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Date: October 20, 2022
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You aren't making the time. But it gets easier, children grow up fast.
Wow, a 15 month old and a 3 year old… come on – you are both running an exclusive restaurant for two of the fussiest and most difficult customers in the world, and they never leave.
Your work hours are of course shutting down most random activity. I can relate to that.
No details required, but when was the last time you dressed up – like the full hot-girl make up and cheeky hold-ups and push-up bra and all the things men lose their minds over?
I don't mean to be crude but men are shallow, mostly, and a surprise steak and blow-job night when you have arranged babysitting for the little ones might be a cool thing to do.
Even if it doesn't end in sex, it's a radical thing for a woman to remind their man just how awesome they are, and how your persona is not now default “mom-mode” but that you are also a wicked good lover, and you need to express your sexuality.
Intimidate him with your awesomeness and elegant ways. He might have forgotten them.
And maybe you can then arrange something regular, where you can take a break from that stressful restaurant life, and just hook up, like it's an affair. Make it fun. Get away from the home/restaurant for a bit. Go someplace where nobody knows either of you.
Make it sexy, and the rest will happen naturally.
Your comment aligns with my own thoughts.
Live! is live. It's never real life. He might be in love with an idea of me, I suppose that's possible. It could be he wrote the letter with the expectation that I'd be comfortable receiving it and would respond with romantic interest, because there's a narrative that he's developed in his head that he wants played out.
That's a good way of putting it: sympathy at a distance. Being kind but firm and doing what's best for myself, which can include cutting off contact.
Don't ever compare yourself to others. My husband has 2 days off one week and 3 days off the next week all the time, we connect on his days off and everything is great between us . If everything is wonderful in your marriage and you two are great, then nothing else matters, especially if both of you are satisfied!!
Buy him a gun and sign him up for CCW classes
I'd be direct to your bf. He is not a mind reader. Say you cannot pay this amount. Simple as that. It he's able and a gent, he'll offer to pay this amount for you.
Are you willing to contribute at all? And if so, how much would you be willing/able to spend on this? Sometimes it's the thought that counts. If you can spare $100, offer to contribute that amount but be clear you cannot do more due to your budget.
You can also choose not to go if they insist and you really can't afford it.
You say you it'll cost you 2 weeks of extra shifts. I'd be very clear to say this to your bf, since this will visualize a bit what this amount means to you. Is the trip worth 2 weeks of extra shifts? Cause you could suck it up and do it, but let him know what you're willing to do for him and his fam.
You sure you are in an exclusive relationship?
Yeah that seems rather toxic. She shouldn’t be threatened by you having a great relationship with your sister. I’m assuming she likely has a bad relationship with her family, and she’s intimidated by you having a good relationship with yours? Or is it she’s that much of the jealous type that any positive relationship with another female other than her is a threat?
Either way, not good at all.
Divorce it.
Another reason why I’m glad I don’t have kids
Valid feelings.
Now ask yourself if you are willing to not see your daughter, adopted son who will most likely be marrying your daughter, and any kids their union produces? Talk to them. Be honest but for the love of Christ please make not as long as this posting of yours. The most important thing for you to do is LISTEN. Speak less than you want and let them talk.
Be open minded. Be sure to express your hurt but don’t crucify them for it. Remember love is a treasure. Not a curse.
although shes never cheated on me and dont really think she would, the trust is just completely gone
This doesn't make much sense, but it seems you don't trust her. What makes even less sense is being with someone you don't trust.
I'm curious to know why she keeps engaging with this guy. I'm sure you're curious too. It doesn't really matter though, does it? The bottom line is that she's making you anxious, not happy.
I guess with the condoms it didn't feel so raw and intense. It felt like I could handle it more comfortably and could control how much of him went in. That's a good idea to stick to the positions you are comfortable with. You don't want to hurt yourself. I remember one time I was with a guy who was long. He was hitting it from behind and hit something and omg I felt so much pain and even had to go to hospital. Big penises are no joke lol. I'm sorry you can make love with your hubby for too long, I bet that is super frustrating! Maybe there are special types of lubes that may help with comfort.
It’s not about permission. It wasn’t an emergency when they had that talk and she said she couldn’t. Why didn’t he give her a heads up ? Communicating that is very simple. Frankly she should dump him. You can be friends with exes that is fine but why not give the heads up ? I mean if I did that to my bf when I know I could’ve just told him that’d be weird. Why wouldn’t I let him know ? I mean they were probably fucking a few months ago don’t you think its not wrong to at least message your significant other and be like hey this ex is taking care of me. The fact that he didn’t when he could’ve…. Says a lot.
I call BS on his apology. Get a better Bf – he was verbally abusive and then physically. He is a pos
Time to have a real discussion.
Constantly lying should be a deal breaker.
Comparing a woman cutting her hair to a man chopping off his dick. Hate to tell you, women don't base their attractiveness to men, solely on their dick size, but if you want to compare the two go off.
You're either dense or a troll.
You must see her point? You’ve literally met these people 3 weeks ago, that’s not enough time to form close friendships. You also said you’re close to one of her brothers but not best friends, so it’s not as if you’re going to be sitting around whilst your girl is having a great time. It’s shit behaviour changing plans a few days before, particularly for people you have known for 3 weeks, or is there an ulterior motive. Is females that you work with going to this NYE bash? Just wondering.
Divorce.
Your wife no longer wants to share your affection, money, and time with your daughter. She is interfering in your parental relationship and responsibilities.
Your daughter has already noticed, I promise you. She (daughter) hasn’t gotten a gift from you in two years. This is a horrible situation and you need to put your child first.
Don’t make another kid with this selfish woman.
Gross
Your not too worried. It’s a big deal. Is she originally from Spain or currently on a mission?
Idk how faithful she is to the religion but it can be cult-ish. Strict gender-roles, daily church, no caffeine, no alcohol, and paying the church a percentage of every paycheck.
I thought sharing kinks that include other people who dont consent is frowned upon though? Sounds to me like shes into public stuff.
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His mere existence on her snapchat makes you jump straight to her cheating?
Brilliant analogy aside.
Do people actually do this with buildings?
yeah I'm going with their phones are synced. that's gotta be it!
So…you wanted her to be sexless all of this time? Years?
You forgive them for your own sanity. But you don't forget. Trying to accept it will feel noble for a while but it will be a poison for you in the long run.
You understand everything you need to understand. People feel what they feel. But there's a betrayal there too…you leave them to be humans…that happens. But there's no need to be involved with either of them anymore.
It's not a child yet.
Sure that sounds like a plan. But also is she really an overthinker or does your suspicious behavior warrant suspicion?
OK, this calls for my favorite advice on communication:
Do not take a lack of communication as communication.
Maybe he fell asleep. Maybe he was in a car crash. Maybe he was kidnapped by his best friends on a spontaneous Vegas trip. Maybe he is drunk. Maybe that take-out was bad and he's hugging the toilet. Maybe he took a second job to afford a diamond solitaire.
Until you talk to him, we can only guess. If he did fall asleep, ask him about it. Is he having sleeping issues and hasn't told you? Is he up late at night playing video games?
Even better, look at it as a opportunity, your starting at zero with nothin to lose, so when you come up and get yourself in order it will be something to be proud of.No one should be your happiness except yourself, Trust I been there except I slept outside a basement doorway outside church steps in the middle of winter. This is a wakeup call for you to change your life. Don't waste anymore mental energy on her use it to figure a way out your situation plus she knows your homeless and still does this to you forget her. There's always people who are willing to help try homeless shelter even tho they suck but it's winter.if you walk into any restaurant and ask a manager or other people if you can get some food majority will buy or give you food, there are panhandlers that make crazy money just by asking.This is your opportunity to make a complete new life for yourself take control of your life so no one can do this to you again.. Sac up my man, I know it's nude but you can do it, I believe in you and others here too.your life isn't over, It just got interesting.
Not an in passing compliment. A continual flirtatious series of compliments.
As in “who's that guy paying way too much attention to your wife? Is she smiling and laughing with him?”
As in situations like these that develop over time.
Really you people need to read “NOT 'just friends' ” by Shirley Glass.
I'm trying and obviously failing to describe how situations like these lead to problems.
I'd be more scared of a cop too. If a criminal has something against you, you'd have the cops to help you. But who will help you when the cops are against you?
I'd tell only if I know for 100% certain it wouldn't land me in trouble, otherwise I would not risk my own peace and quiet (and potentially more) for that of someone else. Fuck that guy yes, but not at all costs.
It was never an open relationship, so yes we were exclusive once we started dating. I didn't care what she did before that, as the talking stage is free game imo.
Unfortunately, your coming at the wrong angle. She wanted the threesome, and she only wanted it with other women.
Block her and move on!! No need to get back with toxic people!
That’s called gaslighting.
He must have a side chick or you’re the side chick
Straight up tell him.
Get a water bottle and squirt his nose when he does it. If he won't learn from verbal communication, then train him like he's a cat.
Just kidding, unless you try it and it works.
Tell her you’ll get it somewhere else if she can’t take care of you.
Just to know: How many know a female that hasn’t disclose this to her partner? Is this Normal?
Sounds like sex isn’t important to him full stop. He may have a low libido, in which case he’s not going to be jumping you 24/7 when your married either.
Women associate sex with emotional intimacy much more than men do. To him it’s probably just a case of substituting your vagina for his hand when you’re married so it doesn’t mean that much to him.
I’d be wary about wasting years with him in the hope that the sex life is going to be mind blowing as soon as you’ve got that ring on your finger.
I bet you’ll be back on here after you’re married frustrated about the fact that he lied to you about saving himself for marriage when you’re still not getting anything.
It’s completely inappropriate, and if there’s no issue then he should gladly take you along with him. But the trips need to stop entirely— and any further contact.
You understand what I meant. I thought you were arguing with me. I guess I made you mad ?
Have you considered keeping silent
Hahahaha
Just going on multiple dates with that other guy was pretty disrespectful to begin with
“Don’t comment on my girlfriend’s body, or anyone’s for that matter”
Ask him – but for real I could have dating apps downloaded years into a relationship simply because I forgot about them. So just ask the guy about it.
Regardless of what to label this. Your wife is emotionally abusing you. And I don’t agree with the comments saying it’s just anxiety. I think that’s people down playing it because ya’ll are women. Which is incredibly common in queer relationships. If this was a man doing this to you, people wouldn’t be excusing it.
Tell him you are glad he changed, and you hope he treats his next girlfriend with love and care. But you are allergic to him. That he has poisoned your feelings towards him. Tell him to please leave you alone, and wish him the best. Then block him.
Just wanted to say that I love him that same.. I just want some clarification.
I need to be more respectful, affectionate and attentive to his needs. I agree with all of that and I am willing. But convincing him that is the problem because the incidents happened so close together.
Definition of a dream killer. Find a nice girlfriend.
I get frustrated because then things won't get done… we need to eat and we need to do laundry… he acknowledges things in the moment or after he has had time to think. But things ultimately end up going back to the way that they were. (*or he brushes off discussions for a 'later date' that conveniently never comes.)
Lawyer, divorce. Co-parenting. Good luck.
Read Codependent No More by Melody Beattie
If it doesn’t benefit him….so just spending time with long term girlfriend isn’t enough. She (you) has to be master of entertaining too?
It's not romantic if you don't like them sexually… It's just called platonic friendship at that point
-Sell the house, take your 50% equity
-Buy another house
-Seek majority custody of your child
-Seek alimony to balance the additional childcare demands
-Let the courts decide what is fair
That's how 95% of divorces go, what about that do you feel isn't fair?
Turnabout is always fair play. Especially when the one flipping their shit and trying to go nuclear is the one that originally fucked up.
Oh, my bad, resident pedant.
I’m bisexual and have asked for permission to cheat on my partner exactly zero times.
I have severe trauma, I have been in therapy but never for an extended period of time. Finding therapists in my tiny town is difficult. I've acknowledged how my trauma effects my present relationships now and can see the red flags instead of chasing them. Gaslighting myself is an issue.
If the way you’re responding to these comments is at all similar to how you talk to your wife, then that’s a big part of your problem. Time for some heavy self-reflection about your communication style, which from what you’ve demonstrated here, is heavily dismissive, passive aggressive, and outright aggressive at times.
Your wife is not obligated to give you oral sex or any other sex act. You’ve asked. If she were into it, she’d do it. You can continue to do things that she says could help her be more into it, but you can’t treat it as a “I did the things, now you owe me” type of situation.
Correction: Boyfriend (25M)*
Pray… stop responding in threads about abuse.
You obviously have not one single clue.
I have noticed that children who get angry over their parent's behaviour often demonstrate the same fault.
We have a friend whose eldest son is very critical of him in general. The younger son is much more tolerant. It's the eldest son whose behaviour most closely resembles the father's. This got me thinking. I realised that the younger son is much more like their mother. And the younger son is far more critical of the mother he resembles. Then I started thinking of other families we know and the same dynamic seems to apply everywhere.
Or Chat GPT