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Date: January 8, 2023
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He had two chances already and blew it both times. Don't make him think that he can treat you this way. You deserve better. You're not a toy. You're a woman who deserves love, affection and a happy and healthy relationship. I doubt you'd get that with him.
And what happens the next time someone asks her to cheat and is persistent enough?
Break up with her. She cheated and she doesn’t brownie points for telling you the truth. There is just so much of it these days. Or at least people are admitting it.
I find your point of view to be incredibly problematic and victim-blaming. Controlling a man’s reaction is not a woman’s responsibility. Do we do it all the time to avoid violence? Absolutely. But shifting the responsibility for men’s actions to women is very dangerous and just continues the narrative that men shouldn’t be held accountable.
Broke college students be broke yo
You've known him for a total of two years, and have been living together for six months.
Your bf doesn't have a “drinking problem,” he is a severe alcoholic who has zero desire to change. This is a hot truth, but you need to stop softening your reality by saying things like you think he has a problem or it would be okay if he just didn't drink as much.
This will sound harsh and blunt: End this relationship with a clean sharp break and do it immediately.
He is 29. This is not the drinking behavior of a teenager just starting to drink. He is a hardcore alcoholic who chooses drinking over everything else in his life, including you.
There is absolutely nothing you can do to make him stop drinking. You've tried bargaining with him to drink less, offering to help him get help, hoping your love for him can triumph over alcoholism.
You are making the sad mistake many people who love addicts make. You think your love is stronger than addiction. You are wrong.
If you stay with him, you are saying Yes to being embarrassed and endangered by him, supporting him when he gets fired for unreliability and drinking on the job, bailing him out or visiting him in jail when he gets a DUI, and being his nurse and home health aide when his alcoholism ruins his liver and his brain.
End this. If you need to give him money to afford to move back to his hometown, do it.
Disentangle yourself from him, walk away, and do not look back.
A lot of people here are suggesting that time will help, but there are wounds that may never heal despite how much you've grown since then, and telling someone you're glad their child died is likely one of those. You need to come to terms that you may never be forgiven, and that it is well within the rights of everyone involved to not do so.
Try to keep being better every day and pay it forward to others, and forgive others where you can.
Especially SIX months in! Like, I was on cloud nine, couldn’t get enough of my partner at six months!
First thing’s first – slow down and take a deep breath. Your mind is understandably going a million miles a minute, there’s no need to make a decision right this second.
After you’ve taken a bit really think about what you want from a relationship, and ask yourself if you’re happy with the one you’re currently in.
I’m guessing your gut will tell you all you need to know.
I don't like AA because it's full of predators, but the very first thing they teach you is that you have to focus on the things you can control. Meaning: not other people. OP can't fix her partner, she can only fix herself. That's why I'm saying that she is the problem here. She is choosing to stay with someone who she is now claiming has an unhealthy relationship with alcohol and is a danger to her sobriety.
I'm not ignoring OPs partner's issues. But she can't do anything about that other than leave him. If his drinking is a danger to her sobriety than she needs to make changes. Her sobriety is not his responsibility. She never mentioned her alcohol issues (or his until she could weaponize it) in her original post. Why is that? Very missing missing reasons. I feel like OP came here to demonize their grieving partner while taking zero accountability for what it must have been like having his partner be active in alcohol addiction while he was losing his mother. His drinking impacts her, but her drinking doesn't impact him?
This seems accurate. While OP has visions of “justice being served,” OPs Gf doesn't really have any proof that anything happened, so it will be a “he-said, she said” situation. If FGF experienced SA in her past, she is more familiar with the legal process and maybe is reluctant to put herself in that situation.
I recommend moving out ASAP and cutting all contact. But OPs GF has the right to either pursue legal justice or not. It is her choice, not OPs to make. I would also try to convince her to get therapy/counseling. Be there as an empathetic listener and let her know you will support her in whatwer way she needs.
OP, as for your feelings, please keep in mind that this is not about you right now. If you have strong feelings because she didn't come to you first or she isn't moving forward with prosecution, dont burden her with your feelings on top of what she's already going through. Talk with another trusted friend or therapist if you need to process your emotions right now.
He says that what does an apology matter if it just keeps happening. I guess I was right on him being vengeful
*sigh of defeat*
Clearly everything he has been telling you and showing you goes right over your head. I feel horrible for him, I truly do. This is 1000% about your neuroses, not whether he can get over these instances. By the sounds of it no, he wont get over it because before he can the chance you do something similar that brings him back to square one…. AGAIN.
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You said you saw he read it so how would you not see the reply ?
As far as I’m aware though, apple messages don’t show up on phone bills