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Date: October 30, 2022
We’ve been together 12 years, married 8.
Wow
She's not the bad guy in this story, and she's only 21, so I think this virtue signaling is condescending, unnecessary, and most importantly– not helpful. Just because you wouldn't cheat doesn't mean you don't do other things that some would find morally repressible, so, get off your high horse.
OP feels bad, she regrets the decision, she's learning what is and is not okay for her. I've been cheated on, I honestly didn't think anything of the other woman involved.
Then you need a new therapist who acknowledges your panic attacks for what they are.
you should have kicked her to the curb a long time ago. she will only tear you down. you need to seek out people who will inspire and support you.
And yet someone would turn down a decent, nice guy who maybe doesn’t earn much, but treats them well for a life like that ?♀️?♀️ I could never.
Whose the baby’s father?
Yeah u need to create a vacuum, give her there gift of missing u. At the moment, you’re just too in her face and she’s recoiling
Thanks man. But are there any ways to do that? I’ve always seen cuddling as a gateway
Your bf is a control freak. This is how abuse starts. Leave him. This is only going to get worse.
Again I don’t think it’s ok to assume all men are the same, but that’s your opinion and you’re entitled to it, just the same as I’m entitled to mine. We’ll agree to disagree on this one.
I remember when I was naked and kinky and now I can barely even fake interest in sex anymore due to a year of trauma and stress lol. Sweet summer child.
You need to stop discouraging her from getting a job. Is it a pride thing? This is the second post I’ve read this morning where a couple was really struggling under money pressures because he didn’t want her to work.
You have to just end it OP and let the chips fall where they may. If she reacts poorly, you have no control over that. Anything other than doing that and you constantly remain hostage, which is not fair to you. You gotta put yourself first.
She is struggling with trauma from sexual abuse but your entire post is about how to make her feel better with giving you sex more often, not about how to help her work through her trauma. Break up with her, stop pestering her about sex. She doesn’t want to have sex. She needs professional help, and you need to find a partner who matches your sex drive.
The chance of being able to have a normal talking relationship is practically zero. Your relationship is based on sexting and once that goes away, any interest in the relationship goes too. You literally don't have to say anything just stop. Or if they hit you up and wanna start up a sext session you just say you're not feeling it and don't wanna do that anymore. The only issue here is that you've given someone nudes of yourself which they can keep, share or post on-line forever. So even though there is nothing wrong with sexting there can be and often are very negative consequences attached to it.
He is 29 and she is 39? She’s obviously insecure because her man is so much younger than her. Tell her to chill out and block her. Sounds like it’s dudes problem, not yours
Username def does not check out ?
Maybe it was an accident… If you trust your gf then drop it. If you don't then break up
Yea, you’re his only option.
He wants you on a shelf until/if he’s ready. Break up with him. If you’re single when he’s ready maybe you’ll consider it. There are likely better suitors closer to you.
He claimed he noticed I was gone, but assumed I was outside 'cooling off' and wanted to give me space. I'm assuming no one went outside to look for me, since I didn't get a call until I'd been gone 2 hours.
He claimed he noticed I was gone, but assumed I was outside 'cooling off' and wanted to give me space. I'm assuming no one went outside to look for me, since I didn't get a call until I'd been gone 2 hours.
Sweet. Stealing!
Sweet. Stealing!
How is a 6month friend, his best friend, that he wants do everything but kiss, and sex appreciate? It's not not at all.
I may get downvoted for this, but hooking up with someone casually is fine, so long as you don't know anything about them? And hooking up for x period of time, still not knowing much about them? And then be surprised when something you find out about the person is a deal breaker?
Sure, he shouldn't be cheating. But maybe not judge him for telling you a bit about his life? Or have a strict policy of no conversation beyond sex?
I don't get it.
He's probably not going to stop. Seven years is a long time and makes it complicated but god forbid they have a kid. You're probably right that you're not the only one and STDs/STIs often go unnoticed in women especially when they think they're in a monogamous relationship until they cause irreversible damage. If you tell her with proof and she doesn't believe you or chooses to stay then that's on her. It almost seems like you have to tell her.
The part that resonated more to me was when he said he doesn’t have to work to please you. Instead of being grateful for that he likes to walk on eggshells. I have an ex who cheated and when confronted by his brother he said exactly the same: he “loved” me but had to cheat because he missed being creative to “please” the mistress because she made him feel like and idiot the whole time. Never again
You are not being an asshole. I felt anxious and smothered just reading this. There is nothing lovely about your partner being this needy and disrespectful of your boundaries. Honestly, I would be very concerned about how this is going to go when you have a child. You're likely to be 'touched' out by the baby alone; how is that going to work when he also feels the need to be constantly touching you?
It's time for a serious sit down, and tell him that you need to have clear boundaries and he needs to respect them, no exceptions. That means you need to be able to work uninterrupted, SHOWER uninterrupted, and say “no thanks, I'd like some alone time right now” without him pouting about it. If he can't do that, you have serious problems in your marriage and you might want to take a step back from having a child with him.
Get out before he kills you. Strangulation is a huge red flag.
We’ve been together around 7 years and haven’t had anything else other than him blaming me for everything and calling me crazy, psycho and like my mother.
Even without the strangulation that's not okay behavior.
Oh god ew… I somehow glossed over that bit…
You fucking need therapy for sure!
Hell expect massive handouts from all of them. Bulgarians are paid very little. W ski in Bulgaria and tip our instructor 100 euros each
Are we even sure Mom didn't bully her? If nothing else she's just as bad for enabling it by standing aside.
Do not sleep with teenagers, especially if they're your best friend's little sister. This whole situation is a big nope.
OP, you may think that all those steps aren’t necessary, that he won’t be an asshole when it comes to providing for his children and what not.
The reality is that he doesn’t respect you or your children. If he was ready to cheat, he could have thought of the example he would set for the kids. A divorce through honesty is better than lying and breaking promises.
You cannot know how will he react when he finds himself cornered. It will be painful for you, but you will get through it and your children will have one role model of a strong mother.
First – he needs to want to quit drinking. Second – you need to be aware it's long and naked road to recovery and he will relapse into drinking. Third – first therapy is rarely successful. You also have to start therapy, doesn't matter you will stay with hiim or not. You have to think about do you have strength to sacrifice years of your relationship to try and make it work.
But if he doesn't want to stop for himself,, there's nothing you can do to help to help him.
You are insane. Leave this man alone and get professional help immediately.
Women who have issues in their marriage and run to a guy friend about them are a red flag. She cheated on her husband which shows she has no morals when it comes to marriage. If she’s okay ruining her own marriage, she’s probably okay ruining other marriages as well. THAT is why your wife is concerned about her now. And she’s right. You’re justifying your friends cheating, which is a red flag alone. I would feel way more comfortable in this situation if my husband had no issues telling his female friend what she did is wrong. But if my husband was justifying her actions and defending her? Yeah I wouldn’t want him being friends with her anymore either.
He’s probably disappointed that his girlfriend turned out to be such a reckless, selfish, irresponsible person who carelessly breaks driving laws because they want to go shopping.
Don’t drive without a license.
I'm sorry but this thinking is delusional and immature, you have to realize that. It's literally not your duty to fix other people, and it's not up to you. Other people's lives aren't for you to control, no matter how much you disagree with them and no matter how much that person may suck. It's. Just. Not. Up. To. You.
Why do you think you should have such authority over anyone? Why do you think it's your job to change anyone? Do you really believe that you reserve the right to change who someone is against their own free will? What gives you that power? Do you see how entitled and self righteous this seems? It's actually not coming from a place of love for a family member, you're acting out of your own selfish entitlement that you have to be right and he has to change for you.
It's his life. He's his own person, and you don't get to decide how he lives it, what he believes in, or what he does or says, no matter how much you dislike it. That's just facts.
All people deserve the autonomy to be whoever they want to be, even if that means they want to be a total pile. You can spend the rest of your life arguing with this person, he will never change who he is. Some people are just fundamentally a-holes and that's who he is. Either accept that and decide to love him anyway if you refuse to “give up” on a family member, but you don't get to change who he is.
Tell her. Fuck that he is a cop that doesnt matter. This thread seeping with acab bullshit. Take the necessary precautions and film every interaction. If they are blstently targetting than you could potentially win a lawsuit.
The chances of you being killed is severely low. Reddit just thinks cops are renegade hitmen or some shit.
I can fully see it being both.
Or maybe the OP is the instigator of this wattpad and we are all being dragged into it.
My family couldn't get here day of but did come to see us after, since it was fast and we on-line over 1500 miles apart my family took a while to arrive by car but never once has je even shown me a photo of his family not that he has any physical coppies lying around I could snoop. My first ime seeing them wa s last night on the fb profiles, they do family portraits and he isn't in any of them neither is his parents or his sibling but I k ow for sure it's his family. He looks like them all those strangers, I don't guess ill ever meet especially now.
So what’s she going to do when she needs to get somewhere and you and your car are the only option?
Not go because of some massive toddler sulk?
She sounds like a joy to be with. Not.
Especially if the person you met was the opposite of the person they became. In regards to fitness or otherwise.
I value physical health and activity. I've been with chubbier people that were fit, very skinny people that were fit, and extreme gym body people… what was attractive was the fact we can drop what we're doing and do something strenuous all day.
You can expect waistlines to enlarge, things like that. I'm not expecting a thin 25 year old to look the same at even the young age of 35. But the complete change of appearance due to poor life choices in regards to physical health is unattractive to me.
You do not have to come up with excuses to turn him down. You need to tell him he stinks and needs to shower before you will have sex with him. He could give you UTIs by being un-showered.
You’re telling me you don’t know how girls work. Of course she’s going to tell her friends. Asking someone on a date is the gateway to determining if you want to be in a relationship with them. You don’t straight up ask for FWB bc you aren’t sure you want to date them. If they’re flirty with you and aren’t interested in that, as you’ve leaned you killed any chance. For future, asking someone on a date and being rejected is much more recoverable. It does not impact the entire friend circle negatively the way asking for sex from a lab partner does.
When did this special day happen and who made it up?
Is there a special guys day,?
If she is that hung up on a made up hallmark card day, thrn it's time to think about
What does she do for me? Supportive? Her number #1, etc…
Yeah you’re going to get human trafficked…..
Yes, it’s juvenile to not lay wreaths at the feet of people who have had a child. My bad. I’m going to send Mother Windsor, Lucretia Borgia and Octomom flowers. Stop being ridiculous
It's not a big deal, but I would say hook up culture is more about being attracted to someone, most people don't just go up to just anyone and sleep with them, they find the person they're attracted to/vibe with. Not caring about them necessarily, but some type of attraction whether it be looks or personality will factor in to casual sex.
I've never known anyone to casually sleep with someone they weren't attracted to at all.
I fail to see how this guy lead you on. He was being friendly.
But in order to handle rejection – you need to get rejected. Obviously you have not tried that a whole lot.
It's a bad idea because (a) you work together (b) you are incompatible because he wants to be a father.
Also, it sounds like he is not putting himself out there so I find his level of effort kind of concerning. He is 42, single, and seems his goal is to marry and have kids, but doesn't sound like is doing anything about it.
Agreed!
I love my girl friend. I bought a new car short before we start to on-line together.
She offered to pay half of the my car's monthly loan because she also using my car (she doesn't have one). That's very nice of her. But I refused because the title is on my name. It will remain on my name, too. No need to add her to the title. No need to make her pay for a car loan that's on my name.
The fuck did I just read.
You harmed and terrified your girlfriend to win an argument?
I know people around your age hate this….and I did, too……but here I go.
You’re so young. And while I totally get being in love and feeling like this is Your Person, the truth is….you and he will change 400,000 times before you’re out of your twenties. You don’t know that those changes will make you more, less, or equally compatible. At this age, the odds are heavily stacked against you. Heavily.
Go to school, experience the whole thing of it. Try to stay together, even. Don’t compromise yourself.
Source: married at 18, divorced at 20-something, turned out just fine after years of drama
You’re a fucking moron
Look for a new job
Depending on the length of the break, it will leave you feeling undesired and all that negative stuff, I’ve been there. Even with them telling you it isn’t about that. It’s something you have to accept and push through mentally on your own while they deal with their issues. Luckily our sex life is finally bouncing back a bit.
Jfc do not listen to this other person condoning the deplorable actions of a 31 year old man. If he truly only reacted this way out of severe trauma (the trauma this person is describing is severe), he would have been extremely apologetic once he realized what happened. I know this because I have personally reacted to things in problematic ways due to severe reaction, then truly felt awful after I realized it. Awful enough to where I CHANGED my behavior afterwards.
It's easy bye bye
He shares a room with his sister? What in Targaryen!?
Do what you feel comfortable with.
Stop invading his privacy, that’s my advice.
We don’t know exactly what you did wrong, but it sounds whatever it was it was strong enough for her to hold a grudge. Have you been working on improving together? I think you two need to go to professional relationship counseling to talk this out if you want to make it work and find some solutions neither of you have thought of before, otherwise it might fall out on its own. You shouldn’t just stay in a relationship because of sunk cost fallacy. Yes it’s been many years of memories but when it comes to commitment you choose to love and be happy in that and work through that commitment together through the hardships and if you feel like you can’t do that then the relationship will not last
Yes, of course and by my gfs wish
This guy has some nerve!
And how in the world can you can sit here and tell us you've “fallen in love” with a guy who sl*t-shames you, calls you a wh*re, and treats you like crap?!?
He honestly thought he was going to meet a 25yo virgin anywhere other than a private Christian college?!? What a bozo!
Your guy isn't “insecure”! He's a toxic misogynistic pr*ck who should become a hermit and stay away from the entire female population. You need therapy to find out why you're willing to accept this abuse!
EXACTLY!!! Enforce the boundary with a restraining order OP!! These people are delusional and delusional is Dangerous!!
Should I just confront her directly again? I feel like I get really weak when she starts crying.
For some reason YouTube thinks I’m one of those guys. I’m a 39yo straight lady. My shorts feed is all FnF, the Tate bros, that Brian guy. Basically a bunch of hammers who think they deserve more nails but also hate nails.
Considering how you felt about your own choices you are especially vulnerable to his type of abuse and negging. He knows that about you already. You need to leave him and then work out the feeling you have about yourself.
You’ll never be a virgin again but that doesn’t make you less or broken. Don’t allow you, your priest, dad or any dickhead to talk shit to you.