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That's inappropriate and the fact your husband acted that way is ridiculous. The comment of an indirect kiss says it all. Drunk or not, it was flirting.
Very sad for you both. Just want to add hiking outdoor help me a lot with grieving. I would get to the top of the hill, all sweaty and out of breath, tears rolling down my face, and felt a bit of relief. Over time I learn to manage the grief a bit better, I put it in a mental box and just take a peak every now and then. If it gets too much, I shut the lid. It's probably not a healthy way of dealing, but I get by. I also find practicing the Wim Hof breathing method calm me down when the emotion gets too much.
Thinking of you both.
This is difficult for you . There are no naked and fast rules here but I tend to agree with you that watching porn on his own while you are in the house is not great . It sends a number of messages that are not about intimacy and respect . If you were exploring together whether it be porn or anything else that would be different . There is also evidence that repeated and addictive use of porn is desensitising. Talk about it and see if you can reach a compromise that works for you both . If he won’t change then you have decisions to make.
I’d go further than that and have left when he asked for head.
Who asks for head as their first sexual act? If you can’t even try to please and impress a girl during your very first encounter, wtf does that say about you?
I’ve literally had numerous fuck buddies in the past months, with very clear communication that we are in it only for carnal pleasure, and asking for head was never once on the menu. I mean, it happens as foreplay regularly, but that’s a different story.
How tone deaf do you have to be to tell a girl you want an actual relationship, clearly see she’s not getting sexual tonight, and then be like, just put it in your mouth though?? I’m not even confused about this on a moral level. I understand people are fucking bad. I’m just curious on an intellectual level how you can’t hide your red flags at all. lol
I'm so confused as to why your dad weighed in at all. Did the BF go to him? Your dad is a huge jerk, I would put him on an information diet and have low contact with him. If your BF can't understand why you ask him what time he will be back when using YOUR property, then he needs to go too.
numbers difficult for you sweetie? got it. enjoy the rest of your evening.
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I totally understand why you laughed. I would have too. That being said, we don’t get to control how sensitive people are about their insecurities. Fact of the matter is he thought there was a safe space with you and it ended up very badly. I’d let him calm down and talk with him so he understands. But I’d avoid comparing being gay to being a furry. I personally think it’s not comparable but if he does then it’s all that matters to him. As his friend you either work with that or don’t be friends anymore.
In therapy. Self esteem is fine. It's Body Dysphoria, But thank you web MD
I think maybe you misinterpreted this. Your husband didn't day you aren't smart, he said you aren't street-smart. These are very different things and I'd encourage you to look up the terms. I would say many highly intelligent people are not street-smart also. It might be he's intimidated by your intelligence and he views this as an area he can come out ahead.
In any case, if he honestly wasn't trying to hurt you, and “just talking” – I'd just let this go and move on with your lives.
That’s a good point.
I’m going to steal your words “it makes me uncomfortable that your ex is giving you big gifts and that your talking to him on a regular basis on an app that deletes the texts”.
Same I don’t keep in contact with any of mine even though it’s only one. Do you think that she would give me an honest answer if I just outright asked why he was back in her life?
I know that your right but I don’t have actual boundaries set up cus I just don’t think of things like this. I wouldn’t imagine an old partner coming back onto the scene.
It’s not worth getting killed to “fix” someone.
He respected himself by leaving you. I understand you regret your decision but it is your fault. You cant just talk about how you have bad mental health or trauma and that you don’t know how you had sex with someone else.
If you truly loved him you’d never do that. Learn from your mistakes. If you truly love him you’ll let him go because guess what I don’t think a guy will ever be able to get over what you did.
It’s not the end of the world for you both. Just learn from the experience you had with him. It’s gonna be painful and sure you’re gonna feel regret but it’ll be so naked for him to forgive you it’s not worth it unless you both really talk about it.
Idk how you cheat and can’t take full accountability for it and say you don’t know how it happened. One thing doesn’t just lead to another.
I get you’re upset about it but if you really want it to work you have to speak to him about it a lot so he forgives you because honestly I know id never forgive a cheater because I have respect for myself.
You poofs really think plain old interaction is harassment. Silly
As I see it you have two options, both revolving around marriage.
You marry her and take her name as yours. You marry her and adopt her child, you all take your name.
Those are the options you ave when you want to stay with her. Or you leave her but no legal advice will help you in having her give the two kids your surname. You will even have less standing in the whole naming process.
The only person who can fix it is him. You can support and encourage, but that's about it.
I'm not trying to push the idea of being open onto him at all, as soon as he expressed a non interest in that at the start of the relationship I have not brought it up since. it's not a need for me like I said I am happy with it just being us.
See you were open to conversation and possible allowing experimentation and he decided to skip that and go straight to cheating.
He knew you were you young! Like young-young. You were his mark. He viewed you as someone easy to manipulate. To do what he wanted, where and how he wanted. Younger women tend to not know how to react to these types of advances (not a dig at you younger ladies) most younger women are open to more…. Public stuff than women his own age. He tried to manipulate that too.
First, he sounds like he doesn’t understand boundaries (like some younger women ignore) public sex. Secondly he had no boundaries for safe sex (could be a breeding fetish-could just be plain selfishness-or stupidity. Thirdly, he’s thinking you’re thinking he’s got his life together-when clearly he does not-hence his lack of respect for the word no, his lack of respect to at least put on a condom-and his constant pressure of doing what he wants.
That man is a train-wreck waiting to happen. If he was TRULY interested in you, he wouldn’t be pushing so nude, otherwise. His motives are not altruistic.
Run. Don’t walk. Just because he’s older doesn’t mean he’s learned a damn thing!!! Clearly he hasn’t. He’s a walking red flag.
(Coming from a 49 year old woman) I don’t care about age gaps, but his lack of boundaries and self awareness is just out to live! out whatever fantasy he has.
I'm sorry but I'd say he had every chance to stop this with her, and he only doing to now to save face, ones you take him back he will unblock her again and carry on.
Speak to a lawyer and start divorce proceedings don't waste anymore time on him, also block his number and stop all communication until lawyer is involved.
He flew this woman into you home town to fuck her, I would even consider reconciliation.
Tell him.
I gave you one too many opportunities, you are all out of chances, I am done being disrespected, as far as I am concerned you can unblock her and carry on your affair because you will be free to do as you please soon enough.
It’s clear who the problem is, but you’re not going to like it. You!
If a stranger was doing this you’d cut them off without a second thought. Because it’s your mom, you’re giving her a free pass.
You’re giving your mom the respect of the mom you Wish you had, not who she actually is.
Treat her with the respect she’s earned. None!
Still gross.
And why is he living free in YOUR house? Other than being a free loader, what else does he bring to make your life better?
Girl. Girl. Be fucking for real. Leave. Look, leave. What if he rapes your daughter, will your bf protect her? What if he rapes you?
Get out. The sister did you a favor. She showed you the kind of family you’d be getting into. A family that protects pedophiles.
Obviously, he’s using the condoms w other people.
How many people will ask their opposite gender “friend” who happens to be a mutual friend to keep their meeting a secret and to their SO? It's not the fact she has a male friend that equates to cheating it's the actions associated with their friendship that are raising the red flag.
To me, even of they had different friend groups I would personally make sure both twins were celebrated. But have completely different friends is the only excpetions