You have the mentality of a child. Don’t marry this man for a variety of reasons. He’ll never stop holding this over you which will make life awful, and you seem like you’ll create a million more situations that he can hold over you because you aren’t loyal. Set him free and grow up.
You asked for advice, and I gave you the most obvious advice. If you only want people to tell you what you want to hear, you shouldn't be posting asking for advice.
You have the mentality of a child. Don’t marry this man for a variety of reasons. He’ll never stop holding this over you which will make life awful, and you seem like you’ll create a million more situations that he can hold over you because you aren’t loyal. Set him free and grow up.
Unfortunately, given your post I would have to advise you stay away from
University and College towns. These sorts of games are rather common
among students seeking to on-line off campus and with a particularly
self-centered outlook on life. Lucky for you no money was involved as
that certainly ups the stakes of game.
I have a particular sore spot for people who are objectified so you have
my deepest sympathies. Fact is that bad things happen to Good people,
and nobody really knows how or why. Moving forward, I'm guessing this
experience will up your compassion for unfortunates, as were you,
and inform you on what…and what not…to do. FWIW.
both of us have kept people in there with us for an extra drink before and that.
that's so important! and im sure he appreciates you being involved as well
maybe eventually he'll find someone to fulfill that role, hopefully the bars do well enough to cover the extra paycheck 😉
If you're not totally full of shit, then this is your fault. Stop giving her money, dumbass.
You asked for advice, and I gave you the most obvious advice. If you only want people to tell you what you want to hear, you shouldn't be posting asking for advice.