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Date: November 23, 2022
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Idk, unpopular opinion, but he did you a favor. Returned your portion of the money, and admitted he is not ready for commitment.
Financially, you should never buy a home with a 'boyfriend'. If you guys are not ready for marriage, you are not ready for such a huge financial commitment.
I don't think it should be the end of your relationship, he was fair (in returning your portion of the deposit), and honest (in admitting he was not ready). However you definitely need an honest conversation about your future and feelings, and how to proceed. You are very lucky you are out no money. This was huge and definitely needs a hard conversation. Wishing the best of luck.
Why would I listen to you, seems like you have shit morals. I’m dumping her because she is a horrible person.
This sounds toxic.
Look up jail views in your area, he might’ve gotten arrested
?????? open relationship ????? phew I needed that laugh… but seriously though kudos's to those who are able to make it work, but seriously you OP need to stay the fuck away from your former SO. An open relationship is no way to “fix” a relationship, you may have loved him at the start, but when you decided that that was what you needed it ended your relationship. He is hopefully now in loving commited relationship with someone who loves him for him and not a toy you get bored with. You need to move on, maybe work on some inner insecurities in order to have a loving relationship with another person down the line. Good luck for what its worth.
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Thank you. I couldn't agree more. I'm so sorry your husband had to go through that. People don't take assult on men seriously, and it makes me sick. I volunteered at a local Children's Advocacy Center after I turned 18 and could no longer use their services or attend support group. Over the 6 years I attended or volunteered, the boys' groups almost always outnumbered the girls. And they ALL expressed feeling like it was their fault and that their families didn't show much concern. It's absolutely heartbreaking. I really hope he reaches out for support. Even if he doesn't file a report, support groups are so helpful. He's not alone, and this will never be his fault. I'm sending you both virtual hugs. If you want any help finding resources in your area, don't hesitate to send me a message. ?
That dude was never going to be a single dad, there are always plenty of impressionable 18 year olds out there for him to groom into being replacement mommy and bangmaid.
“i don’t want anything to mess it up” – then don't tell him!
What reaction do you want from him? You come clean and how that will make him feel?
If it was traumatic and horrible maybe go to therapy if you need help
Have you not watched the 40 year old virgin??! You'll end up flying through the side of a truck ans holding up traffic if you don't admit it!
And you’re breaking his boundary by wearing tank tops in public. Seems like you’re cheating too.
OP, this is why you don't date a cop. Anything goes wrong and the whole group of them can literally ruin your life.
Are you moving any time soon? Is there any way to get info anonymously to her?
Despite redditor comments, you are dealing with a professional who is trained at seeing through the muck.
Life is rarely equal. If your husband is too physically drained from his work to do whatever is requested, then that’s reality right? Why not look at dealing with the current reality in a way that’s most constructive. I’m absolutely not saying it doesn’t mean he needs to compromise as well. However, I am sure your counselor is more likely to be asking all of the relevant questions than redditors.
I disagree as every guy knows what thoughts a straight male has towards a 'girl' friend. They'll try and play & sometimes the girl is naive and can't see what he is getting at.
Why would I put my nice juicy steak on a tree stump in the middle of a paddock and not go and grab it when there are 10 eager, hungry guys around it, getting their knife & fork ready? Why would I ever put it in that situation?
I could arguably be the best-looking guy on the planet & I still would not allow this by any girl I date/marry. They are welcome to leave if they don't like it. You can sit there & say “that's controlling” but if you were to interview my girlfriend and ask her if she felt controlled, your answer would be there.
If I end up single because no girl wants to comply then thats fine. Its your duty when you “act like a man” to lay down the boundaries and set the tone for the relationship. I'm not holding a gun to her head.
Take cheating for example…
Everyone knows that it is wrong and you can expect your partner to not do so in the relationship and if they do commit such an act then you're more than welcome to say “I don't tolerate that. We're done”.
But just because “no guy friends” doesn't align with society's 'norms' I am all of a sudden controlling!? It's controlling upon everyone who says I should drop that and suffer during my relationship/s because she has guy friends and I can't leave because she loves me.
I hope you do not perceive me as some stuck-up, stubborn guy. I keep open-minded and I appreciate your comment, however, after looking down several routes and doing my research on this, and judging by my own experiences I have chosen this to be the only way in MY life and I understand this does not align with you or many others but I stand by the quote of “Don't take advice from people that don't have to deal with the consequences.”. Obviously, that cuts out a tremendous bunch of advice as advice is traditionally given from an outsider, looking in but it keeps me careful with severe consequences. Respect is not a problem for me and I believe that if you lay down your boundaries and stick to them, she will respect you.
Thankyou for your comment.
If you read my comments. I broke up with her. I saw the relationship as over the minute she invited my ex fuck to my place under false pretenses.
I called it the honeymoon phase because before this crazy outbreak of bullshit she was actually pretty chill then she asked the magic question of past intimate relationships.
I mean… sure, it's possible, I guess. Though, I trust her word ad priori and don't assume what she said to be untrue, evethough I also think it's obvious she is more or less consciously not being fully transparent, which is an issue for me. I also don't think going no contact would be the best course of action. Our communication since all this has been a bit awkward and that's what I need most now, communication. So I am confronting her with my thoughts on this.
Well as I can see it it’s not entirely your problem. This guy seems to have deep fidelity issues. Maybe a therapist can help him.
But she doesn’t have this persons contact details, hasn’t seen or talked to them in 9 years.
This isn’t an attempt to not feel like an outcast, it is an attempt to make OP jealous by bringing a guy around while on a trip to Paris.
Damn. Well you’re an anomaly there. Like 99% of people aren’t going to find just one person attractive. So while it makes sense that since that’s your experience you’d expect the same from others. But unfortunately that’s probably not going to be the case with almost anyone you date. But it’s normal so don’t sweat it too hard