probably much more your equal.
I’m guessing he doesn’t fit in with your friends and he’s boring af.
Of course he glows when he sees you, he sits home unemployed all day with his pastor parents. He has nothing else to do but practice his witty and enticing lines to keep you hooked while talking about abstinence with them – and then being good in bed with you. He’s also a hypocrite and not a man of his word. (I’m not religious so not shaming, just using logic.)
I would probably be annoyed as your friend and you would in their shoes too.
Trust your instincts and prepare to leave without showing him. Start packing a suitcase for your child and for yourself. Gather important papers and all bank information. Open a new account at a different bank branch for yourself only. Find an attorney and do what they say. Arrange a place to live. If you need a shelter that’s a good place to go. They can give help and keep you safe for a time. If you have family you trust then great. Do it ASAP.
That would be my first advice too but he literally would never do that. He's very much a “I'm not physically sick or dying so I'm not going to a doctor” type of person.
OP, you are a catch and your friends are rightly calling out that you are not compatible at a deep values level.
If you are not comfortable raising children in a religious home and I would guess that’s a deal breaker for him, you will not stay together.
Also you don’t seem compatible at an ambition or intellectual stimulation level. I believe finances are the number one reason couples fight and break up so money management should not be a taboo topic.
I suppose you can enjoy the ride in the meantime if you really want to. But why stay with someone when you already see the end date? Tbh you could be out dating, meeting all types of interesting, dynamic and ambitious partners who can actually afford to take you out (please tell me you’re not paying for everything so he can pay off debt) and are probably much more your equal.
I’m guessing he doesn’t fit in with your friends and he’s boring af.
Of course he glows when he sees you, he sits home unemployed all day with his pastor parents. He has nothing else to do but practice his witty and enticing lines to keep you hooked while talking about abstinence with them – and then being good in bed with you. He’s also a hypocrite and not a man of his word. (I’m not religious so not shaming, just using logic.)
I would probably be annoyed as your friend and you would in their shoes too.
DON'T DO IT!! just don't. Tell them to find a stray in a bar or something. This will destroy your friendship he will always know you have been