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Date: October 28, 2022
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That's how abusers keep you there, by being decent and loving sometimes. It's part of the manipulation and cycle of abuse.
Yeah, you’re being abused.
A 38 year old man who pursues a 21 year old woman isn't going to be appropriately mature for his age. If he was, he'd be married to another 43 year old. You say your ages aren't the problem, but they tell us so much about who he is and what your dynamic is. Men approaching middle age who date very young women want to meet an immature standard of attractiveness. That's what he sees as masculinity.
Hopefully hahaha
She doesn’t need to be having more babies when she isn’t even raising the ones she has. Also, babies are human beings, not aliens. Their cues are not naked to interpret.
Thank you I suggested this and she hugged me so I think she’s feeling better now!
Exactly ? I am a redhead and my bf loves redheads .
I don’t know that this is a bad thing? Lots of people have a type that turns them in sexually. Finding that unique individual that is both your type and with whom you are compatible is marriage gold.
It’s akin to an Asian woman finding out her husband, with whom she is extremely happy, watches only porn featuring Asian women.
But if it upsets you, that’s ok. And something to address. Either with a therapist or with him. Perhaps with a therapist first? I don’t want to invalidate your feelings, just offer a different prism through which to view the situation.
Just remember, you definitely want to be your husband’s type.
Best of luck to you and I wish you well whatever path you take.
Are you me? Was fully prepared to say the same thing
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you jump, you fall. the distance was badly estimate. the cliff was traitorous. you had no way to know.
time to look for another cliff, this one is not for you to climb.
keep him as a friend (without physical contact anymmore) and find a rebound BF to receive the affection you has been missing. it is always easier to fing a BF when you already have a BF.
he will prably ressent. but it is his guilt, not your gambit.
you jump, you fall. the distance was badly estimate. the cliff was traitorous. you had no way to know.
time to look for another cliff, this one is not for you to climb.
keep him as a friend (without physical contact anymmore) and find a rebound BF to receive the affection you has been missing. it is always easier to fing a BF when you already have a BF.
he will prably ressent. but it is his guilt, not your gambit.
Oooooo good idea
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I'd let it die. If he's interested he'll show you and he may just not be interested. Do you have much in common? You're grown adults but he is closer to 40 than 30 so just wondering if that made you feel any way or increased your anxiety?
Maybe she realised it just wasn’t going to work out, you’re young, it’s only been 2 months, it’ll be naked but you’re best off finding someone else. You’ll look back and won’t have any regrets
You have a gut feeling because your bf's behavior is deceptive. What he has with that woman isn't friendship. Friends are people who don't have romantic feelings for each other. Just the fact your bf knows that woman is interested in him and is willing to pursue his ambiguous and close relationship with her despite knowing how you feel about it shows how unhealthy his relationships with both you and that woman are. He brushed off your feelings away with such ease, that woman's feelings are, at the other hand, so important that he's willing to rock his relationship with you over her.
I can see why his kids don't want to spend Christmas with him.
I think you're right in rethinking the marriage. Whether it's true or not that he married you solely to be a mother figure for the kids (why? they have their actual mother), he devaluated your marriage himself by saying those words.
Maybe HE still can make it work (it's not your job; he did the harm, he must make up for it), but you must be very observant.
He sounds like a waste of resources
You need to get out of there as fast as possible.
Yeah, especially once the partner has started coming to most family events.
It’s pretty bad, it’s very close to cheating. But I personally wouldn’t end a relationship for this immediately. I would communicate that I want a sincere serious apology and commitment to stop interacting with other people sexually on the internet. And probably a 2 week break so they have the chance to meditate on the severity of their actions.
If this is something which he refuses to see your side about, not doing it, then he doesn’t. He shouldn’t expect you to do something you are not comfortable. Telling him no will give you the answer. He should drop it and not keep asking.
If you can, contact his parents. Hopefully it’ll embarrass him enough that he stops this attention seeking
It's his house too. It's unfair to ask him to get lost so you can have it all for yourself. You can ask that he doesn't bother you, same as you don't bother him when he's working, and it's absolutely reasonable if you want to go somewhere without him. It is not reasonable to tell someone who's paying rent that they leave the house just because you want privacy. You can have privacy in your own room, if you have one, or you can have privacy if you rent a bigger house, or a house where you live on your own.
Stay happy, and understand she's an insecure B who needs to grow up. Next time you hear it, be prepared with a dismissive, snarky-ish comeback that's also fun. Then wave it away and change the subject. Don't play the role she's casting you as. ?
Stop asking questions you don't want to know the answers to.
Also stop attacking him for being honest, that will just teach him that being honest with you is a bad idea
OP, I'm sooo happy for you that you found someone who actually loves you and supports your goals/dreams. It's ok to let your emotions out, your ex was horrible. All the best to you and your GF.
I think that's a pretty asshole mentality. We live in a screwed up culture where men have almost no access to birth control at all short of condoms which are unreliable and do degrade the experience, or vasectomy which is basically permanent and requires surgery. Men really don't have a whole hell of a lot of options, while women have tons. I agree that you should have just gone ahead and had a vasectomy years ago when he knew he didn't want kids anymore. It's what I would have done to make sure. I mean realistically short of not having sex it's the only kind of control we actually have over whether or not we end up having kids. So I sure wouldn't risk it. But at the same time I think you're guilting this man is inappropriate.
What happens if he breaks any if these rules? What are the consequences? Those have to be spelled out, too. But if you have to list these things, you don’t trust him and it isn’t even about cheating. You sound like you really don’t want to live with him so be realistic.
I know you're getting a lot of comments to just pull your finger out and do it. But ffs the most important piece of advice is to TALK. TO. HER.
Tell her that her asking, pushing, nagging all the time has really ruined the magic for you and that whilst you definitely want to marry her, you want it to be both a surprise and special for the both of you. Until you stop feeling such intense pressure, you feel it will be less excitement and celebration WHEN you propose, vs just relief. Which would honestly be shit.
After reading your post, I doubt that your wife is actually “hurt”.
It seems like she uses emotion to control you. She first “gets upset”, so she uses anger. And if you argue back then you are “putting her down”, making her “sad”.
You learned to walk on eggshells to survive, but any relationship where you have the need to do that is ABUSIVE. You should be allowed to always be yourself and you deserve to be loved for it.
She just wants to cheat with permission and not feel guilty about it. Break up, she doesn't respect your, your boundaries or yalls relationship.
This is a pretty bad mindset. I'm a much better partner and person because of the relationships I've been in. Sure it sucks that they didn't work out but I learned a lot of lessons from them than I can take to a new relationship. I don't define myself by whether I'm in a relationship or not.
If he is honest then he can honestly and casually inform others that he is in a relationship. Maybe even introduce you to others to announce his status.
Came here to say this. Don’t settle! If someone scares you or doesn’t respect your boundaries, these are clear red flags. Both of these guys are showing you exactly who they are and you don’t seem to like it.
Sounds like your daughter established a boundary she would like you to respect in order to continue a relationship with her. You have two choices- accept the boundary and have a good relationship with your daughter OR don’t accept the boundary and show your daughter she’s not worth respecting which will only damage the relationship as she insists on her worth. You don’t get to tell her what she should or shouldn’t be willing to accept from people- that’s her choice.
Totally agree with your comment in theory but in practice it’s just so much harder than that. I’ve only been feeling like this for a few weeks, a month tops, so I keep wondering whether maybe it will just pass? Or maybe things will work out? But at the same time I’m aware the longer I have these thoughts the more I’m stringing her along which I know is awful. How would you discuss this in the least hurtful way?
Wonder if it was some kind of mind game. Wouldn’t surprise me if there’s some stupid tiktok fad related to seeing how long you can keep people on the hook for stuff like this.
Wonder if it was some kind of mind game. Wouldn’t surprise me if there’s some stupid tiktok fad related to seeing how long you can keep people on the hook for stuff like this.
You are live dating. I don't think anyone who has online friends for over a year memorizes they're bday. That's mostly an irl friend thing He was off by a day.
If this is the straw that breaks the camel's back you might as well call it quits now.
You are live dating. I don't think anyone who has online friends for over a year memorizes they're bday. That's mostly an irl friend thing He was off by a day.
If this is the straw that breaks the camel's back you might as well call it quits now.
yeah I think the best you can do at this point is to try to make an effort. In the 2 years, have you picked up on any Vietnamese? My BF isnt fluent but he knows a few words here and there so he can piece together our conversation
I used the words OP used on the post. Granted he did write “adult-related entertainment” and not adult entertainment.
She gave you a boundary and you agreed to it then did it anyway.
Also he's jealous.
Imagine you have to travel for work with a colleague… yikes
Just tell him. Trying to hide it is going to destroy your relationship. If he finds out another way and realizes you've been hiding it from him he will never trust you again. The only way you have even a chance to save the relationship is to be honest and come clean. Preferably as soon as it happened but late is better than never.
Sorry to say that there isn’t anything to save. Seems that she is done.
Don’t be a doormat and start sorting your life out for yourself.
Don’t take this the wrong way but get some help. This is an unhealthy obsession now, he’s not perfect. He’s some normal dude who eats, shits, and bleeds like everyone else
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I needed to hear this.
In a lot of cultures, they'd find it far more “wild” that you can permanently end the life of some dumb 14 year old who's stealing pennies out of your change bowl. They'd say that retributive justice is a far more wild, “law of the jungle” approach than the criminology traditions of Enlightenment thinkers like Bemtham or Voltaire. (These are the same thinkers who laid the foundations of modern democracy, based on the same humanist ideas of natural rights, and the like.)
The beauty of the democracy that these thinkers created is that local laws reflect different cultural norms of different places.
Even if I’ve made the importance to me of this pet’s wellbeing very clear, and he continues to not care?
Doesn’t drink/smoke or do any drugs. As far as I know….?
Leave now!
I’m outside of NY. I’ll go to your graduation.
I was getting too loose too fast.
Or his dick is small and he’s projecting?
He didnt reject her, they were together for almost 4 years.
Long term this behaviour will make you miserable. He’s fine with making you unhappy.
It’s not going to be a happy relationship when he openly calls you a problem and isn’t worried about hurting you.
Use his own tactics. Go silent until you get an apology. It probably won’t work but in the long run because it’s ultimately mutually destructive.
Maybe you represent stability. But think about it…. Is ANYTHING worth feeling that level of betrayal?
Maybe you represent stability. But think about it…. Is ANYTHING worth feeling that level of betrayal?
I think he is a pig. All guys aren't pigs but some are .
Learn your lesson, thank your stars you don't have two kids with him. Take your time to heal and move on
Well, she hasn't said it to him.
If you don’t trust your husband, you shouldn’t be married
Op. The reason no one his age wants him is because no one is putting up with that shit
Drop him and move the fuck on. Get out quick. And if u can’t. Make a plan and work towards that. STOP DOING HIS CLEANINGN THO. Don’t wash his dishes, laundry or cook for him.
You're completely wrong about the situation though. My partner WANTS to change, but that's not as easy as you make it seem. That can't be done without medication or therapy neither of which are accessible right now.
What happens when the kiss doesn't do it and she needs another kiss, and then maybe more…and more…
and maybe it just was THAT girl- and there is another GIRL who looks like a better option
my advice is if you are wondering, don't commit to a primary relationship that leaves you wondering- that goes for her and for you
Correct. Ive been so so sick the last few days
Are you sure he's even brushing once a day, or brushing properly when he does brush? I usually only brush and floss at night (not supposed to brush 30 min after eating bc it grinds food particles into your teeth, and I usually wake up and eat and immediately have to run to work). I don't get visible plaque build up.
I mean. Does it matter? If he thought you were a downgrade, why would he bother being with you? Unless, call me crazy, he thinks you’re just as beautiful and wonderful as the last person ??♀️
Anyone that has this take has definitely cheated.
There's no one answer for an entire gender. Everyone is different and not everyone feels closer to someone just because they sleep with them.
Try not viewing people as a hive mind. You'll do better in life that way.
It was a mess. Long story. I tried messaging you, but I’m not able to.