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While I know I go against the norm, in this case you have to essentially break her. What I mean is, you need to take the stern stance when she tries to put the guard up by saying, “you're making me feel bad.”
She can't tell you not to talk about your weight loss nor get into an argument when you are trying to help her. Her insecurities have her not liking her body but yet she is not doing anything about it. At some point, the soft and delicate approach fails and then comes in the, “either do something about it or stop” method. As I said, I already know the ones that are going to say I must be a joy to date, but I do admit I don't sugar coat or kiss anyone's ass when it comes to pity. As adults, if we have a problem we fix it. If she wants to indulge without any exercise or follow even a moderate diet but complain and whine she is overweight then maybe she does need it put on the spot so she understands she needs to do something about it.
Was this a case of overshoot or just bad aim? Asking for a friend.
Nothing happened that could cause this. In the first year of relationship, and all my life before, i have had veryyy high sex drive. I don't think i became asexual
I know theres nothing wrong with not wanting it, but i really miss the way it felt.
So many wrong things in this post. I am so sorry, you probably won’t understand this now and think people here on reddit don’t know what we’re talking about because he is so good and nice to you, compliments you blabla..
sexual coercion and grooming are what is happening here. Don’t you think he planned to just “stuck it in” and tell you how you’ll like it. This was ONE boundary you had and he broke it in a matter of second, and made you believe that that’s okay and that you want it too. One day you’ll realize you didn’t want a 41 old guy to just stick it in on your first time.
poor girl clicked the wrong contact, probably freaked the fuck out and hung up & now shes dodging a bullet bc her awful new bf pored over her phone records and saw a 3 second call a whole year ago. get real
Tbh he sounds like an asshole you’re better off without, he put so much stress on you with no signs of willing to change and now he’s wanting to be casual, you being SA’d was not your fault either and the fact his actions made you feel like it was is just shitty and I feel like maybe it’s time to move on. I know it’s hot and not the best outcome but you will feel so much better! You shouldn’t have to deal with an emotionally negligent boyfriend that has obviously no respect for you and your feelings, try and work on yourself mentally and take time to yourself, it’ll be ok!
Yeah people need to wait a little longer before making this crap up
Good. You and Jake both sound whiny, gossipy, and pathetic. You deserve each other, and your gf deserves better than both of you.
A perplexing situation happens when a wife is confessing adultery to her very angry husband, and he gets a raging erection. (It’s not just any woman he hearing about, it’s his wife, who is always very exciting to him, even when somebody else has turned her on.). I’ve heard about the parallel situation happening with women, but much less frequently.
Wait you have told her how it makes you feel and she hasn't canceled making her tatto earlier? You can't control her, but neither do you have to be with her. It seems she doesn't care about your feelings, doesn't even take them into consideration.
I could be wrong but I believe he meant health wise
Well, the worst part is that he broke your trust because he felt insecure about you watching porn. It is just so shockingly manipulative that I wouldn't know what to say. This is very concerning, and I will have a very very serious conversation about this (an ultimatum conversation).
The not so bad part is that the issue is not very big. I really think you should have another discussion, in why nobody should mess with the masturbation habits of a person because it is really not their business (unless there is emotional cheating of course).
I love how you are getting downvoted for actually having done what people are accusing you of not doing. “It’s not easy! Try it!” “Yeah… I did and I love it!” How dare you go against what most people say. Downvotes for you!
Exactly what I was thinking, but all the top comments completely ignored those parts of the post. I’ve been with some one who was overbearing in this exact way and would interrogate me over tiny things in public when she didn’t like the answer I gave her, which would lead to her essentially throwing a small (but noticeable) fit in front of everyone. My first instinct was to get out of the public setting and let her throw a fit on the ride home. Nothing I said ever made a difference.
I suggest he might want to try an electric toothbrush. Even a few times a week. I interchangeably use an oral B manual and electric toothbrush. The one I have will also shake if you are brushing too hot. His teeth will feel a lot smoother and clean and also helps with plaque buildup.
You can be the person you want to be with deliberate actions. Don’t let people or relationships hold you back.
It won’t happen overnight. You will experience growing pains and heartbreak.
But you’ll be happier and online a more authentic life as a result.
One big thing you need to do is realize it’s not your fault. Stop blaming yourself for things that occurred outside of your control.
It really fucking sucks but that makes him a terrible person, not you.
You can be a father for your child if you want to without being in a relationship with her
Sure it's better if the two parents get along, but if you don't it won't work. Children can feel when something's wrong, and it can fuck them up badly on the long term. Don't force yourself into anything : If you want to be there for you kid, try to be. If you don't want to be with this girl, don't.
Co-parenting is a thing now : just tell her that you want to be there for the child, but that you don't think you'll be a happy couple together, simple as that.
If he keeps promising to treat you better he's admitting he's an asshole. It's a shame adulthood and (his concept of) marriage has changed him.
Tell him you are no longer accepting apologies. You're only accepting changed behavior.
The first thing he can do to change his behavior is talk to a therapist to figure out what his problem is. That can be a condition of you staying in the marriage.
If he doesn't make a marked improvement within a few weeks, don't continue to stick around. You deserve better.
He’s dating you as a trophy love also google racism in India it’s bad like real bad
Your poor girlfriend. You sound just like my ex, narcissistic and controlling. You're the issue. Not her.
Run. An abusive relationship because the abuse cites religion is still an abusive relationship. The control, the isolation, the eroding of your identity… You need to get out of this before you lose more of yourself.
First line was enough. Everything else flows from there.
You really buried the lede on his psychotic controlling behavior and regressive ideations for you
Ditto. One year would have been my limit to his gaslighting.
Yes! That's why I listed the Canadian helplines. I know the National DV Hotlline is US-based, but I linked their article on reproductive coercion, not their hotline.
Op was keeping herself safe, that's not being insensitive. She absolutely did the right thing, enforcing a boundary after her consent had been violated. Whatever his deal is, it's her job to put her safety first, not to ignore her feelings to protect his.
Porn has really messed up a lot of young people.
He pissed on her FACE. I can’t imagine a more contemptuous act. Regardless of the reason, she did nothing wrong.
Your self-esteem is in the dumps because she is overly critical… But I don't think she's intentionally trying to put you down. It will take a lot of work on her part to change that part of her but the first step alone is difficult– getting her to agree that she has issues. And even with that people can't change overnight and some can't change at all.
If you ask him you will give him the ability to cover his tracks better. Maybe he’d even start hiding assets in preparation for a divorce if he knew you knew. You need to hire a PI, screenshot everything you’ve found and keep multiple copies, email them to yourself and also put them on an external hot dive or usb. Deep down you already knows he’s cheating, the proof is already there. Get evidence and lawyer up.
He's trying to isolate you, make you financially dependent on him and baby-trap you. Abusers rarely do all this at the start of a relationship because no one would put up with it and stay if they did. He has sensed you have become attached to him and are unlikely to leave. Please don't make the mistake I did and ignore what he is showing you. His mask is slipping, the person you thought his is isn't real and you need to get out of this relationship while you still can
25 yo dude living alone? You’re gonna find all sorts of stuff in the laundry. Lol.
If you had changed at all or learned a single thing you wouldn't still be with Mari, who is also trash. You deserve each other, at least. Leave your brother alone
This is definitely the right type of info. So you were a shitty partner for a long time. Narcissists don’t have the bandwidth to process the things they did wrong and feel regrets as they can only focus on how things affect them. You’re a normal person who fucked up and sometimes feels guilty for their past shitty behaviour. My advice is your just a normal human so forgive yourself. We be shitty, learn from it, try to improve and eventually get old. I think you’re fine. As for the ex, she is on her own journey. It would be great if she let it go and kept your name out of her mouth BUT at least you’ve got people in your life now who get to enjoy your improvements. She doesn’t get to decide if you’ve grown and this growth is a gift to yourself, so fuck her, respectfully!
What goes around, comes back around.
While what the husband did sucks, I think a lot of people will agree that it was far from unreasonable.
My man, he already made his point by laying the guy out. That is the prelude to the arm-breaking. Lay him out, and then explain the situation. That's still an inappropriate escalation – because when someone is a victim of abuse, adding violence to the situation can re-trigger them and make them fear you – but it's nowhere near the escalation of intentionally breaking the arm of a guy who is already on the ground.
There is no world in which that is an appropriate thing to do. Professional fighters that exhibit the discipline you are talking about, the discipline to channel emotions into actions, also understand that you don't just do this to people.
Hell of a situation . I don't think you were an escort as much as “older dude ” pimped you out . You are straight up , classic , “turned” . You were tricked and pimped out .
Hell of a situation . I don't think you were an escort as much as “older dude ” pimped you out . You are straight up , classic , “turned” . You were tricked and pimped out .
Welcome to tradition, babe. Men are traditionally assholes, that's why we got the right to work and be independent.
Hey… you are young. Think about it 10 years from now. And he still treats you this way and you spiral further into depression. You only have 1 life… I hope you find someone who will love you unconditionally.
It sounds like this relationship hasn’t been healthy for you two. I think you need to take some time dot yourself
My bad, I meant 5 months. Hes currently 20
Stop telling people that kicking her out is illegal and just get a fucking lawyer to help you legally remove her from your place.
I was kinda on the fence but that update is a giant red flag. Every month the marriage sub gets my husband is in love with my sister posts. Dump him now.
IMO, good riddance. He thinks he's still a player.
Yeah, I’ve been cheated on before, so I can’t deny that. What should I have done instead? He promised not to text her (I didn’t ask, he offered) so should I have been okay with him texting her? Genuinely asking what I should have done instead
I don’t think you are paranoid. She’s choosing to interact with someone who has declared that he likes her every day. That’s not how you act in a committed relationship. I’m assuming that you have talked about being exclusive. If so, this isn’t okay.
Hahaha, I didn’t even think about that! How can you be a responsible, safe babysitter without reliable transportation to get to/from work, take the baby to the hospital (if needed), etc. If she doesn’t have a car for other reasons, like no license or bad driving record, that’s even worse!
Now I’m wondering if she was expecting them to ask her (i.e. going to demand) to MOVE IN to be the babysitter, which would not be beyond the audacity this woman has already displayed. Ugh, glad they dodged a MIL bullet.
This is my cheapest option that’s why I’m here. I also have medical issues that have been exacerbated the last few years.
Why do you have to marry him? Why can’t you just be friends?
You’re not crying about the proposal, you’re crying because you know you shouldn’t marry this guy.
Tell her that you’re not going to give her any further advice because she doesn’t want to hear the truth, she just wants to hear she’s right. Which, she’s not.
I don’t know. I don’t think you’d be a pushover if you decided to stay in this relationship. You have a lot of time invested in it and you said the first 11 years were different from the last 3, which I assume means they were good. If he is willing to do the work to get his drug and alcohol dependence under control and agrees to get help for his depression, go ahead and support him through it. But if he won’t do the work, get out and stay out.
You’re over stressed, and really really overthinking the gift. If I sent my husband to the store without an explicit list of which products I prefer, he’d come home with a 3-in-1 shampoo conditioner and bodywash. Also how he can’t remember the difference between thyme and rosemary in the herb garden-it’s just not his forte. Kinda like I’m really bad at identifying cars unless I read the label on the back and can never remember who is on which F1 team. So he didn’t get mad at me when I used dish soap to wash his car. He knew I meant well and was trying to surprise him with a nice thing. Just like your boyfriend tried to surprise you with a self-care package.
OP is a troll and this isn't real.
Thank you so much, I really appreciate you sharing your experience and support ❤️