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Date: December 20, 2022
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Thank you. It's validating to hear (read) someone else say that there's really no explanation that could change what happened or give peace of mind. My heart also hurts for my sister.
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OP still hasn't replied to my latest comment where I listed some identifying factors… I'm worried it is my sisters bf, and he's totally freaked out now!! It's getting late here but I don't wanna sleep until OP responds, or my sisters bf responds to my WhatsApp!
You can talk to him till you get to see your therapist. He’s willing to listen but maybe he feels bad because he just can’t help you as he wish.
do something romantic for her without any robots involved
I’d love to put a name to the nature of our relationship, but he’s made it very clear that he’s not in the right headspace for that
Well, there you go. You say this isn't the issue but it's really all that matters here.
You want to be together. He doesn't. His reasons are irrelevant. He's made it clear where he stands and he's reinforcing that with icy behavior, probably hoping you'll pull the plug because he's too scared to do it, or maybe he doesn't want to give up the sex.
Don't chase after someone who is emotionally unavailable. Cut him loose and keep it professional at work. If you're struggling to move past this, consider looking for another job and take it as a life lesson not to date coworkers. If you're worried about your mental health, reach out to a therapist.
When people hit on my husband, he would take care of it himself. “I'm happily married and I'm not interested”.
Nothing bent, just expressive language!
Okay, you have a point 🙂 egg on my face. Don't see many posts with only 1 reply.
Looks like both posts say the same thing. Not sure why this has more responses but, sorry 🙂 I didn't read the previous one other than glance at it.
My response: If he's gaming you and trying to be something he's not? Dump him as you're wasting your time with him. If you can't trust him now? you think you'll trust him when you have 3 kids? and a mortgage?
Cut your losses and simply say “this isn't working. I want what you can't provide. That's not being a gold digger. That's being a woman who wants kids and a stable environment. Not someone living above his means that I can't trust.”
Exit stage left and find someone who isn't a tool.
Oh hey. I'm considered fully disabled because of OCD, so yeah, wow, OCD sucks. I “just” have compulsions and basically no intrusive thoughts, though, so I guess I can't really relate too much.
But honestly? Aging will, one day, very likely make you end not having sex anymore. There just comes a day when the body doesn't want to do it anymore. Be it the bones, lack of energy, some other physical issue happening with age or simply no more libido. But honestly, from what I have seen in my social circle and in the generation of my parents, it's usually the woman who loses interest first.
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Your “fiancée “ has not issue with someone cheating and is actively stopping you from helping the other party dead ass leave tbh is relationship bro
there was never any physical or emotional abuse. I believe that couples can work through a lot with proper communication, and to the part of growing up for a man that just isn't the case. he may be older than me but he had just as much growing as I had to do. I've made mistakes towards him as well and we worked through it. me being with him wasn't the topic of this discussion
land of the free home of the brave unfortunately
Did he write this on DMT or something ?
No, that tit for tat hill is not something to die on. In my half a century life time, never seen those childish antics work and benefit any relationship; almost always fully destroying even the ones that could have been repaired if only the couple actually did some adulting instead.
Nope. It’s still his responsibility to say something if he’s uncomfortable.
You’ve already left. Watch your Dad and arrange for your Mum to pick up your possessions. See an attorney tomorrow.
I am not following at all. It sounds like you believe he cheated but you haven’t necessarily found him cheating just lying, correct? I would confront him and ask him directly. Considering you are abroad, is he with you and do you feel comfortable enough to do it with him there? Your safety is priority.
you can like personality traits that maybe you think stem from trauma, but liking traumatized individuals themselves is weird, creepy, and predatory. so you like men that are resilient- some men who haven’t been through trauma are resilient, some men who have been through trauma are very fragile. you can’t generalize trauma responses.
I definitely feel like I’m being ghosted but I’m just confused on why. I just feel weird about the whole situation.
I did check with alt account and her profile is gone so I don’t think she blocked me.
It just sucks to potentially loose a friend when I don’t think I did anything wrong.
OK, so he checked that she hadn't already bought the movie tickets before he went ahead and bought them. Am I missing something horribly offensive about that?
Well, we're in agreement. I hope she breaks up with him.
Before he moved in with her, she was able to pay her own bills and takes care of herself despite her disability.
Him moving in is EXTRA work and EXTRA bill for her, now she's PAYING for 2 people instead of 1 (herself).
I guess, he does provide companionship and perhaps sex too. The companionship part can be replaced with a cat while sex, she can always turn to B.O.B
What the fraudsters we’re trying to get was information like credit card or debit card information from you. What I do when I get such messages in look closely at the address for the site they are asking that I get on to, it may look like a company that you do business with, with either a domain that is different or part of a name that is different, if I go and do what the scammer is asking, I would likely get routed to a site that is made to look like the valid company’s site, but isn’t.
Dude, it’s the girl who told OP after saying nothing happened that OP’s best friend did, in fact, go down on her.
So, do you now think OP should tell her to fuck off or what?
“How dare people not revolve their relationships around mine!”
No, she won't be a SAHM. When she goes back to work she will still work her time shift, I will still be working mine. Both of us have full time jobs.
Great environment to bring a child into. Well done.
Seems to me he’s just busy. Do you have any friends or hobbies to occupy your time?
Why did you get back together?
Why did you propose knowing this instability?
Of course she should feel hurt to fucking read that. He just told some random from work that he had to convince himself not to break up with his fiancé because she’s not attractive enough for him. Get out of here with that “violation of trust” BS! I can’t imagine a bigger violation of trust than a partner speaking by so disrespectful it about their fiancé behind their back.
I’ve been in your shoes and I empathize with your feelings. He said he doesn’t want a relationship, believe him. And he also doesn’t appear to want to talk everyday. I’ve met guys like that and it didn’t work out. The boyfriends I’ve had have always texted me everyday throughout the day. This is how I approached guys who don’t want a relationship and don’t want to talk everyday: I view reaching out to them as an alcoholic reaching for a drink. Try as nude as you can to be the distant one. Celebrate 24h without a “drink”. Also please understand this relationship might not work out. I wish you all the best. You deserve someone who will share their days with you. You will find him.
That’s what has had me thinking. She said it during a argument when she was pissed off. Since then she’s been consistent in telling me she wants to give us a shot by living apart and sees it working for the better for our relationship to work
This right here is the problem with dating without being exclusive. This is what happens. I’m old and I don’t understand why people do this to themselves.
Consider that your relationship has started right now. The past was just friends, only now are you dating. If you can’t let it go, end this relationship. Don’t put her through this if you can’t get past it. And the next person you meet, start off exclusive from Day One.
She did plenty wrong. She exposured you to all the germs, bacteria, and stds the other man carried.
Condoms do not protect against everything.
You’re not special. She will do the same to you when she’s bored of your relationship.
It literally gives you the option to add your phone number and says “syncing your phone number will allow your contacts to find you on the app”
Also why would he make a second account the day after blocking me
Right? Dude she was content letting you sign a lease on your own knowing you had planned to pay for it together. But also, why did you only sign it? I thought the idea was to move in together?
Most landlords require all adults living in the home be on the lease
Hi – late to this, but identical twin here.
This is NOT NORMAL. My sister and I would never, ever have done this.
While I understand the rationale for the baby making part and using his sperm for IVF, absolutely not for “natural” baby making, and the rest? That's horrifying. Absolutely horrifying.
I'm so sorry that's happened to you. Work through what's happened to you before worrying about letting exes know. A good therapist can help.
No. She talked about both.
This sounds like a very negative environment for you, I'd start working on a plan to move out. Maybe take your friend up on their offer till you find a place.
Right? Pretty much ALL started out exactly like this. This pissant OP is screwing is no special snowflake. It starts just like this with women making the exact same line of excuses. When it happens again, the woman just moves the goal post further and further, especially because the guy is always oh so sorry, woeful, heart broken at himself, love bombs galore. Nothing different at all in this case either.
Bro, red flags even more so in this comment. Wtf
You mention the US as if a massive portion of the planet isn't worse off…
Why tf did you apologize. Kick the ah to the curb and take back your apologies.
…. Why wouldn't you break up with him? It doesnt look likenhe wants to change, that's very gross. If he doesnt clean his own mouth, I dont even want to think about his privates. You can do better.
That attitude has no value to a guy. That’s correct. He feels no security from a girl going to a club to get attention from other guys.
No guy of value will accept it.
If you want to behave like you are single, stay single.
Will do, I appreciate the constructive advice.
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She sounds unhinged like the door she ripped off mate. You know what they say, dont stick your dick in crazy.
I would tell him to stop, put that boundary on your relationship and make sure he understands it will not be tolerated period. No excuse, no “oh but our daughters”. If the kids want to have a play date you can come too if not then there is no need