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Birth Date: 1984-04-04
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Date: February 23, 2023
I wonder if your mother has something to do with how they treat you, or at least knows exactly why. It just sounds to me like something/things went down when you were too young to know what was going on. Your sister saying “we hate him” etc, there's more to this than what you know. I predict that if you stand firm about cutting them out of your life your mum will tell you.
Even if this isn't the case, just let them go. Your mother too, I can't believe her concern amid all this was for holiday logistics. Very strange scenario. Maybe you should think harder on your childhood and visit r/raisedbynarcissists and see if anything resonates with you.
I should add this. Prior to the appointment described above with the mortgage broker, she said that if we were planning to get married in 2024, we didn't need to worry about a contract and everything would be fine.
In the second conversation, as described above, she said the opposite and that we had to do it. Hence the frustration that we suddenly had to do it while she told us at first we didn't have to worry about it.
One alternative is getting legally married, not holding a ceremony of any kind, and then doing the wedding that you want in 2024.
We weren't planning a traditional wedding anyway. We just want to get married legally, invite some family and friends to celebrate with us and that's that. No church or fancy wedding dresses or anything.
We never liked such a big party because we are both introverts and don't like to be the center of attention.
She did say that’s why she will wait until I am more financially secure, we can go out more often , get enough to get a place and move out and that’s when she thinks she will be more sexually attracted
Yet here you are still posting about it?
Based on the details you provided, you are not the AH for your boyfriend cutting off his female best friend. However, your boyfriend's behavior towards you, especially his lack of consideration towards your feelings and his actions behind your back, is concerning.
It's understandable to feel uneasy about your boyfriend's female best friend, especially with the little moments that made you feel uneasy, the fake account messages, and Abby's statement that your boyfriend told her you were perfect for his mom. These behaviors could be signs of emotional cheating, which could be a reason why you feel uncomfortable about the friendship.
Your boyfriend's reaction towards your concerns and anger towards you when you expressed them is not okay. Your feelings are valid, and your boyfriend should have considered them and talked to you about them, instead of getting angry and blaming you for the situation. It's also not okay for him to have sent messages to Abby saying that he's cutting her off because of you, and then saying negative things about you to her, especially with his behavior towards you during that time.
In addition, finding out that he has been exchanging affectionate messages with other women, including Abby, behind your back is a major breach of trust. The fact that he lied to you about the meaning of sending red hearts to the opposite gender is also a red flag. It's understandable to feel hurt and betrayed by his actions, especially during a time of grieving for your father.
Overall, your boyfriend's behavior is concerning and raises red flags. It's important to have open and honest communication in a relationship, and your boyfriend's lack of consideration towards your feelings and actions behind your back is not okay. It's up to you to decide whether you want to work through these issues with him or move on from the relationship
Well done for so decisively moving out, this sucks so very hot and I’m so sorry. He absolutely does not deserve you, and he does not deserve a second chance – if he spins you a story about a sex addiction (might be true)…. Great he can go and get help so he doesn’t break another woman’s heart, you’re not waiting for him to be a better human and then acting as a test subject for his treatment.
I would suggest if you really love his mum then tell her that you wanted to let her know the situation, that you’re leaving because you’ve discovered he’s crossed a serious hot line, multiple times in multiple ways in your relationship, that you’re devastated and it’s so bad that there’s no coming back from this and you absolutely don’t want any contact with him going forward and hope he’ll respect that. That at the moment you don’t want to go in to specifics you just wanted to tell her what was going on because you will miss her a lot. You can always decide to give her more information at a later date but you can’t take it back, and if he spins some crazy lies to his mum then does it really matter – he can do what he want you’re completely cutting off from him.
You need to decide if you want to maintain any contact with her – I have known people to and it’s fine but be wary of any moves from her to put him in contact with you, pass on any messages from him or try and convince you to give him another chance. If she starts any of that behaviour, or you think it’s likely she’ll do that then she needs to go on the no contact list too sadly – but you can at least give her a proper goodbye now. Or you can give her a proper goodbye, say that you think contact with her would be inappropriate or too difficult at the moment but ask if it’s ok to ask her how the dog is in a month of so. That way you’ve established a no contact boundary immediately. I suspect talking to her at the moment is going to just keep opening wounds to be honest but without knowing what your relationship is like and how long you’ve been with him it’s naked to know how important it is to salvage a relationship with her whilst not being involved with him at all. It maybe something to consider to work towards in time but not right now.
Then block him absolutely everywhere…. Including that Google number! And also, please write yourself a letter now, while these wounds are so fresh about why you’re not going to resume contact with him and why you’re not going to give him a second chance. Because at some point you’ll probably have a little wobble about how strong you’re feeling. Call a girlfriend and ask her to come over tonight and maybe even plan to stay the night at a friend’s house tomorrow night if that’s when he’s due back if you think it’s likely he might come to you flat. Obviously, don’t answer the door if you do stay – I wouldn’t even let him know you’re in there if possible. Does he have a key to yours?
You are strong, you’ve got this! It’s going to really hurt but this is disgusting behaviour from someone who claims to love you and you’re showing yourself how much you’re worthy of love and respect. So stay strong, cry as much as you need to a cuddle your dog!