I gained 20lb very fast. It may not sound like a lot, but it was in a short amount of time. I didn’t notice until all my pants stopped fitting me. My shirts still fit okay, but one day my SO turned to me and asked why I was always “dressing up”. I had to admit that dresses were the only thing that fit me anymore.
I think whether you notice or not largely depends on how long it took to gain the weight. When it’s done slowly over time, it’s not as dramatic of a change.
Your boyfriend is abusing you. You should leave him before it escalates. I think you know that, and you’re looking for confirmation that you’re right. Here it is. Leave him.
“It's not a dream”
I gained 20lb very fast. It may not sound like a lot, but it was in a short amount of time. I didn’t notice until all my pants stopped fitting me. My shirts still fit okay, but one day my SO turned to me and asked why I was always “dressing up”. I had to admit that dresses were the only thing that fit me anymore.
I think whether you notice or not largely depends on how long it took to gain the weight. When it’s done slowly over time, it’s not as dramatic of a change.
Your boyfriend is abusing you. You should leave him before it escalates. I think you know that, and you’re looking for confirmation that you’re right. Here it is. Leave him.
Probably just an oversight on his part. Hot to tell.
You asked him if that's why he won't give you oral and he declined, so that's all you can go by.
Sometimes dudes just say and do stupid things.
yes, but you are using them regardless. it's still gross