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He may be gay but she’s still straight. So why does she think that a gay guy doing it to her is OK? He’s still a guy and she’s still a girl who will respond to a guy’s body.
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If you dont like it you tell her how lovely it looks and what a fantastic difference it makes.
Its not whether you like it or not it is about her being happy and confident. If she's you gf then surely thts what you want for her.
It really sounds like your dad is clinically depressed. If he is starving himself, you could perhaps get him committed for his own safety. It will destroy your relationship with him for some time, but he’ll be alive.
Maybe he’s wearing them
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Because I'm so used to it that by the time i stop bullshitting myself and face the reality of my situation it's already full blown toxic, gaslight/lovebomb, neglected loyalty, lies, the whole 9 and I'm just drowning In it because I made the choice to be so blind for so long for the benefit of “happily ever after”. Idk does that make sense? I've been working on this downfall for about a year in therapy. I lie to myself about my partners red flags coming out and the nature of the relationship changing completely, because I get my hopes up that I've found a healthy partner when it's going great In the stage where they're putting up their best front; and then when it starts to crumble I want to believe it won't stay fucked up forever because I don't want the hurt again. so i just allow the behaviors when I shouldn't. It's some deep rooted fucked up problem with ignoring my feelings and needs (“staying strong”) for the benefit of those who are important to me at any cost. I know, it's bad. But believe it or not this is progress for me.. I wouldnt even be admitting any of this was a problem to anybody in the past, definitely not to myself
What if you get married and then you get ill, won't be able to work and will need to get treatment? Do you think this kind of man will stand by your side? In sickness and health? Nah, only in financial stability. Also he acts like he earns six figures lol
Yea you really should be able to rely on him, he's an adult and should be able to deal with adult responsibilities. He should be able to understand that being in a relationship means spending time together, even if you're not really doing anything.
I hate to be so extreme but I feel like all that's left is an ultimatum. If he can't learn to manage his gaming in a healthy way, do you really want to stay in a relationship like that? With someone who basically prioritises his gaming over his relationship?
Tell her you wish her well but you have realized she was right and breaking up was the right choice. Then sort out the separation details as friendly as possible.
And while you should never say this out loud, thank the great spaghetti god that this happened. You will be grateful eventually. You both are young, and she clearly isn’t ready for a more settled lifestyle. Mourn the end of the relationship, remember the good and learn from this what you don’t want in the next relationship and what you don’t want to repeat.
That's awesome to hear! I think the therapy will help you to kinda sort through all these thoughts and emotions. One recommendation with therapy, go in with goals for yourself. And don't be afraid to look for a different therapist if the first one doesn't mesh right… It can take a bit of work sometimes to find a good one.
Honestly, he sounds like a good dude. Does he know exactly what you are dissatisfied with? Is there something you could have communicated or done sooner to have avoided feeling this way now?
I think the best route forward is to dig deep, examine your feelings, and communicate with him your appreciation for his support, talk up his good qualities for you, but that you are unsure this will work out and that therapy is going to help you process what you are going through and you can't guarantee that y'all will be together afterwards.
It's a difficult talk, but a respectful one. It lets him know where you are at, why you want to fight for the relationship, but allows him the opportunity to walk if this is not the parth he wants to take with you.
Your focus is going to have to be on yourself for awhile, and that can be hard for a partner to go through.
Hopefully this has helped a little!
Kick this man out.
If you aren't ready for that, then at least set down some rules for yourself, starting with, there are no “wife things” that ANYONE is “required” to do.
If he wants a partner who will function like an old school wife, well then he should be an old school husband and financially support you. Oh he doesn't want to do that? Of course he doesn't, but then why would you cook and clean for him?
Please, set some boundaries:
ALL bills need to be split 50/50, if he won't pay them directly, then he needs to give you X at the beginning of each month for internet, electric, and groceries. He has to do 50% of the chores, end of story. If he won't do the dishes, then don't cook for him
You deserve better than he is treating you, not just on Valentine's Day, but every day. So start by being honest and calm with him that he needs to step up and be an equal partner, and no, you are not required to do “wife things” for any man, especially one that isn't pulling his “husband things.”
It’s amazing how many creepy older guys manage to get involved with young women and almost straight away completely ruin it for themselves by being.. well, themselves ?. Glad to see you’ll be leaving him
Sounds like you should go to counseling. His communication tactics make me very uncomfortable for you. Him turning the focus to your “moods” or “head space” and using terms like “always” and “never” – that's all very manipulative.
What you were asking for is very simple and standard in relationships. But what you got in response was defensive and bordering on gaslighting. It seems to have culminated in him giving you an ultimatum of sorts; saying you better take a “long, hard look at yourself” and start “being nicer to him” sounds like he's threatening to breakup.
I think you'd be wise to seek a counselor for yourself and discuss the idea of couples counseling with the professional. Show them this post and get feedback.
The way he chooses to respond to you does not seem healthy.
Alt guys generally like alt girls. You are not an alt girl
It seems suss that her friend would ask you when she knows that you have been in a situationship recently with her friend. Either she is a shitty friend, or you are being tested.
Well, what benefits do you wish him to impart to you in order to make you feel equitable?
you might even bring up the fact that if he really wanted this he may actually be happier in the long run pursuing a relationship with other people who were into that sort of thing. not as a dig, tho that may be difficult
Uhm… when you sign the legal papers to get married, what's yours is hers. Until then, not even close.
Also, this relationship seems doomed. You're as different as Osama bin Laden and Ghandi. Best to wind this down before you get more involved.
Idk why but Reddit isn’t showing me comments. Just reading from what I get through Email. But to answer a few questions. No, she is not inexperienced. We’ve had full conversations about kinks, likes, dislikes, and we are both on the same page with everything. The main issue just seems to be her lack of desire to partake in sexual things that she would do to me, she wants me to do things to her but when it’s “my turn” so to speak…she’s checked out. And it’s not that I’m asking her to do anything crazy that she doesn’t like or something. I just want to finish somehow. But I end up with blue balls every time….
This is totally deprived of relevant context. What’s the content she’s reacting to? Who’s this guy? And most importantly – why did you look through her phone?
To me, based on the post, her behavior isn’t a big deal. This isn’t even a deal. You’re coming across way worse than she does. If I were to look at it as objectively as possible, I’d say come clean about what you did, ask her about this guy and if needed suggest boundaries for SM.
Why try to win back a cheater. She should be the one trying to win you back. Its like putting the victim in jail. This will sound harsh but I am speaking as a friend. Grow a spine and stop cleaning up her mess. “Come pick me up.” “Call AP you are his problem now.”
I was just gonna say this.
I bet if you told him to add some inches to his junk he'd have a fit.
Alot of reassurance, he will show me his phone, answer any questions I have if I see a message. He also doesn't really go anywhere without me alot of the time. He's very open with communication and solving any conflicts we might have. He does thoughtful things all the time. He has also worked on himself.
People are not going to advise you on how to salvage things with your abuser. I'm sorry man, but this is something you should run from. Once you get your car back, of course.
Even after knowing i still continue to do all these thing. I am a terrible person 🙁
I don’t like the bed thing… but for me it’s the immaturity of missing the train to begin with.
You are allowed to say no.
“No, that isn't something I can help you with.”
Her choices, her consequences.
You're right. I still struggle with that “what happens happens”, but I guess I have to work on it. Thanks for the support, it means a lot!