So you are worried that if you break up with her, she will sleep with someone else shortly thereafter? Who cares. Just break up with her now so she doesn't waste any more time on this ridiculous relationship.
She was pregnant and about to pop and thought you cheated. That’s a terrible feeling. Be mad at your ex for this, not your current partner, she did this to you both.
Maybe it is time to incorporate him into your therapy so that he can learn to cope with your high anxiety.
No offense but life will be full of anxiety producing moments and if you can't regulate your emotions better, think of what a small child is going to experience when they see you wigging out and balling at what other people just accept is a part of life stress. I commend you for your progress, but there is work yet to be done.
And if he is going to be your life partner, I think he needs to be involved.
So you are worried that if you break up with her, she will sleep with someone else shortly thereafter? Who cares. Just break up with her now so she doesn't waste any more time on this ridiculous relationship.
She was pregnant and about to pop and thought you cheated. That’s a terrible feeling. Be mad at your ex for this, not your current partner, she did this to you both.
Maybe it is time to incorporate him into your therapy so that he can learn to cope with your high anxiety.
No offense but life will be full of anxiety producing moments and if you can't regulate your emotions better, think of what a small child is going to experience when they see you wigging out and balling at what other people just accept is a part of life stress. I commend you for your progress, but there is work yet to be done.
And if he is going to be your life partner, I think he needs to be involved.
This is who she is. If you find it inappropriate, you’re incompatible.
Bestie OP’s partner lied, for years.
I always find these type of posts funny. Because if the rules are reversed women will say “ask the woman what she wants to do and then do that”.
But when women ask the question. They seem to go out of their way to avoid the man asking for what he wants (which is usually sex).