You are judging this girl way too harshly… and you don't know the whole story with her relationship with Jake, but even if it played out exactly as you said above… Jake dumped her, she moved on with someone else quickly. Jake took it badly (and therapy over an 8 month relationship ending by your own choice seems very extreme). My guess is whoever is feeding you rumors wants to cause drama and does not have your best interests here. But really, if you are going to judge her like this, break up and allow her to move on and date someone else who won't judge her and seek out dirt on her previous relationships.
It's hot to tell you whether you're in the wrong or not without in-depth context.
Is he saying this because you're attention seeking while you're together, or are you directly demanding time?
It's your first relationship, how are your standards set in relation to the attention you seek? Do you have realistic expectations of him?
It could be he doesn't want the relationship and feels asphyxiated, or it could be that you have a romanticized idea of a relationship and he isn't vibing with it.
Have you seen this picture? even though they were free why does the type matter if they aren't going to be used? I knew someone that would lie like this and seem genuine. No sex for 4 months and she's got special not irritant Condoms she likes that were handed out at a what? 2k bicycle race or something?
I've never heard of a race competition where they hand out condoms and free sex ed. Man, she made that up and had it in the barrel just in case, sure as shit. This is my gut talking though, answering quick just means she was ready if caught. I'm only speaking from experience though so my outlook is suspicious because her answer is straight sus.
You are judging this girl way too harshly… and you don't know the whole story with her relationship with Jake, but even if it played out exactly as you said above… Jake dumped her, she moved on with someone else quickly. Jake took it badly (and therapy over an 8 month relationship ending by your own choice seems very extreme). My guess is whoever is feeding you rumors wants to cause drama and does not have your best interests here. But really, if you are going to judge her like this, break up and allow her to move on and date someone else who won't judge her and seek out dirt on her previous relationships.
It's hot to tell you whether you're in the wrong or not without in-depth context.
Is he saying this because you're attention seeking while you're together, or are you directly demanding time?
It's your first relationship, how are your standards set in relation to the attention you seek? Do you have realistic expectations of him?
It could be he doesn't want the relationship and feels asphyxiated, or it could be that you have a romanticized idea of a relationship and he isn't vibing with it.
Have you seen this picture? even though they were free why does the type matter if they aren't going to be used? I knew someone that would lie like this and seem genuine. No sex for 4 months and she's got special not irritant Condoms she likes that were handed out at a what? 2k bicycle race or something?
I've never heard of a race competition where they hand out condoms and free sex ed. Man, she made that up and had it in the barrel just in case, sure as shit. This is my gut talking though, answering quick just means she was ready if caught. I'm only speaking from experience though so my outlook is suspicious because her answer is straight sus.