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Date: October 14, 2022
It’s not worth trying to find reason or justify. Just go nc, and be your best self
Why don't you tell him what you just wrote here ? 😉
You are right: your mom needs a pro to help her, not a family member. Her family might as well be the cause of her problems…. Try to get in touch with your GP. This doctor will help you find the help she needs. Well done kiddo!
of course it will be hard but yeah you need to decide whether its even worth it
They are adults now, so unfortunately it's yoo late. I wish that had happened but it never did. My hope is someday if they become parents, they understand I did things out of love.
Here's why this weird: He could have gone in your bathroom for 10 minutes and then came back out like he pooped. You would've never known the difference. He wanted you to know.
According to the info given, it did happen. Let's not assume things.
And even if the bf is supporting him. He was supporting a guy who had already been cheated on. And it was not a meaningless affair anyways, he literally brought this women home. So all things considered the bf is only supporting the guy for moving on from his wife and getting together with the lady he loves, because it's pretty obvious that he didn't love his wife anymore.
I'm too confused about her to make any assumptions. Maybe she did feel rejected but maybe she was just a weird drunk. I might honestly just talk to her to get my thoughts in order. This feels like shit.
I'll see if I have a chance to speak to her tomorrow but I'll probably say something different than what you had in mind. Thanks though.
She doesn't owe him sex any time he wants. It's not immature to think a fucking rape joke aimed towards you is weird.
You’re messing with her. Not cool.
It's actually the opposite, people with a good hygiene shouldn't have to use deodorant.
oh sorry, you just stupid. “before ejaculation” lol what a moron.
He deleted it… But it was pretty intense over there in the off my chest.
I'm going to kind of go against consensus here and say I get why you're upset. You had an emotional attachment and a sense of significance with this particular watch, and she took that. It's not that different to taking someone else's idea for a present for a third party, save that your gift idea was to you.
Her heart was in the right place, and she genuinely was trying to do something nice, but at the same time it will feel like she disregarded something important to you and took away a moment that you had attributed significance to, and your allowed to be disappointed in that.
Lol, 1, definitely not a boomer, 2, never said it works for everyone, but you made it sound like it's impossible.
I have a decent amount of karma from non fake stuff I wonder how much I could sell my account for lmao I’ve always been a lil curious
How exactly lecturing her now about what she did is going to stop this psycho from harassing her, which is the point of the post?
Yeah, this is the definition of soulmate that I always think of.
Translation: She’s planning on having him pay the down payment.
Damn this is a powerful line. I feel like this is something I should really think about and process with respect to my own life.
Some men just don’t know how to cook, they can learn, but they are in fear of the others reaction to the taste of the food.
The harsh truth may be this is as good as it gets for a while. Four kids is a lot. I’m a firm believer in “you can have it all, but not all at once.”
I’m guessing your kids are very young so they’re exhausting your wife physically, emotionally and mentally. As they each hit milestones, kindergarten, all-day school, sleepaway summer camp, high school, college etc you’ll both find more time/energy freed up for spontaneity and romance. For now, it may just be quickies and lacklustre sex. Marriage is about the long-haul, and some years aren’t as great as others.
My husband and I are going on 30 years now (our kid is 20) and we’re very happy together, but there were some tough years when parenthood, work, finances etc were just grinding us down. You have to trust you’ll get through these rough periods. This probably isn’t the answer you wanted to hear, but I just wanted to share my 2 cents.
Since when giving somebody an STD is not a deal breaker? It pretty much is the greatest deal breaker of all times
Okay. He has issues with this for whatever reason. And I'm sure there's a reason. You were not okay with it before, it's unlikely to have changed, can you work with it now? You need to know this before you reach out hoping to reconnect. People change but WE cannot change them
The only thing that makes me stay is remembering the good things, but honestly things like this makes the bad outweigh the good.
It sounds like she's cheating and you need to break up.
Finally, someone is talking about the real problem!
If you’re gonna comment at least read better. Wasn’t OPs friends but a friend of the sister.
The OP is a scientist and you decided to tell her…how science works?
I am a professor in a STEM field, and suffice it to say that the OPs take on scientific beliefs sounds quite on target to me. Science involves having an open mind to certain kinds of claims and beliefs and not to others. It may seem a bit mad, but I promise you there's a method to it. It is not just about “keeping an open mind.”
Make your lazy, deficient son provide for you. Since you spent all your money on him he owes you. And that’s what he’s supposed to do “in your culture.” Your daughter, once she married into her husband’s family became his problem – per your “in your culture.”
She’s not a psychopath … but you are. Which is why you refuse to accept that everybody 100% understands what you did to your daughter (especially). Your “good boy, non-back-talking, compliant son” is acting exactly as a result of how you raised him. Maybe you have lots of grandchildren already? When he got teenaged girls pregnant. But you don’t know about them because he gave every boy the name ‘Jacob’ and every girl baby his sister’s name. So you wouldn’t find out. Like he learned from you about how to hide illegitimate children.
I'm 22 and I didn't know it was Women's Day. I didn't hear it from anyone, not even my boyfriend lmao
You were raped or made to think you had sex with her. Just because you’re a man doesn’t mean someone taking advantage of you being black out drunk isn’t assault (if it even happened).
That pregnancy was probably a lie.
Agreed. Everyone on Reddit takes themselves so seriously
Let her be mad. You have the right to not become a father & good on you for knowing that. If condoms are a deal breaker for her, you need to break up with her.
Exactly. Also, this guy is one of those people that doesn't think other people can be different than him. They can only be wrong. He has one way of communicating, and that's the RIGHT way. She enjoys texting and staying in more frequent contact, but since he doesn't, she is WRONG.
Reminds me of a relative who doesn't like to text. He only emails. He says “why text on a small screen when I can type longer messages, and type faster in email? Texts are too short and impersonal!”
And you know what has happened to that relative? He's now emailing into the void, most of us don't check email that often now, and the rest of the extended family communicates frequently via text, because that is fun and easy for us all. The times we do see his emails, it's always a very long email, so no one responds, since how do you respond easily to a wall of text, multiple pages long? In short, he's stuck in his one way, and doesn't care that everyone else has moved on. If you talk to him about it, he insists he's right, and everyone else around him is wrong.
The way I would go about it then is to talk to her after everything is said and done, the throwing up and crying etc.
“Hey, (insert name) it’s really hard for us to come to a compromise when you react like that. I understand this is something that may be out of your control but maybe we can work on ways to communicate without getting too overwhelmed to the point of you getting sick. I feel like I can’t disagree with you due to this and for me that’s becoming really difficult to navigate this relationship with you. Maybe adjusting medication could help because confrontation can be hard, I understand that but we really need to work on this together.”
Idk something soft and a togetherness type of feel. I have multiple loved ones with extremely bad anxiety but none of them have left an argument ready to vomit medicated or not. She either needs her meds adjusted or learn better coping skills for her anxiety as a counselor she should be open to at least discussing those things.
For example if there is still a mortgage and he has to pay his folks say 2000 a month and he asks you for 600, I'd say that is pretty fair. If there is no mortgage and mum and dad still make him pay rent and he asks you 600 as part of that…. well his parents seem a little greedy, or that's how they raised him, no free lunch. In such a case rent may still be cheap. If he is paying his parents nothing a month and asking you for 600 a month then I'd say you have real issues then.
OP -What are you looking for here? I would never let anyone tell me what to wear. This is not a good foot for you two to get off on…..he's controlling your wardrobe at 19? Who TF does he think he is, your husband?
“However, I'm very dependent on him and value his opinion a lot.” Does he pay your way thru this life? Does he pay your rent or bills? Why are you so dependent on a man who thinks he's gotta control your wardrobe? Because you let him control that, you'll let him control anything.
It's your life, OP. You do what you like and if allowing him to control your wardrobe is okay with you, then have at it. But I can tell you his controlling probably won't stop at your wardrobe.
Tl;Dr: I don't think I love my wife anymore because she's constantly berating me for the things I love.
well yeah, that isn't healthy. games or sports or whatever, you have to have something you enjoy doing that isn't relationship shit or work. does she just want your whole world to be around her?
She was careless with your sexual health.
Dream girl or not I'd say that's a huge red flag.
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Agreed…not a mistake. Booking a trip? Holy hell…. Not a mistake.
It hurt me bc she did it behind my back and it had been going on for months. Relationships are built on trust and I trust her to be faithful to me. She had mentioned to me when our relationship began a message her ex sent her and I had no problem. But when she keeps it a secret and I find out on my own my mind immediately goes to “what else is she hiding” and erodes my trust for her. No problem her getting closure or catching up with someone who was important in her life and leaving it at that.
“For context, I am a really insecure person”
What insecurity did seeing the porn leaks trigger? Also, knowing your bf watches porn, and the leaks aren't of exes, why is it hurtful?
I'm saying that you feeling hurt is invalid, but as another user pointed out, what expectations did you have that wasn't already on the table?
So she's taken to giving herself a mantra whenever she feels down, along the lines of “I'm beautiful, I'm talented, I'm a genius”, and so on. While it's not necessarily harmful to tell yourself these things
Why “necessarily”? Sounds like she's doing affirmations, which are a legit therapy technique and not an “MLM” thing. They are not just not harmful, they are proven to be helpful with self-worth.
It feels like you're making some incorrect assumptions about how she's interacting with this material and what it even is. Is she actually buying crystals thinking they're the secret to happiness? If not, trust that she's smart enough to tell the difference between self-development and a scam.
Not everyone wants to hear “you were born and that's good enough.” I think you're moving too far in the other direction and that's why you're getting so much pushback from her. You can point to her actual accomplishments rather than trying to forcibly make her happy with just existing. It honestly all feels a little condescending, like you're trying to re-parent her.
If this stuff is helping her while she works toward affording therapy, I would leave it alone. If she DOES start to spiral because of it you can address that, but it doesn't sound like that's actually happening. Everyone has a different mental health journey and hers is not yours.
Does early onset dementia run in your family? Or hearing loss? This really, really sounds like something physically going on with your mom that needs medical involvement.