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Umm, there’s a difference between “fantasies” and fantasies about a mutual.
Tell him… and I doubt his reaction will be the same.. but I’m not him… so who knows.. but let’s be real…
If you want to mess up your own life by getting married, then go ahead and do so, but please take all precautions to not bring any children into this mix.
If you want to keep your house as your house and not yours and hers, maybe you should reconsider letting her move in.
He did apologise for taking my phone like that. I should have added that. I personally think that it's ok for him to question/ want to know what is going on when I talk with my ex, so that trust issues do not develop in the relationship. He is not controlling, he got mad I didn't do as I said I would. Though I don't agree with how he went about the whole matter. From not wanting to communicate to getting into my phone like that. But I suppose our emotions get the best of us from time to time. He apologised for this too.
For the part where I'm not a mind reader, I told him that. I also told him that if he wanted further explanation he should have just asked. His response was that it's sth I'd said by myself I would be doing and since I forgot about it it clearly shows how I disregarded his issue and paid little to no mind to it. I told him it was genuine forgetting which was in no way malicious to which he said he is tired of hearing me apologise and just giving him words. I honestly feel so bad. About me not seeing this so that i could avoid it and about him not understanding
But now I remain with ammendments to make. How do I proceed
I feel like I smoke a lot of weed but that seems like way too much. If he’s winding down and smoking at night that seems reasonable but holding down a job and taking care of a kid blazed all day usually doesn’t work.
As someone who gets repeatedly and aggressively sucked in to rinse lather a repeat situations, as it sounds like you’re going to do as you’re overthinking this way too much. I advise an ignore and block. If you say thank you, then a conversation can continue. Just ignore it, focus on the hubby and new life and move on. If you had to think any longer than, “thanks!” Then just keep the door closed.
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Thank you for your input. You are probably right.
You are right again. I don’t think I ever want to be in a relationship with him romantically. I don’t care as much what he did because i’m over it, it doesn’t hurt anymore. I think I just want to be his friend mostly because our friendship is good, but i don’t even think that’s a good idea.
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You really must try to listen to the women in these comments. Saying “no” outright is at best, meaningless to many men (not just pick up artists lol) and dangerous at worst. Having lived in major cities most of my life, at 33 I have been hit on by strangers hundreds if not thousands of times. I have NEVER had a man graciously leave me alone when I’ve said no. Most- not some, MOST- get aggressive and frightening when you say no. Even in public spaces where I did feel generally safe. I’m queer and have had men plead, beg, harass and follow me while I am literally hand in hand with another woman, more times than I can count. This isn’t some kind of weird anomaly, this is completely normal to the majority of us.
You really must try to listen to the women in these comments. Saying “no” outright is at best, meaningless to many men (not just pick up artists lol) and dangerous at worst. Having lived in major cities most of my life, at 33 I have been hit on by strangers hundreds if not thousands of times. I have NEVER had a man graciously leave me alone when I’ve said no. Most- not some, MOST- get aggressive and frightening when you say no. Even in public spaces where I did feel generally safe. I’m queer and have had men plead, beg, harass and follow me while I am literally hand in hand with another woman, more times than I can count. This isn’t some kind of weird anomaly, this is completely normal to the majority of us.
I think you're playing a dangerous game. You believe your husband is ok with your male bestie. I suggest you don't make too many assumptions about that. I suspect your husband would be very watchful of your ongoing friendship with this man. Personally, I don't trust plutonic male female friendships if one of the two is in a committed relationship. Yes its possible to work but its dangerous. Please recognize that.
Congrats for being open and willing to make sacrifices! I’d give it two months and see how things change.
Please consider talking this thru with a therapist. It can be hard to reconcile that someone we love is in fact abusive, I've been there. It took me years from my first realization to fully accepting the reality and therapy was key in making that change. She never pressured me to do anything, just helped me process my feelings, find my own truth then figure out what I wanted to do and come up with a plan. Having a supportive person in my life who I could be open with was truly lifechanging. I wish you all the best.
Shouldn’t be talking to an ex that “flirts with him” at all. He obviously shouldn’t be in a relationship and you shouldn’t trust him. Hes going to keep crossing lines with this relationship and he’ll always have an excuse. Going through your partners phone isn’t normal.
I think I would tell boyfriend that your family tradition is only family at these small birthday dinners. You'll enjoy the time with your family more.
I'll never forget being mortified when a boyfriend told me he didn't like eating with my family because portions were so small and he always felt like there wasn't enough to go around.
You have a great attitude about the hand we're dealt that will serve you well.
If you were in her position, would you want to know?
Genitalia is not the only way to be intimate. Take him to a specialty store and choose some toys together. Maybe a different pace or change in the bedroom will spice things up. Although you two are young, you have already been together for 9 years. Since he was also on medication, not sure for how long? He may be having residual side effects from it still or he may just be in his head thinking he cannot please you anymore. It may possibly be all mental, so spice stuff up sister! And if that doesn’t work, it may be time he talks to a professional to get to the root of what is causing his slump-if there is one or it may be that just is who he is.
Is your friend a dog nutter? Far too many people think bad behavior from dogs is funny. And many hate cats. Either way, the video sounds sick. You behaved fine, your friend has issues.
Also, details on what? How exactly does knowing the nature of how my mom mentally gutted me helpful to deal with potential fallout?
She was so uncomfortable she slept in the same bed with him.
Uh, if you’re 30 that means your mum and dad were 40/45 when you were born.
40/45 is different than 55. Having a 30 y/o child in your 70s is different than having a 15 y/o child in your 70s.
Then work on the other things I said. You’re important and you need to take care of yourself.
You only know by taking the chance and being mindful of words and actions aligning consistently, and with time, you'll find trust again. It's an effort in both parts because he's gotta be sure he's being genuine, and you gotta be sure you aren't living in the past resentments. It's like starting fresh in a sense, going back to getting each other out again but with more communication and applying what y'all learned from before. Good luck to y'all. Relationships are hard.
Do you want to online with him? Have you talked about it? Could you propose that since he wants help paying mortgage, you would be willing to rent from him instead?