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Date: November 2, 2022
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You're just going to have to let him go. It's a lose/lose for you. Fight him on it and you're the instigator.
If you're not totally cool with it, then you're not trusting enough.
If you break up with him then you're petty and jealous.
If you pretend to be cool with it, then you're denying your own feelings and creating internal pain.
The only way out is the spiritual way. Total acceptance. You cannot control him or how the trip goes. Whatever happens, happens. Let it go completely. Tell him you're not comfortable with it. Tell him that it will hurt you. Tell him that you don't need to justify your feelings. Leave it at that. The balls in his court.
And remember, anyone can cheat, leave the relationship, ghost you, or fall out of love at any time for any reason.
OP – this was naked to read because I think we all know what it feels like to be in love. He’s doing what any person would do – living life, finding love, etc. He may be oblivious to it and he may very well know what your intentions are. You need to communicate your thoughts and feelings with him, you cannot expect him to know what you’re thinking and what your intentions are – for all he knows, he’s been friend zoned by you for a couple years. You also need to be respectful of his relationship. This is a tough one, but I’d recommend seeking therapy to heal the trauma from your past.
Those men who cry are doing so in the hope you'll feel sorry for him (as if he's the victim not you).
You are being manipulated.
You're 31 with 9 kids and have been celibate 2 of those years? Wow. You're also rich with gold bars lol what a horrible troll you are.
that’s a good one! i was hoping to hang out a few more times, since we work together, before i ask him to drinks. do you have any other suggestions for conversation starters to help bring that spark up!? like ones that potentially won’t mean to hang outside of work quiet yet!? thank you ☺️
why should he delete it, it doesn't hurt him, he barely uses it as it is. his girlfriend should get over whatever trivial insecurities she has.
OP please do this. It's probably the only way he will truly understand the problem especially if he's straight and cis
Red flag.
He wants a different set of rules for him than he puts on you. Male or female, straight or homosexual relationship, it's still the same. He wants to control you and isolate you. He also wants his cake and eat it too. This isn't healthy nor is it fair for you. He is also afraid to see his ex, which makes me think he either still talks to him, or the guy isn't really his ex. He might be playing the same game with both of you.
Leave before you end up thinking all men are like this.
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“I don’t want to move to LA. I like it here, and this is where I want to build my life.”
This is not an issues with two sides to be carefully evaluated, like PlayStation vs Xbox. For most people, this is a simple right vs wrong argument. You both took marriage vows. You agreed to forsake all others. He now wants to rewrite that to his convenience, at the expense of you. For most people, that would result in a simple “no thank-you, here are the divorce papers”.
This is a good idea
She's dealing with what's probably childhood abuse. I think that's a good reason to want to be celibate for a while.
Yep. Figured it will get into your head and use it against him. What will happen when you’re no longer “conventionally attractive”? Did you ever shut down any comments like that thrown at him? Because that shit’s degrading and you weaponizing it is disgusting. You’re maybe a “catch” but you’re just letting him see that being with you have more cons than pros. He deserves someone better, someone who will not tell him that he’s lucky to have a gf with pretty face and good money but no heart.
I’m curious though, does he benefit from your high paying job???
This is what I should've said to my ex
Seriously. If you can't ask him, leave!
Would there be anything, in your eyes, that she could do at this point to make it worthwhile for me to stay?
to take blame away and project onto me?
Yeah I don't believe they ain't controllable, you look at someone like a friend treat them like a friend, and not Romanticise them, then you wouldn't develop feelings, the second she felt more than friendship she should of distance herself then not 4 years later and saying she in love with him ??♀️, all she doing is cutting her friend off ??♀️ that not doing anything that's making her friend feel like shit because her and her friend are in love with the same guy.
I did message him asking for him to give me a heads up when things happen. Now to wait for a response
You move forward by moving out.
You did everything right but we just cant predict a bait n switch. All we can do is say goodbye
What was the topic of conversation? I am wondering if fiancé, aunt and uncle all had something they needed to discuss?
I have a friend whose husband is on the right, but he's also very, very smart (I know this is unusual). He ALWAYS wants to talk politics with his wife, but she shuts him down. So when I visit we get into it. I want to hear his point of view, and he wants to hear mine. It's heated sometimes, but never discourteous. We would both be very annoyed if my friend told us not to discuss it. I think it can be discourteous to stop a conversation before the idea is finished. But I have never had friends who would do that to me.
You seen to tiptoe around your gf alot…
Does she usually react badly when you don't give her her way?
It didn’t feel appropriate to send it over the phone what so ever. I wanted to do it in person
Once. He said he didn’t know she did
Be very careful. If she's so desperate for validation from other guys there's no telling what she would do to get it.
She's a mess. She doesn't need to accept that she is a mess before you talk about solutions
Ya he talks about marriage.. sometimes and I don’t want that I’m too young for that kind of commitment. I wanna be successful in my own life
No, he didn't try to cancel on me.
You sound like the parent of a very young teenager. Pretty sure your gf is going to get tired of your controlling behavior. Either you trust her or you don’t. Stop this nonsense before she leaves you.
large age gap long distance
I won’t even bother with this one. This relationship should not be happening.
Op. Pls love yourself a bit more and grow a spine.
This other woman lives in his previous city?