For starters, it's not her job to sexually satisfy you. She is a partner, a companion, and a friend, not someone to get you off. Just because you do the same for her doesn't mean she has to do it for you. Second, you knew going into this marriage that she had a low sex drive. Don't hold it against her. Third, as a woman, it was exhausting to give my ex a handjob because my arm got tired.
For starters, it's not her job to sexually satisfy you. She is a partner, a companion, and a friend, not someone to get you off. Just because you do the same for her doesn't mean she has to do it for you. Second, you knew going into this marriage that she had a low sex drive. Don't hold it against her. Third, as a woman, it was exhausting to give my ex a handjob because my arm got tired.