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iLOVE TO PLAY WITH THE COCK IN MY MOUTH! MMM mi favorite pattern 111, ❤❤ [GOAL MET]
Date: October 15, 2022
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We are still talking and trying to see if it works out. When I’m out with my friends he always is controlling and asks me where I am, where I am going, who I’m with
OH, this is so sweet! Heck, don't stop.
A lot of people have already disagreed with you. And I am familiar with it all. I’ve been through it. So to see you post about nothing triggers me because you are giving god awful advice.
Plenty of people cry when they realize they've fucked up. That's what remorse is, or regret, or even anger with oneself. Claiming that the manipulation is the only possible reason someone would cry in that situation is pretty weird, and it discourages people from expressing their emotions.
You're so young and you probably don't want to hear that, but what's the rush? If you aren't getting married, you are still in the interview stage. Therefore it's not relevant. Just have fun and worry about that when you are sure you want to marry. Then it's an issue that you'd have to settle
You need to accept that the relationship is over and make plans to move away from each others lives. It's not your fault and it's a shitty situation. Save some money, find a cheaper place to on-line or whatever it is, but there is no coming back from this situation. And it's ok to feel sad and wallow for a while (not forever though).
It's a hot thing to grasp when the person you envisioned your entire life with betrays you like this. I wish I could have noticed some sort of clues. I wish there was other times that I could uncover. I was completely blindsided by this and am still coming to terms with what occurred.
As I said I feel ashamed for even considering it. But there's just something in me that wants to see her take steps to get help and find a way back.
Please don't call sex workers hookers. It dehumanizes them and increases their fatality rate
Oops I was captivated by the title and picture. Idk probably just being playful like when I use emjois lol
She getting railed fo sho
Alright, thank you.
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It’s the quickest way to get an answer. He’s hiding something from you. It’s not his employer or him being irresponsible and not cashing them.
I am begging you remember that your experience is not universal, your family is only normal to you. Please stand up for your girl, it’s not hot, you’re a grown man.
The hot truth here is that for the duration of your incredibly short relationship (which on its own is a problem), you’ve gone out of your way to find an excuse for any and all reasons why this is an unhealthy relationship.
The reality is that her past relationships have failed because she’s incredibly difficult to deal with. I can appreciate the fact that she’s dealing with serious shit and it’s naked, and also the fact that she’s up front and honest about it. But that doesn’t change the fact that it exists and seemingly will continue to exist.
Are you just going to break up for months every year and get back together? It’s unsustainable. It’s not a solution.
The relationship doesn’t work. You’re unhappy. You’re four months in. Walk away. Good luck.
The hot truth here is that for the duration of your incredibly short relationship (which on its own is a problem), you’ve gone out of your way to find an excuse for any and all reasons why this is an unhealthy relationship.
The reality is that her past relationships have failed because she’s incredibly difficult to deal with. I can appreciate the fact that she’s dealing with serious shit and it’s naked, and also the fact that she’s up front and honest about it. But that doesn’t change the fact that it exists and seemingly will continue to exist.
Are you just going to break up for months every year and get back together? It’s unsustainable. It’s not a solution.
The relationship doesn’t work. You’re unhappy. You’re four months in. Walk away. Good luck.
The hot truth here is that for the duration of your incredibly short relationship (which on its own is a problem), you’ve gone out of your way to find an excuse for any and all reasons why this is an unhealthy relationship.
The reality is that her past relationships have failed because she’s incredibly difficult to deal with. I can appreciate the fact that she’s dealing with serious shit and it’s naked, and also the fact that she’s up front and honest about it. But that doesn’t change the fact that it exists and seemingly will continue to exist.
Are you just going to break up for months every year and get back together? It’s unsustainable. It’s not a solution.
The relationship doesn’t work. You’re unhappy. You’re four months in. Walk away. Good luck.
Thank you for your perspective. I’ll be talking to her soon to hash some things out. Last thing I want is for her to not on-line her best life
His statement about transgender is uninformed and poor. If you say you don't want to be together with a man anymore, he is a man, so end it. Keeping a lie up is not the solution.
I assume that the compromise that OP was making was moving out of the city?
It's not bait. There's a few things that make me uncomfortable, but I don't think it's that bad aside the comment she made last night. Otherwise I never would've posted here, but then again a lot of her behaviour has been concerning so idk what to think anymore.
I don't want to separate, I want us to work on this together. I made a promise to be with her for life and I take that seriously. Unless you meant physically, like giving each other space and yeah I would like that, I love her but I need some time on my own alone or with friends.
Someone else suggested marriage counselling. I will suggest that to her and hope she doesn't get too hurt by it.
Uuuuuh, dude. You are just not getting it. Once again, you're clueless
Maybe you shouldn’t be here gifting us your opinions.
Maybe you shouldn’t be here gifting us your opinions.
Yeah she finishes just about every-time and pushes me off when she does orgasm…
I find it hot to believe that this is the first time that you are seeing a jealous streak from your wife.
Someone who will go to this extreme and length to try and ruin someone's ability to work, over their own perceived jealousy, this doesn't sound like their first rodeo.
Has she always been this jealous and insecure? Is there a reason on your past relationship with your wife that she feels insecure?
I'm sorry for you both, but you can't trust him. Never let him into your place again, never be alone with him again. He needs years of therapy before he can try having a gf or bf again.
You’re an asshole if you got a dog and then decided you don’t like dogs
He may be actually worried he’ll break your gift because he broke the last one. He sounds sincere to me, so let him be.
Yeah, this is all weird as fuck. Bail girl. Separate your money, find a room to rent.
You talk about how when things go bad, you crawl up on a ball and don't know what to do. Then you talk about how all you do is cuddle him he's your everything and you love him. That's all your bringing to the table? Cuddles and love? Yea your right on, it's easy to go after people with trauma when you don't have a lot to offer. People with trauma usually have self confidence issues and take whatever they get.
It's a defense reaction, because it's literally addictive. Smokers and drinkers do the exact same thing. Justify, defend, get angry, call everyone else the problem.
While you were driving?
That's a safety issue. I would make him sit in the back passenger seat with his seat belt on.
You surely inform the wife. I don't care if it was a one time thing. She needs to know!!! And then she can choose what she wants to do!!! You shouldn't feel guilty about it for one bit. Don't feel bad!!! But please if you are on tinder you should know that the majority of men there are already married that are looking to cheat!!!! Be careful!!!
Well, you are almost 30, you don't need to talk to your parents every single day! I'd do a couple of things:
Cut back on the phone calls. Only once or twice a week, and make it the new normal. They don't need to talk to you every single day; you have nothing to report; you are incredibly busy; etc. A ringing phone is an invitation, not a subpoena. Tell them (don't ask, TELL) a new phone schedule. Put them on an information diet. Just don't talk to them about subjects you don't want to talk about. If they keep asking you about work, say “Nothing to tell! Just super busy.” “No, no issues. Just the same old thing.” Stop giving them ammunition. Say out loud, and directly, “Oh I don't need any advice. It's fine.” “I'll ask if I want advice – I'd actually rather talk about [SUBJECT CHANGE].” If they persist, end the conversation. “Okay well I'm not up for any advice, so I'm going to say good bye. I'll talk to you on [next phone date].”
Boundaries are your Friends!
Well my partner is aware and they have spoken to their ex the whole time we've been together its healthy to talk to people
he's saying i hang out with the wrong ppl, and my commitment doesn't look strong.
he fucked two women.
you leave him. seriously. you block him on everything and understand that he is not right in the head and the longer you stay with him the more bad things he'll do to you and tell you it was your fault.
you get out now.
Updateme!
I'm open to either. But I haven't consented to the latter, and I don't feel comfortable being pushed into that kind of situation (or anything similar to it).
I don't think it's an issue for normal women though. Personally for me it's a plus and my current partner is a good size. But it's not something I'd end things over….although to be real with you you can avoid all this by getting a dick pic in advance so I've never had to really deal with that issue
So much drama and self-importance and selfishness in this story. Your GF behaves like a child. International Woman's Day isn't a holiday that people expect huge gifts for. It's 1. relatively new, and 2. chiefly a social media/marketing push drummed up by some asshole like me (a marketing exec). But I don't know what you expect dating someone at a different life stage than you. My advice, get a GF your own age that doesn't act like a drama queen over nothing.
He defineteltly did cocaine.
Ew, that's a long time between cleans, please avoid getting an infection.
You. Don’t
Okay I think I'll text him, hopefully he wants to hang out again, but if he doesn't then I'll at least know and I can move on. Thank you so much! Your advice gave me much confidence!
While I don't necessarily agree with the last paragraph, I do agree with the rest.
Non-monogamous relationships are only successful if the original relationship is strong and healthy. It won't salvage a struggling relationship, and it won't work if both primaries aren't 100% in agreement.
It's understandable why your girlfriend wants to explore if you are her first experience. It's not a failing on your part or on hers. This is not something I usually endorse, unless abuse is involved, but it would be best to break up. You both can explore your options. Maybe someday you'll realize you are meant for each other, or perhaps you'll both find people who more closely align with your individual values.
My biggest worry is that they'll move in and never leave. But if the really, definitely, have tickets on an airplane leaving the next day, then it's probably ok.
As long as your parents are ok with it; I'm guessing it's their house.
My husband was terrible at picking gifts so I gave him a very specific list. But it sounds like this is a follow through problem. Or giving and receiving gifts is your love language, not his. I suggest Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages.
You are using her….is that fair to her? You should want to be with her because there is something real between. It sounds like convienence on your part… Once she is no longer useful, you will be done with her.
For gods sake, work your shit out together.
Ozempic has been in the news a bunch lately for celebrity weight loss but it’s actually for people like your wife. It’s not a permanent, long term solution but it could kick start a healthier lifestyle and help her out of the rut she’s in.
Your family made him uncomfortable and it sounds like you didn’t step in to improve the situation at all. Hate to say it but you just need to let him go
Yes, because different people have different boundaries. As I said before, my partner and I enjoy and dislike different things.
Sex is about mutual pleasure, not tit for tat, keeping score for every single encounter. She admits that he does other things to give her pleasure. If she really needs oral, she needs to find a different partner.
Ok. Nerd
Are you a mind reader?!
Either there’s more to this or your boyfriend needs psychological help. I’m inclined to believe the former.
You can dump him.
You told him twice already your not ok with it and he lied both time.
Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice…
End the relationship he flat out disrespecting you..
Say
' you lied to me again.. I saw you still have her picture and you looked at them April 3rd.. I am done, you clearly done respect me or this relationship so I'm done.. I gave you to opportunities after finding them and yet here they are and here you are still looming at them, I honestly don't care what your excuses are I'm tired of asking my boyfriend for the bare fu#king minimum'
End it and find better.