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Date: October 8, 2022
It actually does make sense. You spent many years of your son’s life doing what you thought was best for him and completely ignoring what he wanted. He wanted to be treated normally. He didn’t want extra help, assistance, accommodations, etc. You even mentioned that his teachers at school trusted him enough to know what he needed. If they trusted him, why didn’t you? You spent literal years not listening to him, doing things that only further alienated him and caused him to go into a depression. He didn’t kill himself because he refused your help. He killed himself because you refused to give him what he actually needed, you refused to listen to him, and you refused to treat him like a human being instead of some project that you had to fix. What he needed was loving parents who respected his autonomy and respected his wishes. Unfortunately, it makes sense why your daughter has cut you off. You refuse to accept responsibility for your shitty parenting and refuse to acknowledge the damage you caused. Kate has zero obligation to be in your life. Just because you birthed and raised her doesn’t mean she owes you anything.
I want to second this. I've tried a variety of therapists at different times in my life. They never text me. If I get anything it's a automated “you have an appointment with XYZ at XYZ. To cancel press C”
Additionally despite having at times toxic relationships à therapist never suggested or even planted any idea other than having me work through needing to move on. I understand there are different styles of therapy, with some being more casual, but this person seems a bit too friendly to be acting in a medical way.
Yeah you’re no longer compatible. You have two choices give her a baby or go your separate ways. She deserves to be a mother.
Let’s count the red flags, shall we, OP?
has isolated you from friends and family has depleted your ability to be financially independent has behaved in a hurtful and shallow manner despite ultra-basic common sense dictating that this was not an appropriate date suggestion (he is lying when he acts as though he believed it to be a sensible thing to suggest) he employs textbook DARVO on you as soon as you bring up your completely reasonable response to his behavior your instinct at this point is not the natural, rational one but rather a self-undermining one due to his ongoing erosion of your independence, self esteem, and confidence
DING DING DING! We’ve got ourselves a controlling, abusive/abusive-to-be man who is trying to destroy your sense of self so that he can control you and force you to behave as his little ego-booster for the rest of your life! It’s a tale as old as time, and I’m very sorry our society has utterly failed to provide the support, education, and understanding you deserve in order to avoid this type of man.
Let me be clear: this is not a relationship. This is 100% his show, as far as he is concerned, and you aren’t a real person “like him.” Get away from him for a day and really look back at your relationship. Stop ignoring the red flags. We all find ourselves in these types of situations and you shouldn’t feel embarrassed or ashamed to admit that you ended up here. It’s okay, seriously — no reasonable person would judge you for the time you’ve spent in this situation because many of us have already been there!
But you do need to get away from him and establish your own independent life, my friend. You are a whole, autonomous person, you are not “moody” or difficult or a bad partner. He and those like him are LYING. They will always, always lie to you and to everyone else around them. Don’t let him suck you down into his cesspit of narcissistic misery. You’re so much better and brighter than that, so leave his ass in the dust and start living YOUR life again! Best wishes, and feel free to reach out if you need to talk ❤️