People need time with their friends. Let him go do his thing and you go out with your friends. I get being hurt, but it’s a guy going to a techno concert with his mates. He doesn’t want to be responsible for someone whose ‘not into it’- so why would you go? Of course it brings others down. Don’t go to things you won’t enjoy. Don’t ruin other people’s nights when they’ve spent money to have a good time. That’s not a good look.
Go no contact with your mother forever she's a piece of shit and likely a narcissist
Advice – you don't hit girls. You are the bad guy here.
People need time with their friends. Let him go do his thing and you go out with your friends. I get being hurt, but it’s a guy going to a techno concert with his mates. He doesn’t want to be responsible for someone whose ‘not into it’- so why would you go? Of course it brings others down. Don’t go to things you won’t enjoy. Don’t ruin other people’s nights when they’ve spent money to have a good time. That’s not a good look.